Sex  

NotInnocentNow 35F
141 posts
4/3/2005 8:53 pm

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6/6/2006 8:23 pm

Sex

I miss sex. I have to admit I have always had a fairly healthy sex life. I have always ben with guys that were good in bed. But I got out of a relationship 2 years ago and since then I have not had sex aside from the wonderful awesome experinecs I had with my best friend and her finace' that led to my pregnancy. BUT it has been almost a year and damnit I am horny. Now I could get fucked probably easily but sue me I want a better understanding with my partner. I do not want someone I do not know...Now I am by no means saying I have to be "in love" with this person but hell I want to be in like and not just in lust. I want a respect and liking a friendship. Sex with a stranger has never appealed to me. AM I old fashioned? I think no just want more then a quick fuck ...though I am so approaching that right now. Somewhere there has got to be that guy that just makes me so wet and so horny I want to do anything he wants ! LOL oops baby is awake ! Later!


ExcitedSenses 40M

4/3/2005 10:19 pm

would love to fuck you but i understand u need to get to know someone. u r not old fashioned at all. i haven't had sex more than once in the past 20 months so I know how u feel. I need it bad.


barelylegal1234 31M
1 post
4/4/2005 5:23 am

you should get back into it i mean it is one o fthe best thing in the world, i mean ok u just got out o f a relationship but u shouldnt come donw on ur self just because u had a long relationship get back into it. i might be that guy who makes u wet and hoerny to


fury182 46M

4/4/2005 5:41 am

If I went a week without sex I'd be pulling my hair out among other things. You must have the patience of a nun. No matter how many encounters I've been in, I had some feelings for each and everyone. I thankfully nevr experienced the quickie or one night stand and I think the sex was better for it so I can identify with your statements for sure.


rm_coinbirds 33M
8 posts
4/4/2005 1:42 pm

That's actually pretty human of you. It's a better idea than most to 'be in like' with someone. Love's too hard, strangers are too easy. Because after sex it's always great to chat, or eat something, or go fly a kite. It doesn't matter what for really, but that there is at least some kind of human connection besides humping. It takes both to be happy. And good luck with the baby. They're fun.


nicefaceguy 47M
1 post
4/5/2005 7:46 pm

I can't believe that someone so attractive and with so much to offer still feels lonely and/or in need of *anything*. Maybe this is just the calm before the storm, and you will soon have everything you want. Hope so! Best wishes!


GoodiesNZ 44M

6/8/2005 9:37 am

I think that there are different times and stages in peoples lives where we all go through this sort of thing. You are considering your options and sorting out a little more of who you are and what you really want I think? Well all get horny like you desribe at times.. especially so I think when we go from an active sex-life to a pretty much non-existent one.

Like those above me I agree that you are not "old fashioned" or anything.. I would say you are more "new age" in that you are going along with your own choices and decisions. Hang in there babe.. you are a wonderful woman - both in looks and personality (from what I can tell reading through here and your profile).. you have a lovely boy (he's adorable btw), and an exciting time ahead of you!

Personally I think sex is better/more enjoyable if you are at least in "like" with someone as you say... sex with "strangers" or even close friends can each have their own delicious excitements and good/bad points.. but at the end of the day when it comes to enjoying sex.. it is by far better with someone you are at least in "like" with. Of course - we all get to the "quick fuck" at times... if you want to go down that road then consider buying a BOB it might at least ease SOME of the tension you are feeling!

Take care for now - hope to chat soon

Phil xxx


travelinman1994
24 posts
6/29/2005 4:01 am

You are a beautiful girl.

Just get out to the club and meet someone.
Don't take them home right away, exchange phone numbers, get to know them. Just because you don't sleep with a guy from the club the first night you meet them doesn't mean that they will write you off.


travelinman1994
24 posts
6/29/2005 4:01 am

one other word "BABYSITTER"


rm_bikerboyc9 42M
1 post
7/17/2005 4:14 pm

Um i think you are doing the right thing by taking your time i ove your profile and the heart you put into everything, if you ever want to hang out write me.


abdoullah5 41M

7/31/2005 3:57 pm

salut ta foto me donne l'envie de te baisser ton string et te defoncer tres bien ton sexe tu es d'une beauté rare à trouver ecris moi biz


Owlwatcher

8/24/2005 10:09 pm

I understand your point completely. I just got divorced and kinda got on this site as a knee-jerk reaction, as I am apprehensive and conflicted about meeting someone new. One side of me says - go get laid a bunch, it'll be easy now. The other side says - wait until the special one comes along, so when I have kids and they ask, I can be honest when I say I only had sex with 2 people, and I married them both.


Carolinacracker 54M/54F
1 post
12/15/2005 4:57 pm

live right down from you I'm just looking for someone to have a special thing when each of us need it no strings just fulfilment...


rm_cruiser888 61M
4 posts
1/18/2006 11:41 pm

Wan't to go to a movie?


rm_charlie15758 59M
6 posts
1/27/2006 2:15 pm

Can we meet!


rm_charlie15758 59M
6 posts
1/31/2006 6:15 pm

When can meet? You will be happy we did!


LevisDryerVigil
1 post
2/20/2006 10:47 pm

i am dat gut so ont look anymore holla at me


rm_Chris14782 49M

3/7/2006 5:37 pm

Kids will definately occupy your time and the commitment is continuous and becomes your number one priority, everything else takes second place. The friend you'd like to have and also have sex with would need to really understand your intentions and, unless invited or otherwise communicated, not fall in love, unless its a friendship love, but then how do you feel the difference so that it doesn't become all emotional, and then the expectations come. I think your situation is a bit difficult. On the one hand you have beauty on your side so you will attract a wide variety. The risk is in the choice you make and then only with time will you know if your choice was a good one. Maybe communicate with a guy for along period of time via E-mail. Those that can express themselves that way, might could lead to telephone conversations, then a possible meeting, say something harmless like lunch. If all goes well, maybe dinner. A guy that is interested in the sex who is truly interested in the friendship will wait, will be patient. The question is, will you? Just my two cents.


rm_elusive4you 44M

3/15/2006 8:32 am

I know you feel like you are just looking for someone to "like", but it sounds like to me you need someone to love and love you back. Thats just human nature, darling. We are just built that way...dont disregard that.
Lata aligata


tolde999
29 posts
5/17/2006 1:25 am

just i want to remind you:
LOVE MAKE YOU LOOK WORRY
SEX MAKE YOU LOOK DIRTY
BUT LOVE WITH SEX MAKE YOU LOOK HAPPY


tolde999
29 posts
5/17/2006 10:47 pm

Love in my hart please contact me


rm_houston5535
2 posts
7/28/2007 3:19 am

sex should be fun not a complicated game of strategies. If its complicated it will probably feel like it.


hot4pleasure2006 51M
2 posts
11/8/2007 7:09 am

What you are going through is human nature. We are all animals when broken down to basics. The only thing that separates us is our intelligence and ability to rationalize like you have done. You dont want just "casual sex", but good sex that comes from a comfortable source. That's not your bod talking, thats your rationalization.Trust me it works both ways. I was in an almost sexless marriage, then was dating a lady that wants it 3 times per day.And she was the exploratory type that was great at communicating what she likes and turns her on. So it was Great at first, but then I had to back off on purpose somedays just to see if thats all it was about. My body was loving it, but my brain was rationalizing that maybe its the only reason we are together.Fortunately turned out we had some other compatabilities other than sex. The Relationship ultimately failed.
Now that it has, both my brain and my bod want it back, but only with someone it can last with and be more than sex. My suggestion to you is to buy some toys, which you probably already have to fill those urgent needs and do just what you said and wait for the right guy , maybe not "the guy".. but one that at least has some friendship qualities.. just be careful like Chris14782 said.. a friend you trust for sex could fall for you, but you not fall for him and someone gets hurt. Men all say they are up for meaningless se and we are animals) .. but its hard not to fall for the girl if your last relationship was not good and the two of you are sexually compatible.Although we are all supposedly intelligent human beings, sex is the one constant simple driving force that puts a woman and man together and has been since the dawn of time.So have fun, but do it cautiously.


hot4pleasure2006 51M
2 posts
11/8/2007 7:11 am

What you are going through is human nature. We are all animals when broken down to basics. The only thing that separates us is our intelligence and ability to rationalize like you have done. You dont want just "casual sex", but good sex that comes from a comfortable source. That's not your bod talking, thats your rationalization.Trust me it works both ways. I was in an almost sexless marriage, then was dating a lady that wants it 3 times per day.And she was the exploratory type that was great at communicating what she likes and turns her on. So it was Great at first, but then I had to back off on purpose somedays just to see if thats all it was about. My body was loving it, but my brain was rationalizing that maybe its the only reason we are together.Fortunately turned out we had some other compatabilities other than sex. The Relationship ultimately failed.
Now that it has, both my brain and my bod want it back, but only with someone it can last with and be more than sex. My suggestion to you is to buy some toys, which you probably already have to fill those urgent needs and do just what you said and wait for the right guy , maybe not "the guy".. but one that at least has some friendship qualities.. just be careful like Chris14782 said.. a friend you trust for sex could fall for you, but you not fall for him and someone gets hurt. Men all say they are up for meaningless sex ( and we are animals) .. but its hard not to fall for the girl if your last relationship was not good and the two of you are sexually compatible.Although we are all supposedly intelligent human beings, sex is the one constant simple driving force that puts a woman and man together and has been since the dawn of time.So have fun, but do it cautiously.


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