Unexpected Benefits  

PlayfulByNaature 60M/51F
10 posts
8/12/2006 10:04 pm

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11/15/2006 5:35 pm

Unexpected Benefits

My favorite story ... when I was in my 20's and dating my husband we went out to a bar where our friend was playing music. We had a fantastic evening...

As is typical of us, I was off flirting with the men (and some women) and he was off flirting with the women (only!). This was a straight, verticle (as my friends say) bar so it was way mild and before we started playing well with others. I was so hot and ready!

Towards the end of the evening, 2 women approached me. Bi-sexual's dream come true? No. They proceeded to ask me how I could handle my boyfriend disrespecting me like that. What?!????

They proceeded to tell me how he was flirting with other women and how disrespectful it was to me. All I could say was - "yeah - and he's going home with me and I get to reap all the benefits of the sexual excitement they generated."

Since then, I love when we go out and he flirts, or he goes to a strip club and comes home to me to take out his sexual frustrations from the club. He loves to watch me work a room of men and women.

The unexpected benefit? This lifestyle allows us to experience and talk about those things which are taboo to others who don't share it. We can talk about beautiful women and beautiful men without the jealousy that plaques the rest of our friends. It makes us closer because there are less boundaries and more honest communication.

Oh my, I getting sappy. Back to reality.

Come on, of the friends you have or the people you know who don't share - don't they complain about stuff that just make you laugh because it so isn't an issue for you?

phunloversRback 61M/54F
2 posts
10/19/2006 9:47 am

This lifestyle has been great for me, I have discovered a free flowing sexual life. We can talk about any woman or man in the room, or on TV or anywhere else. We have great sexual encounters with other couples which fullfills this Taboo thing, most couple have. Our friends live a boring life, they don't know it as boring, simply know it as their day to day life... They complain about their sex life but won't go further, or don't know how to go further...

We did and we truly enjoy the benefit of it and I think we will for a long time... Our relationship is deeper and stronger. We support each other in everything we do. We have grown stronger as a couple. M.

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