How does one define what you are?  

PrincessSarahb30 44F
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2/10/2006 12:27 pm

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7/16/2007 6:19 pm

How does one define what you are?

Okay so being on this site for shit it seems like an eternity, I have been faced with many many things. I think the one that as always hit me the hardest to fiqure out is how to DEFINE what you are in a relationship. Don't get me wrong I know what sex is and love and all that. I know 3 years ago NSA sex was what I wanted didn't want to see the man again just wanted to be fucked filled and done with. Yeah yeah I know my sluttier days. (wait I am still a slut just classier)
So now days I want the entire package. Being on this path to my submissiveness, I have learned that a D/s relationship is so much deeper than any Vanilla realtionship I can have. I know to get there you have to combine vanilla & kink...so here is my delimina.
I know how to define a Fuck Buddy or Booty Call...lol and how to keep emotions out of that. Oh those are always nice as there is not expectations or jealousy. Well until one decides its not enough and moves on. BLAH on that.
But the one that confusses the fuck out of me is the Friends with Benefits shit. I can usually keep this understandable when the FWB's is on occasion. ya know you go to the movies every once in a blue moon and end up in bed together. That to me is FWB's no holding hands no seeing each other on a regular basis blah blah blah.
So recently I have been seeing (he'd define it as hanging out) with someone. On a pretty regular basis. We make plans to go out with friends, dinner, plays, movies, we make plans to be together for the weekend. And its not like one weekend a month but just about every weekend. We go out we hold hands, we talk about our days, we disagree, we snuggle in bed and well I think we miss each other. At least at times I miss him. And the SEX well that just gets better and better. I know that is nothing that is to write a love story about, I enjoy the time we have together, enjoy the friendship and the laughter and DID I MENTION THE SEX!
So my GF tells me...sweetie He wants a GF just with out the committment. Well that's BS. So when Can you say to someone (or shake them) and say HEY WE ARE IN A TRUE REALTIONSHIP with true emotions and shit here!
When does something truly change from A FWB's to a relationship? Am I wrong in my thoughts?


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