Controlling The Pace  

RexNEOhio 63M
14 posts
12/20/2005 2:15 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Controlling The Pace

Being an older male on AdultFriendFinder offers very little advantages but one is the ability to control the pace of seeking, chatting & possibly meeting people here on AdultFriendFinder. When contacting the select few I choose to, I have to remind myself of the onslaught of emails, IMs, chats questions this woman probably receives. This deluge of "interest" must simply overwhelm the women on this site. It's frustrating from the perspective of a person with good intent since you get the sense your genuine interest sometimes gets lost in the noise.

Anyways, back to my point ... the flip side of this dilemma is if you choose to "lay low" on AdultFriendFinder you have the ability to do so if your a guy of AdultFriendFinder.

Sidetracking for a moment, this brings up something else I have noticed. I am curious how women go about meeting someone here? I have had a couple who have been bold enough to initiate contact via email but mostly it's someone who sends a wink to me(which doesn't do much for me) or makes sure that I know they have viewed my profile (not sure how to gauge their interest here). In short, a piece of advice to the ladies who wish to initiate contact with someone ... take the leap and make an honest, up front attempt to show your interest ... the worst that can happen is we say no which all us guys have heard many more times than anyone one of us will admit ... lol!

Can't beleive XMas is almost here!!!

Fox4aKnight1 44F

1/30/2006 8:55 pm

LOL Hun ........As to meets that is often best to pic a good public place like a bar or something like lunch .....I use to go to the local meet n greets just so I can see the new guys and thy can see me. Seemed to be less pressure on me that way to either tell them that I liked the way they looked or the oppisite. (I am not real big on face to face personal confrontations) And considering alot of the rude comments that some gals get to even polite refusals of emails well I don't wanna risk dealing with something like that in person. if you cathch my meaning.

anyhoo .......gonna jump back into the blog mix
have a good one...

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