Point of View  

RoyalPurpleRose 53F
307 posts
5/3/2006 11:55 am

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5/7/2006 1:54 pm

Point of View

I have been really busy for the past several days ... week, and haven't really given much time or effort to this blog. I did read a few things last week or so, that I wanted to comment on from my BFE perch ...

I saw How to pick up women through the blogs by kaliedascope61 and have to agree with many of his points. I can only address these points from my perspective, and I in no way speak for any other woman here at AdultFriendFinder.

Point #1 ... Although my posts are sometimes long, I don't always have time for reading posts that are long. If you just ramble on trying to make your point ... that point is usually lost somewhere in what you have said.

Point #2 ... Do Not yell at me. The fastest turn off for me is to yell or tell me I'm doing something I shouldn't be doing. I also don't take well to being called names (and, yes, this has happened). And it doesn't matter what 'pretty' color or font you use.

Point #3 ... I tend to read a lot of different things. I have never paid attention to whether or not the blog would be 'liked' by men.

Point #4 ... I always try to check out the blogs or profiles of those who leave comments on my blogs. Find interesting new friends that way.

Point #5 ... Have not received any negative comments. Some comments can be perceived as negative ... it's a very fine line. Proof read your comment BEFORE you add it. Think about the many ways it can be perceived.

Point #6 ... I like Flirts and I like to Flirt. This will get you noticed.

Point #7 ... I do watch who 'visits' my blog. I know those that do not comment. I have not yet blocked anyone because of 'blog stalking' .. but it is an option that I have.

Point #8 ... I do notice the man that is funny in his comments. You don't have to make an ass of yourself .... but it's a good start.

Point #9 ... I do read a lot of blogs by men. I don't always read every comment though. I try to scan through and read the comments that catch my attention. So be inventive and honest.

Point #10 .. I'm not impressed by all the pics of cocks. There are a couple of pics that have been sent to me that are fake. You can tell they are fake too. Chest, arms, just eyes, feet ... again be creative.

Point #11 .. I do know who the 'blog stalkers' are on my blog. You don't have to leave a paragraph ... just leave a comment that this post got you thinking ... etc. Not hard.

I don't aspire to be the most popular or most read or whatever. I do appreciate those who do read and comment. They often make my day brighter.

Royal Purple Rose

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

5/3/2006 12:13 pm

I have to totally agree with you about the subject"pictures of cocks".

Lady Bambi

MysteryDreamer 58F

5/3/2006 12:52 pm

I totally agree with you!!!!!!!!!
Hope your day is brighter

funontheside4you 42M/39F

5/3/2006 2:51 pm

I am thinking of being one of those stalkers, nice blog....lol

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
5/3/2006 6:53 pm

I thought I heard my name in here

One day I know I will have to go back and amend my own post about these things.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
5/3/2006 8:09 pm

You really made some great points here RPR! And I have to agree you. I don't think your blogs are too long....do you?

RoyalPurpleRose 53F

5/4/2006 4:46 am

Strange ... the title of his post was here yesterday ... now it has disappeared. I'll try to fix it ... wish me luck. I'll try to respond to all of you later. Thanks for stopping by and visiting.

~Kisses, RPR

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