The day my whole world came to a halt....and the day it started again.....  

Nightguy_1961 56M
3324 posts
1/22/2006 10:40 pm

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The day my whole world came to a halt....and the day it started again.....


This past Friday, everything was put in its proper perspective.

When I got home from work Friday morning, my lady (who, if you don't know, is my wife and my submissive) was complaining of a severe headache. She's had a history with high blood pressure, but she was going to see her doctor next month.

Well, this headache wasn't going away anytime soon. I was scheduled to work Friday night, so I went to bed. I woke upon after only 2 hours...my lady was in tears, the pain was so bad. I dressed and rushed her to the ER.

When they checked her blood pressure, they did it a couple of more times...thinking the machine was in error. Her BP was 280/150 !!!! They gave her a powerful drug for hypertension that started working ASAP. They also gave her pain medication and something for nausea...the headaches were so bad, she was sick to her stomach. A CAT scan and, later, an MRI revealed that my lady had suffered a micro stroke...a small blood vessel in her right temple had bled slightly. She is fine...the only after effects are she will have minor headaches for the next few days.

She had to stay overnight at the hospital...I stayed as long as I could until the pain meds and sleeping meds started to kick in. I kissed her goodnight and drove home. It was the longest drive I can remember...if a tractor trailer had hit my vehicle, I wouldn't have known or cared.

I called my lady's two sons and reassured them their mom was okay...just resting. I posted the news to O/our F/friends on IM...and I even broke my absense from the chatroom by going in and telling people what had happened.

Saturday, my lady was much better and was out of danger. I brought her home...and as of this minute, she is resting comfortably.

So I want to take this time to give out some thanks:

To the Almighty, because without Him, nothing is possible.

To the ones who called, just to give their support (yeah 'brotha', you know who you are)

To the F/friends who sent IMs by the truckload, those meant a lot to both of U/us.

To the one who called my lady while she was in the hospital...you don't know what that did for her.

And to the one Friend who stayed on the phone with me Friday night when I was at my lowest...Thank you for sharing tears, laughter, positive thoughts,...in short, Thank you for just being you. I love you, and I know my lady loves you too.

Like I said....now, everything has been put in perspective.

NG...thankful for his F/friends...and thankful that his lady is okay, cause without her, I am nothing more than a Dominant who just knows something about bdsm.

BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
1/22/2006 11:56 pm

I must say that this is one time in my life that if I hadn't of been able to talk with you Friday night I would have been well on my way there. Thank you NG for all of the above Friday night. The hardest thing for me to do was to stay put. You and lady know that is not in my nature, however I did listen to reason and am thankful that everything has turned out like it has. I sensed your ability to remain strong, however also know that on a different note; reality kicked in. My thoughts kept going back to our previous conversations about ladys' high blood pressure and the time allotment for her visit. One thing stands out about that...if you will recall; she kept reassuring us that her Doctors appt. would be in ample time. All I can say is that I am thankful! Thankful for both of you. I love you both! Thankful for a couple of dear friends from the chatroom that stayed in touch. You now know how much you both are loved. Sending kisses to those that were there. You know who you are.

For all Time,
Lady Hunter

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

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