Queen_Of_Wands 47F
228 posts
6/14/2006 9:39 pm

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6/19/2006 12:04 pm


Does anyone actually know where this originated because it is the most irritating and frequently asked ? in AdultFriendFinder; closely seconded by 'where u from?'


1. Age? not everyone wants to dish out their age in a chat room. I personally don't give a damn but some do.
2. Sex? well if you don't know by the suffixes of -M or -F etc. what gender you're chatting up then use your common sense as they're not hard to work out.
3. Location? now this one really grates on me. What the fuck has it got to do with compatibility? Distance? Perhaps more relevant but there are trains and coaches or gawd fabbid you might even meet halfway for the right person if budget is an issue. If you only want to fuck what's on the doorstep that makes you pretty unfussy in my book. If I were on the prowl here I wouldn't let distance put me off the right person and if I were too skint to see them straight away I'd wait; simple as that. I believe in 'Right' not 'Right now' - it pays off in the end.

I just come here to chat but I wonder more and more at the success rate of those who want more than that. I don't think it can be that high, despite all the hype here. There are so many variables unless you really are dead unfussy. Then again, maybe the smart ones are discreet enough to keep successes to themselves and that's no bad thing at all, and the smartest ones of all leave altogether if they find a good thing. They keep it real in the real world, where it truly belongs. Lately I've seen good people get hurt by some really gaumless buggers here and it makes me fume, when a little common sense on some people's part would have saved others heartache and awkwardness. Some will always parade what they do in the public eye for whatever reason but over the years that always seems to bomb hugely and then they have to live through the d├ębris equally publicly but hey..we all operate differently.

I suggest a new meaning:

A = Affinity
S = Sincerity
L = Love

These would work much better.

sammiesunshine 47M
162 posts
6/17/2006 3:58 pm

Yeah...good point. What does distance have to do with compatablity. I think, perhaps, It has something to do with compatablity.

I have needs so I'm looking in the local area to fill those, be it "hay lets get drinks on friday night" to " hay i'm horny...." I don't think that a long distance partner can expect on to be celibate while the courtship dance is being done. After all 1000 or 2000 miles is well....a long way.

But yeah..AdultFriendFinder is multi layered for multipule reasons.

Yeah..ok I'll be quite now..I forgot what my orignial point was..

_Safira 55F
11260 posts
6/18/2006 10:23 am

I would concur ... And depending upon my mood, my location is:

Outside Your Window Stalking You
The North Side of Never

It's amusing ... well to me at least. And isn't THAT what counts?

Since I'm the unofficial Door Lady of the MD/VA Chat Room I tend to pass out a lot of smiley face "stickers" as well as sage and salicious advice. My favorites are:

1. There is no truth in advertising.
2. Let the buyer beware.
3. We know JENNYATEME at BIGCOCK dot com is 'da bomb ... but WHAT would she do for a Klondike bar??? Inquiring minds want to know.

Then, too, I have a variety of cheeses for the whiners.

Again, it's the amusement factor; yes?

Hope you're having a blessed day!

Safira (Mistress Bunny Foo Bitch) {=}

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