I feel like someone is following me...  

Roxie2006 50F
8 posts
4/30/2006 6:15 pm

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9/6/2006 5:24 pm

I feel like someone is following me...

I think that someone is following me, do you think that it could all be in my head? Am I paranoid? If someone is always there, do I have a right to feel like I am being followed?

Oh! wait a minute, I know that car! It looks just like the one that is in my driveway all of the time. OMG! It is!!! My husband is following me! Why would someone in his right mind follow me all over the place. If he needs to go to the same places that I am going, we could just ride together. Save on the unbelievable cost of gasoline. What is it, like $3 a gallon???

What would cause a person to just jump into a car and follow someone? Does he want to know what I do when I am not with him? Does he not believe me when I tell him that I am going to work, the store, out to eat? If I am going someplace that I should not be, why would I tell him that I am going someplace where he could come by and check to see if I am there?

Is he really that stupid? Or am I??? If I say that I am going to work, I will be there. If I say that I am going to the store, what will I do but go to the store? If I come home without any items that I purchased it would not be too hard to figure out. Come on now, you need to use your brain on this one.

What about hiring someone like a private investigator? Oh wait, he is way too cheap to pay someone to follow me! That will never happen. Do you pay those guys by the hour or the job??? Either way, that is not happening.

Now that the trust has been questioned, how do I forgive him or do I just let it go? I have never given him reason not to trust me, it is his insecurities that are at issue here. If I wanted to deceive him, it would not be too difficult. I know that I would not have to even try. I could just tell him that I am going someplace that he will not find me.

How many hotels are in the Dallas Fort Worth area? Thousands of them. He would not ever find me. I have places to go that he has no clue about. Friends, family, hotels, strangers. My options are open.

I feel like I am being pushed to the limit! He needs to back off! This will never work if it does not change!

TrueTxGtlman 54M

5/1/2006 8:37 am

Do you think he has found out that you are on this site or any other sites you might be on looking? I know when my wife found my Yahoo profile she was very curious about everything I did for about 3 months. I don't think she ever followed me but she did question me when I did return why it took me longer than she thought it should. All I can say is we put ourselves in a position to be questioned and followed when we are not completely happy with our home life and start to look elsewhere... even if they approve.


rm_hardwiremike 55M

5/18/2006 8:16 am


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