The 3 most important tools of a Sir/Master....a humble opinion  

Nightguy_1961 56M
3324 posts
1/16/2006 1:32 am

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The 3 most important tools of a Sir/Master....a humble opinion

If you go into the basement, you may be lucky enough to be there when a serious discussion about the bdsm lifestyle is taking place. Many times, the question arises, "What's your most important tool(s)?"

A slew of wonderful items come forth...from rope to chains, cuffs to clamps, whips to vibrators...the Christmas list is almost endless.

But I offer a different view....there are only three tools I need to have, to keep with me at all times, and to keep in outstanding working condition.

These tools are: Mind, Body, and Soul.

Mind: I must always be learning new things, for that is how One grows. I must keep an open mind for new ideas, techniques, and opinions. I must keep my mind alert for my submissive's mental and physical changes. My mind must never be closed to those that have a different view of WIITWD, for that view may help light my Path. A closed and dull mind is a dead mind.

Body: I must keep my body in good physical condition for the purpose of fufilling my submissive's needs.I don't need to be Mr. Universe, but I must be in good health, at least. She is depending on me for protection. I must have a pair of strong arms to hold her, and the stamina to continually push her limits and mine. A weak body is one that will fail...both her and me.

Soul: I must know in my soul that what my submissive gives me is a rare and precious gift. Even though I am strict and stern, my sould must never be angry with her. Instead, my actions must be guided by the love from my soul. My soul must be strong enough to comfort her when she is scared or confused. My soul must be humble enough to seek advice when I'm not sure of my way. Without a soul, I'm nothing more than an automaton...cold and unfeeling.

Mind...body...soul. The three most important tools for a good Sir. The whips, ropes, toys, et al...all are merely assessories.
The paint brush does not make the artist, as the paper does not make the composer. It is mind, body, and soul that makes the artist, the composer,....and the Sir or Ma'am.


wickedeasy 68F  
31113 posts
1/20/2006 8:43 am

bows and thanks NG for putting some reality back into the lifestyle

toys are toys - fun

BDSM is about so much more - it is what NG says - the mind, the heart, the body

and a toy is only as good as the Master weilding it

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
1/30/2006 2:46 am

Now you're talking! Tips hat to; NG, the Southern Dom from the Southern FemDom. Wonderful excursion into the aspects of WIITWD.

For all Time,
Lady Hunter

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

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