Question time: 'just friends'?  

Notbigbutwilling 50M
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7/2/2006 5:21 pm

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7/5/2006 6:52 pm

Question time: 'just friends'?

Now here's the question....

You've probably all seen the movie and heard the line that men can't really be 'just friends' with women. They always want sex.

Maybe that is or isn't true, but a thought ocurred to me....

What about gay men - seeing as how males are always on the prowl for sex, can a gay man be 'just friends' with a (straight) MAN he's attracted to, without wanting him?

Knowing (first hand) how men are, would he try talk him over to the 'other side' so to speak, as many men try to do to women who tell them they're gay, or could he just accept it and be pals?

Interesting thought, isn't it?

2375 posts
7/2/2006 7:01 pm

That's a great question. I'll be watching to see what the men say.

cuteNEway 42F

7/2/2006 7:12 pm

AHHH...That one! I've never been one to have that problem. Fat girls don't have this problem. Not every man that befriends us wants to sleep with us. Half the time they just want to sleep with our friends.

Now on the male side of things, weeellll my gay friends think that every man is gay! They say that with enough licquor they can have any man no matter how straight they say they are. I for one do NOT believe that!

tee hee

Notbigbutwilling 50M

7/4/2006 12:08 am

Hmm... Well, cuteNEway, I have 2 things to say.

First, I refuse to subscribe to any BS about 'fat' girls! What I look for in a woman can be seen in her eyes, heard in her voice and felt in her touch. Her size is not of concern and certainly does NOT affect how I feel about her! More often than not, I've found they make better lovers than others. In short, "fat chicks rock"! (BTW, I think you are stunning!)

Second, I agree with you about the gay men. I know I am a homophobe. I am NOT intimidated specifically by gay men, but by men in general (Gr:homos - same). I even feel a little uncomfortable shaking hands! But then, I also prefer the company of women. There's only so much talk about V8's, beer and BS I can take. I think this feeling becomes MORE with alcohol. 2 drinks and I'm any woman's, but if a man touches me, he's in for trouble!

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