Masturbation: Guilty pleasure or Essential lifeskill  

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8/10/2006 10:45 pm
Masturbation: Guilty pleasure or Essential lifeskill

As a male I feel one must masturbate to survive.

Hopefully it would involve a significant other, perhaps at times it may not, however relieving the urge seems to be an essential part of life.

As one of mennonite upbringing I feel a degree of guilt about almost everything I do, masturbating included.

Often masturbation includes porn. Is pornography cheating? Are those girls in the porns having fun? What do their parents think? Everyone is someone's kid so essentially you could view people in porns as being someones children. Does one develop fetishes through porn? Would I be less of a pervert if I hadn't of marinated my mind in sexual promiscuity?

I don't think I'd be able to train myself to masturbate to fantasies in my mind.

On the other hand, the pressures of children and married life takes a lot out of both me and my wife. She is not always up for sex when I am. Therefore I reduce a substantial amount of pressure on her by masturbating. By relieving the urge, I perhaps am keeping hope alive in our relationship.

One might say that sex is an intimate learning experience sharing sensuality and closeness, but in my case, I need a lot of damn sensuality, how can I ask the one I love to meet demands which are impossible?

Hmmmmmmm, unanswerable questions, sounds like blog material!

Again, this blog is terrible, don't read it...LOL

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