That Size Thing Revisited, a  

Philosophy_N_Sex 50M/48F
1147 posts
9/9/2005 12:16 pm

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That Size Thing Revisited, a

Dong of the Say: Big Country ‒ Big Country

That size question…

I think on AdultFriendFinder that question is one of the most popular, the other tops would have to be “ Is anyone here real?” and “What does it take to get laid?”

As far as male size go, it seems to be a guy issue far more than a woman issue. A majority of the women I knew well enough to ask this question to reply, “ not too big not too small.”

Guys says thing like some dude with a big dick will kick his ass one day! Or guys who drive full sized trucks for no reason other than to drive something big. We all know what Dr. Freud says about that! Strap on a Chevy? Like a rock.

Some women have told me they turned guys away for packing the whopper. She said “You are not getting near me with THAT! Some ladies with “experience” have also said they got the giggles with some guys being a bit too small. Saying “Oh how cute” to a guy’s penis will devastate! Ouch! Being a guy, I would jump off a bridge or something. In porno films for the visual appeal they seek “Long Dong Silver” types, because the camera can get all the action in view. That could make some regular guys feel a bit short at “forth and goal.” A few women do seek the “whopper,” not all of them are bigger ladies, but more than half were. Ladies really into anal do not want the whopper. Ouch!

How ever size works both ways. Some women are not packing a shirt full under their bra. Do guys judge women the same way? Again it seems some do, I know several guys with a breast thing. They like much more than a handful. However it seems a majority of the guys say average size is fine. “Anything more than a handful is a waste” a common quote. So it seems to be a person fetish thing.

Millions are spent on implants. I doubt women go through all that expense and discomfort just for the hell of it. Most guys just want a giving energetic lover, as long as she is feminine, adventurous and arousing, most guys I know do not care. A guy I knew, his wife had to have mastectomies, and they were still like rabbits in their early 50’s. I wonder then if chest size is a woman issue?

Smiling Bob and his pills are “supposed” to make it grow, and be firm and such. Not ever pure steroids do that. So far no surgery, pill, rubber band, or suction thing can give a guy the pole of destiny. Grafting has only given limited results, and never full erect ability. SO ladies who want to pack the big ones have an advantage over guys.

Also is it complimentary to refer to guys in the “big” like “Hey big fella” “Be the big man on campus” ect. We find it better to refer to ladies in the little. “How’s the little lady?” Maybe it is because “big mama” refers to obesity and a huge gigantic ASS! Not her chest.

Most guys seem to like more curve than Hollywood finds acceptable. A bigger ass is ok with most guys I know. Not many guys seek the ass bigger than a bucket car seat, but a nice curvy build is fine. Guys are hardwired to look at the female form, so pleasant curves draw the eye. It is almost equally devastating to a woman to refer to her ass as “big.”

It seems most people do look to the total picture of a lover, unless they do have a fetish for an oversized body part. It seems that since the penis is associated with manhood, men judge and are harsh judges against each other over the size. To compete it is assumed the one who is “more man” will draw the ladies. And ladies see breasts as a feminine trait, and more feminine they appear to the eye of men, the more successful they will be.

He has a big one = Good
She has a big one = Bad
She has a cute little one = Good
He has a cute little one = Bad

rm_luke69iner 49M
3275 posts
9/9/2005 9:28 pm

thought this was going to be a "short" article ... oh it a size is relative to perspective thing ... you are wise grasshopper

like the song tie in but i'd be careful how you use the C word

S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

FunandFrisky79 43M/38F

9/9/2005 10:04 pm

P&S- You're right, men are more concerned with size than woman. Penis size never really mattered to me. As long as it works, I'm happy. lol

As for breasts, mine are more than a handful. And, I actually wish they were smaller sometimes. It's really annoying when guys talk to your chest! lol

I look at the total package rather than focus on just the body. Sure, physical beauty is usually what initially attracts us to people. But, when it all comes down to it, if the person doesn't have a great personality... I'm not interested. When we are too old for sex (if that's possible. lol) & our looks have faded, all we are left with is our personalities. And, if you have nothing to talk about, what else do you have?


rm_vixenflir 59M
295 posts
9/10/2005 8:05 am

After years and years of porn films, it never really made me feel bad that the guys usually had bigger cocks than me - I always kept it in perspective that it was for the filming and would say to myself "Damn thats a big one!". But was never jealous. I'm just average and pretty good at using it. Several of the woman I've been with told me it 'fit just right' and thats always been good enough for me, but......I have noticed that if I did see a guy in a porn with a smaller cock, I did feel somehow superior to him.......that must be another one of the hard-wired genetic clicks us guys have.

bigredeatsbush 52M/51F

9/10/2005 4:39 pm

Intellectually, I know that a woman's vagina is most sexually aroused by contact in the first 1/3 of the entrance, thus, size is really not an issue. Wifey has been into size lately, so we have been "shopping" and looking at some large guys. I must confess, I feel intimidated slightly, lets say a 4 on a scale of 1-10. Maybe it's anxiety, maybe it's social nurturing. I'm sure it will pass, and she's having fun!!
Woman size (and shape) Big fan of curves!! That's not to say a cup B will not please, it's more of an "all other things being equal", I would choose the larger bust (actually, I would try to have both, LO

patsam69 52M/52F

9/10/2005 7:49 pm

I think girth may be more important to women than length. Just don't hammer me ...oh I mena DRILL me...LOL like a jack rabbit...and its all good!

rm_philonymph 39M
162 posts
9/11/2005 1:35 am to agree without echo....ok, how's this...

It's the man, not the machine?


Philosophy_N_Sex 50M/48F

9/11/2005 1:38 pm

SOrry was meant to be short, but it kept growing, don't you hate it when that happens?

Hey again! Can I talk to your chest? Would they talk back? WHat would they say?

Oh a porn vetran! A good fit is the best, and they called you back again so all is well.

WOW great to see you again, hope all is well! You are still cool!

Message understood, skill over size.

No reason to be intimidated even 40%, nothing will be able to satisfy your lady liek you do!

Yeah I have heard the girth thing too. Drill liek a rabbit, can I watch?? evil grin

Man not machine, good way to put it.

wallet size not package size?

necrolight 36M
6 posts
9/13/2005 1:48 pm

very nice blog, I am new to all this and I am not a "gold" member, nor do I have a gold member but one thing that was RAISED about size was probably the most important question I heard...... "have you ever had any complaints?" ... I never have.... only compliments maybe that is a good way to look at it. for guys at least

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