Talk about a loaded question...  

Nightguy_1961 56M
3324 posts
5/25/2006 12:28 am

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Talk about a loaded question...

I read several blogs a night after I've gotten caught up with my work at the hotel...or after I've gotten home and relaxed some. I try to answer questions that bloggers put out there looking to generate discussion.

But there is one question that I tend to draw up short on, no matter who posts the question:

"Who here in Blogville would you like to (sleep with/get intimate with/f*ck/whatever with)?

That's a loaded question...

First off, there's my lady to consider here. Granted, we have an open relationship, but still, I feel funny sometimes just popping off and saying publicly, "Oh, I'd really like to rock ___________'s world!!" Call me old fashioned, but there it is.

Another thing is I have a lot of lady friends here on this friendly site. Why pick one? Now before you slap the horndog label on my ass, let me explain...

There are many here I'd love the opportunity to meet one day...and for various reasons.

There are a couple of ladies here I would like to talk about astrology and holistic medicine...and also to take dance lessons from.

There's one lady out west I'd like to continue an in depth discussion about economics (and yes, she's drop dead gorgeous too!)

There's one lady that I'd love to just go sit on her front porch and watch the sunset over the bluegrass (that's a hint if I've ever heard one!)

There is one special lady that I just want to hug, despite her wicked ways, because she was there when I was feeling really down and out about life in general.

There's another lady that I would like to let her know that she's not naïve and that she's not the only one that has to deal with crazy people at night in a hotel.

There is the lady I'd love to just hang out with for a purr-fectly fun time...along with her significant other.

There are a couple of very soulful ladies I would love to meet, just because they seem like decent women that anyone would love to be friends with.

There are a couple of ladies I'd love to meet...because they are enigmas and I just love a mystery.

And yes, there are a few ladies who I would be interested in exploring erotic boundaries with, if the opportunity was there. Hey, I am human after all.

Bottom line, I've made a lot of friends here in the blogs, including some of the gentlemen as well. Most of the guys, I'd love to hang out with...a couple I'd be willing to tear up the town with on any given night.

So please understand if I decline to pick just one from Blogville that I'd love to be's tough.

Just my viewpoint...

©NG61 2006

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
5/25/2006 12:53 am

.... now I'd almost comment ....

~ sighz ~ if only I were a lady

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 12:59 am:

I refer to all women as ladies...part of my upbringing.

And you ARE a lady in my cut that out right now, or I'll cause an eclipse on Venus

You are such an enigma, you know that don't you?

rm_gerson42 53M
2419 posts
5/25/2006 1:07 am

I agree wholeheartedly. How could you narrow the field to one. There are so many women here, with so much to be attracted to.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 1:20 am:
Ain't that the dying truth?

waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

5/25/2006 1:27 am

I do apologize as I think it was my question you might be talking about. I was just curious, It's tough for me to pick as well. You are such a sweet gentleman and I thank you for that. I really do enjoy your blogs, thanks again..........

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 2:26 am:
You weren't the only one who posted that question...there were several others who posted similar inqueries, maybe worded differently...but the gist of the message was there....

No need to apologize...I'm just a little tired right now....

ohcurious14 60M  
1684 posts
5/25/2006 1:55 am

I understand your view completely and can respect that. But you have to admit if even you never acted upon it it had to be a damn good feeling. Being that you are so well appreciated for your wisdom perhaps you have an appreciative blog watcher who merely wants to give you your own personal mind fuck.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 2:28 am:
I'm not sure if not acting upon it would leave me with a good feeling...think about it: if all you and NB ever did was comment on each other's blogs and would you feel?

And if someone was trying to pull a mind fuck on me (which I doubt), they've picked the wrong one....sad to say....

Thanks for your comment...and please disregard my rantings and ravings.....

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
5/25/2006 3:03 am

NightGuy_1961 replies on 5/ 25/ 2006 12.59 am:

I refer to all women as ladies...part of my upbringing.

And you ARE a lady in my cut that out right now, or I'll cause an eclipse on Venus

You are such an enigma, you know that don't you?

I'm JusMe, nuffin special....

especially here....

rm_daveman45nz 57M
42 posts
5/25/2006 3:26 am


I can imagine being wanted for my mind. Sigh.
You & your lady would be welcome in my house (bring your own ties) any time.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 4:48 am:

Well, who knows? I'm sure there's a lady out there looking for a wine connoisseur.....

Thanks...and once we get our situation settled, the same invitation is extended to you....tie optional...

libgemOH 57M/53F

5/25/2006 3:53 am

I know...just pick all of em!!! -B

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 4:49 am:

Easy for you to say *chuckles* You've got your own harem on Bisexual Lane over there


MaggiesWishes 61F

5/25/2006 5:05 am

Hummm... to have to narrow it down to just one, is just plain difficult. Basically, I think we all rub off on each other and who woudn't want to meet around here?
So many wonderful folks here, always lending the best of themselves to you in need, or want or just cause they can

I want to paint the town "RED" not tear it up
Little FYI, if you can make love, you can dance. Hips, baby hips

warm huggies 2ya, Dark One

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 9:50 am:
I couldn't agree more....thanks

and as far as dancing, you may be right about the hips....but my feet have a mind of their own....

wickedeasy 68F  
31321 posts
5/25/2006 5:34 am

glad i made the cut.........

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
5/25/2006 5:50 am

NG......this was a great post! And I loved your description of some of the ladies....and some of them I recognized right away! But I do agree that there are so many interesting people here. And I have made so many friends here on the blogs that I'd like to just meet and pick their brains. Maybe its time for a Tidewater bloggers meet and greet...what do you think?

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 9:53 am:

goddess1946 has hinted about a meet & greet in our area sometime this fall.....who knows?


5/25/2006 6:03 am

Wonderful post...
So many I would love to meet so many great minds out there.. I'm with Angel.. Bloggers M&G

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 9:54 am:
See my response to angel above...and get up here!!!!!!

rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
5/25/2006 6:06 am

I know who the hotel one is

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 9:54 am:

it's supposed to be a secret....

jadedbabe78 107F

5/25/2006 8:22 am

Hmm, I'm the opposite, I could narrow it down to one.

But it may be easier for the women to do so. Just my personal 2 cents.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 9:56 am: are to the point...whoever that one person is, I hope he or she knows that they are lucky.....

rm_shannee2006 53F
3355 posts
5/25/2006 8:35 am

Personally, I don't like to make it obvious about who I'm dating or not dating online. It's no one's business...and I agree with you, it's not my style to tell everyone who I would like to meet privately with. I may flirt and tease, but that's not the same as saying, if I could I'd do that guy over there. There's plenty of men I'd enjoy meeting and like you, I'd have unique reasons for each meet up.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 9:57 am:
Well, I'm pretty up front about my being attached...maybe that's a plus...maybe that's a hindrance...but at least I can look myself in the mirror at night.....


meluvoilerbitch 47M

5/25/2006 8:54 am

Me always wonder what kind of games they play at bestwestern hotels. Me learn disastrous games at [post 361340] ~fades back into the shadows

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
5/25/2006 9:43 am

    Quoting meluvoilerbitch:
    Me always wonder what kind of games they play at bestwestern hotels. Me learn disastrous games at [post 361340] ~fades back into the shadows
*puts up a speedometer with large, easy to read numbers*

Here you let me know if I go too fast for you, okay?

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
5/25/2006 9:52 am

"glad you made the cut...."?!?!?!

my friend...there was no cut...far from was meant as an explanation, not a competition. I am in no way trying to say, "Oh look at should be thankful that I want to meet you"

You know me better than that......

digdug41 50M

5/25/2006 10:03 am

NG61 good post I couldn't choose either I have made quite a few friends here and I love'em all they are each very cool in their own ways so picking is just out of the question

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:09 am:
digdug...thanks...there is NO way I could ever pick fughittabowdit!!!


pragmaticCTcpl 63M/51F

5/25/2006 11:33 am

Whether I have sex with someone that "peaks" my interest or not....I still have found some truly wonderful and amazing people and made some great friends....I leave the rest to Kismet.{=}

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 12:08 pm:
Glad to hear it....I guess that's what we should be happy with, to be honest...

After all, the name of this site is Adult FRIEND Finder...


micahbiguns 52M

5/25/2006 1:15 pm

Once again you have hit a home run! Somehow ya manage to express(better than I can)what I have been thinking. Sometimes even before I know I thought about it

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:08 pm:
See what happens when you combine little sleep, lots of coffee and ephedrine, and too much time on your hands?

Remember the 100 monkeys on the will eventually type out Shakespearean work....


rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
5/25/2006 2:00 pm

    Quoting GoddessOfTheDawn:
    NightGuy_1961 replies on 5/ 25/ 2006 12.59 am:

    I refer to all women as ladies...part of my upbringing.

    And you ARE a lady in my cut that out right now, or I'll cause an eclipse on Venus

    You are such an enigma, you know that don't you?

    I'm JusMe, nuffin special....

    especially here....

I can damn sure refute that last comment! YOU are VERY special, and VERY wonderful!

NG, sorry for hijacking

Whispersoftly5 53F
15176 posts
5/25/2006 2:19 pm

That is a difficult question to respond to and I love how you responded to it here. I don't think I could choose just one for many of the same reasons you stated.

BTW - I am finally catching up on my reading since being away on my trip. I've just caught up here reading all of your posts - and just as I thought would be the case, I'm glad I read each and every one. You are incredible! Here are the posts that caught me the most -

The Parable of the Dark Sage and the Lady of the Shadows - I hope that I would try to be understanding in this circumstance.

A Scene in the Shadows - This story sure caught my attention. I know this isn't at all the case, but it almost felt written for me. The way you write I bet all your readers feel that way (you're so very talented). Very hot and erotic!!!

Why do I Stay in the Shadows - I really liked this because it is a supportive and meaningful post and it shared a lot about you. Very nice!

The Line-up at the Newest Strip Club - I liked this because you included pictures of everybody with their new names and you left cute and funny comments after the names. Fun post!

The Dark Sage Returns Home - I like this because because I think it explained the "Interesting..." comment you left in my recent post. LOL! How did you know?!

Thank you for all the wonderful reading and sharing of yourself. I can't wait to come back and visit again soon!!! Whisper...

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:11 pm:
I am pleased that you enjoyed my scribblings.....thank you.

Glad that you had a great time.....

wickedeasy 68F  
31321 posts
5/25/2006 2:30 pm

oh lordy - of course i know that - i was being fresh - my apologies if i was out of line

you know how i feel about you

now i just want to cry

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:12 pm:
You weren't out of line...and if you start crying, me and Bitch Ma'am will come up there.....mark my words!!!!

RUNT1972 45M/44F
30 posts
5/25/2006 4:19 pm

NG,I do so much agree with you. There are so many beautiful ladies on here that I would not begin to try and choose just one.( an orgy however I could really go for). I like you, would not dream of doing anything without my lady there. Thanks again NG, Runt

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:13 pm:
Us Southerners don't do orgies well....all those 'Thank you' notes to send afterwards.....


MaggiesWishes 61F

5/25/2006 4:22 pm

Whew! Thanks for "keeping my back" here All is corrected now.
If it's not the dyslexia, it's the dementia these days

warm huggies 2ya Dark One

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:14 pm:
Anytime Maggie...anytime....

and thank you......

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
5/25/2006 5:52 pm

There is something about that Cowboy_Deluxe Cowboy_Deluxe that just gets my panties in a crunch! MMMM, ride em; cowboy!

Now for you, I see you as the more romantic lover type. Would be nice to share a glass of wine

Purry {=}


Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:15 pm:
Well, name your wine.....*is really starting to blush somewhat*


007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
5/25/2006 7:57 pm

Like potato chips, no one can eat just one-no one can do just one.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:15 pm:
True...but I think I'm just whistling in the wind, to be honest....

Fox4aKnight1 44F

5/25/2006 9:38 pm

hugs sweetie I just came by to say hello.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/25/2006 10:16 pm:
Hiya darlin'.....glad you stopped by....

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
5/25/2006 10:10 pm

    Quoting rm_kelli4u2dew:
    I can damn sure refute that last comment! YOU are VERY special, and VERY wonderful!

    NG, sorry for hijacking
*steps out of the way while kelli has her say*

I couldn't agree more...and don't apologize for did fine....

Thank you....

HBowt2 60F

5/26/2006 12:21 am

To pick and name one way...there are so many wonderful people on here....each one different....each one that appeals to the different sides of me.......Maybe that is some of the attraction of interacting on here.....when your'e in a partucular mood you can visit the person that will feed that mood....

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/26/2006 12:36 am:
My sentiments, there is always the fear that you'll say one person's name....and they slam you in public....


curious082385 32F
4925 posts
5/26/2006 3:57 am

Just grinning at Saint's comment. So do I.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/28/2006 9:54 pm:
Well, I couldn't drop a more broad of a hint, now could I? *grins*

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
5/26/2006 4:37 am

haha picking one is easy,but with all the luck i have,its impossible as something always happens to 3uck it up so i pick like you,some for coffee,others for discussion,others for education and some i might just like to ,well you know

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/28/2006 9:55 pm:

I think that I might just have to forget about ever fufilling the dream of meeting....for my own reasons...but I hear you about something f*cking things up...thanks....

Kaliedascope61 43M
4084 posts
5/26/2006 6:48 am

I have the woman that I need, and want, so its not so hard for me to narrow down the field. However there are a few that I would love to become friends with and maybe share some intimate moments in a candle lit setting.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/28/2006 9:56 pm:
Different reasons for different people....but as I just told papy, I think I might just have to tone it down for now.....thanks for your comment.....

rm_____Jake__ 47M
134 posts
5/26/2006 6:22 pm

Thank god Im still single NG LMAO. I dont have that problem. Hmmmm could be why Im single??? Ill have to ponder that one, (slips off to his basement to think)

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/28/2006 9:56 pm:
You're still single because you have standards, mi amigo...don't ever drop those standards.....thanks....

HeartlessBitch69 48F

5/27/2006 9:24 am

There is one on here that the whole world knows I love, and then there is one that no body knows about, that has my heart in a Big Way! Then there is like 3,000 others that just make me WET! lol

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/28/2006 9:58 pm:
3,000??? My word....I don't know what to say.......

Thanks for your comment, my dear.....

MamChelle 49F
1443 posts
5/27/2006 9:45 pm

most i have met here in real life have went on to be some of the most awsome of friends i have ever known...and why should anyone /anywhere/ever have to pick just one? *wicked bad girl grins* i have to admit that i couldn't i like pairs too much these days to ever be so silly as to choose just one! Hehehe. *rubs me...good things comes in pairs* *giggles*

Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/28/2006 9:59 pm:

Glad to hear that....maybe someday, I'll get to know some of these good people in real time.....maybe......thanks....

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
5/28/2006 2:23 pm

Never easy to pick just one..and no reason to do so. So many different personalities..each with their own gifts to offer.
Good post..and your diplomacy shows through.



Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/28/2006 10:00 pm:
Variety is the spice of life....thank you......diplomacy, eh? With my cynicism, diplomacy is just a polite way of BSing...for most people *grins*

PurplePeach72 45F  
9199 posts
5/30/2006 7:50 pm

I was trapped in the light so long I had forgotten the joys of the darkness. I have not committed often here in blog land, being content to read over and sometimes add to Leeann's post. Reading several of your post I chose to post here first, simple because it is easiest. It will take sometime for me to compose the post worthy of appearing your latest posting. Looking forward to Leeann's meeting a Domn and learning why I wish to be her sub and how there is so much pleasure for both us to be gained in ways she cannot even imagine yet.
As to the no so simple simple question of who here in blog land while of course my wife, Kelli4u2dew, sexydisaser30, caressmewell. All four different, but yet the same in one way, the depth of their souls. The realness of their being. There are no words to describe what being shared by the four of them would be like.
Thank you for providing a place for me to share my very real desire.
Not always committing, but always in the shadows, watching and listening.



Nightguy_1961 replies on 5/30/2006 9:49 pm:
Excellent choices....and you see my dilemma....

Thanks....and welcome to the Fortress.....

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