What to do? What to do?  

Notbigbutwilling 50M
67 posts
5/17/2006 10:51 pm

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What to do? What to do?

There's a woman on this site that I like.

She's notably younger than me, but very mature.

She's not my normal 'type' but I find her very attractive.

We've met in person once. She looks nicer in real life than her AdultFriendFinder pictures show. And she looks quite nice in those too!

And she's intelligent, self-reliant, confident and interesting as well.

I'd really like to know her better. Maybe become friends.

But I'm not her 'type', I know that. And I don't want her to think I'm hitting on her or just trying to get into her pants. Because I'm not - I feel something quite different towards her. A kind-of soft, gentle feeling rather than a hot, burning one if you know what I mean.

So what do I do?
(It may surprise you to know that I'm actually quite shy. I have to work myself up to writing someone an e-mail on AdultFriendFinder!)
So do I e-mail her?
What do I say?
How do I go about this?

Can anyone help?

Clue: she's posted comments on recent Blog entries

Blue_eyes_smile 43F

5/17/2006 11:36 pm

I guess you will never find out if you don't e-mail her or talk to her. Take a chance life is to short not too..Good Luck..

rm_Hot2Twat1969 48F
455 posts
5/18/2006 1:14 am

Hmmmmmm Would it happen to be anyone I KNOW????


rm_bucfannn 62M/61F
2110 posts
5/18/2006 6:20 am

I agree, that life is too short. What have you got to lose?

You'll never know unless you try... (sorta like the lotto - you can't win ifn you don't play)

fantasylover_05 63M

5/18/2006 8:38 am

The worst she can say is NO!

Tell her what you think! She will never read you mind.. though it would seem she must read your blog so you may indeed have just told her!

Good luck!

Remember.. nothing good comes to those who wait!


peaches19555 62M

5/18/2006 11:49 am

you have already stated it beautifully...."What to say" is not your shackle.

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