I heard from him, Mr. IFC  

RedheadedMedStd 35F
1734 posts
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

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3/7/2006 8:34 am

I heard from him, Mr. IFC

Mr. IFC left me a message on IM last night mentioning that he wanted to get together. I am slightly bewildered. First, we have an awesome time on our first date. Second, we have great sex on our second date. Third, he blows me off for about 3 weeks. Fourth, he tells me he doesn't have time for me. Fifth, he wants to see me. I am contemplating telling him to take his offer of a get together and shove it. Who blows someone off for like a month and then decides that after no communicado for 3-4 weeks that he wants to see me? Sorry, that doesn't fly with me really well. I mean if you say you are interested just really busy, then at least leave an email, an IM, a voicemail to let me know I am not getting tossed back into the "sea of females." I am no one's toy. I would prefer to casually date someone, be it all we have time for is one night a week rather than a full on booty call. Yuck! I am kinda getting over that stage of drunk/buzzed dialing and stopping over someone's house after the bar. I would rather it be me and my showerhead vs. me and some guy who could give half a shit. So if anyone has any suggestions for me as how to handle this situation, I would greatly appreciate it. Even if it is to tell me I am a dork who is over-analyzing this...


dasher121 37M

3/6/2006 7:02 am

you are correct there. cant call you back after a month than forget it! You are a very beautiful female, you dont have to deal with tht kind of shit. Def deserve better than that.

tillerbabe 57F

3/6/2006 7:57 am

I think you are handling it just fine...send him this BLOG post! LOL!

rm_funtimeguy5 33M
4 posts
3/6/2006 9:17 pm

A guy that likes you will not wait 3 weeks to call you. I sure as hell know that I wouldn't! I vote dump the loser.

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