Drive your woman to an INTENSE orgasm (Before Sex)!!!  

Num03 35M
5 posts
11/24/2005 1:38 am

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Drive your woman to an INTENSE orgasm (Before Sex)!!!


Drive your woman to an INTENSE orgasm (even multiple orgasms) BEFORE intercourse:

Manual sex! Manual sex is basically “hand” sex, or using your hand to stimulate your partner.

Let me tell you, if you do this right, you can have A LOT of fun in bed. Most men have NO IDEA how to stimulate a woman manually. If you are better at manual sex than she is, guess what? Instead of masturbating, she’ll just come find you!

How do you do this the “orgasmic” way? Of course, there are lots of different ways to do this, but in my experience I’ve been able to narrow success in this area down to two main factors:

1. Find the “G-spot”. Now, some people say women have a g-spot and some people say they don’t.

I say WHATEVER!

Fact is: most women are more sensitive in this area. I can honestly tell you, that I’ve never been with a woman who didn’t have some sort of extra sensitive area somewhere “inside”, reachable with your fingers.

So, when I say find the g-spot, I really mean find HER g-spot. That is, find her extra sensitive area and stimulate it.

Don’t just attack the thing, tease and add variety to your technique. It has happened to me before that she will tell ‘flat out’ that she wants it “harder”, or “slow down”. If you find this spot, which really isn’t that difficult, you will be her “golden boy”.

It can be fun for you and HER to find this sensitive spot, but to find it, you have to focus on the next factor:

2. Pay attention. Most guys stumble through sex, especially manual sex, because they are focused on themselves. They are paying attention to what THEY want instead of what SHE wants.

So when I say pay attention, I don’t just mean pay attention, I mean pay attention to her. Listen to her. Listen to how she reacts when you do certain things. Does she sound like she likes it? What seems to put her “over the top”? What doesn’t she like?

Feel her. Okay, we’re going to get a little graphic for a second. When a woman has an orgasm, she has “contractions” kind of like a man does. Her vagina will basically pulsate. If you have your fingers inside of her, you’ll be able to feel this. Or, feel her fingernails digging into your back, or her running her hands through your hair, these are the type of signs you need to pay attention to.

So feel for it, and remember what you did to drive her to that point. If you can find her g-spot and you pay attention to her, manual sex can be a very pleasurable experience for her. It’s very likely; you’ll do things to her that NO man has EVER done to her.

You can actually drive her to an orgasm just by using your finger. I’ve driven women to orgasm just using one finger. I did it on purpose just to see if I could, and it worked. So, I kept doing it.

And believe me, when you know you can make a woman orgasm repeatedly with just one finger, your confidence will shoot through the roof. Not to be an egoist, but it will seem as though you have her wrapped around your finger, literally.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
11/24/2005 4:44 am

Num,

I would have to agree!

Purry

Purry


Countrygirl273 44F
2 posts
11/24/2005 5:06 am

Num,

I never thought I would ever hear a guy be able to explain an woman in the way you just did! Thank you (for all the women out there) for taking your time to figure out what the fuck to do with a woman!!!! I mean if I were close to you I would be looking you up right now! That was very explosive for a man!

country


saru4love 46M/41F

12/1/2005 1:13 am

Thanks, its really interesting and usefull. One should know this art of having sex


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