Dating and it's entanglement  

RoxyMarie1013 31F
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3/5/2006 6:18 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Dating and it's entanglement

So I recently got a comment that struck a nerve, but then also was very true.

"Hi, you know I'm not trying to sound mean or anything but I just feel like todays girl don't make a big deal about fidelity, seriously, yes you're a cutie and I think any boy would like to "try" you (me first) but, that you can get laid with ease doesn't mean that you have to, If you're bored sexually then try someTHING different and not somebody.. If it really only is sex the problem I think that you should try to make it better with your guy.. there's tons of way to improve it.. trying somebody else will lead to mothing, if it's better than it'll just make things worse.. a penis is a penis.."

And to reply to that, I feel strongely about fidelity. I've always stayed committed to my relationship. But, and it's a big but, I don't think I'm just questioning sex, but the relationship all together. Love my guy to death, but he also knows how to push my buttons like no one else. I mean is it healthy to think of being with someone else?

I go crazy for 10 minutes when I'm alone, but that's mainly because he's lived with me for so long now. And now and again, I get offered dates from family and friends who know that I'm in a relationship. Do they see something I don't? Besides of course, he has no motivation whatsoever.

And girls will understand what I mean on this. You don't want to be dependent on your man, but you want to know that he is stable enough financially to help you out, or to stand on his own. Which are things my guy lacks.

I can't even imagine what he would do in the future. He's 21, and it seems like I'm the adult, and I'm fresh out of high school.

And this blog turned into relationship counseling which was not my intention, but it was on my mind.

P.S. I'm not on AdultFriendFinder to find someone to cheat on my boyfriend with, but looking to see if there might be something more. Maybe it is a mistake. Who knows.

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