My second Mentor  

Nightguy_1961 56M
3324 posts
4/18/2006 4:48 pm

Last Read:
4/21/2006 9:20 pm

My second Mentor

This is a continuation on my BDSM experiences over the years. To see what has gone before, please read:
The Dark Sage reminisces on things gone by
My first step on my Path along the Lifestyle
My first mentor

The Dark Sage lights the candle on his desk, illuminating the shadows. Opening his journal, he starts to write, but hesitates. Taking a sip of wine, he knows this is the hardest thing he will have to write. Sighing, he starts to write...

While working at the strip club one night, one of the dancers came in, all in a hurry; like she was looking for something. She saw me and hugged me quickly (we had spent some time together), then whispered in my ear, "Can you leave work now?" I had another hour to go, but things we slow, so, getting one of the other bouncers to cover, I headed out. She was practically dragging me by the hand. {i] "Where are we going?', I asked suspiciously. "We're going to meet a friend...a real good friend", she replied as she hustled me into her car and hopped in the driver's side. We took off, drove a few miles, and stopped in a quiet residential area of Orlando in front of a very nice house.

Going up to the door, this dancer rang the doorbell, dancing excitedly. The door opened and standing in front of me was the most exquisite woman I had ever met. Barely standing 5'5" in heels, she had platinum blonde hair, deep blue eyes, and a slightly cool, yet sexy smile. She had a very attractive figure from the way her dress hung onto her curves. She smiled and said, "Come in and make yourself at home" as she took my hand in greeting. Turning to the girl, she said low, "You were almost late...never let it happen again. Go get ready." The eager girl said nothing, but rushed towards another part of the house.

The lady introduced herself as Lady S and asked if I knew why I was here. I had no clue, and let her know so. She laughed, her laughter like a soft chime in my ear. She explained, "I am that girl's Domme and she is one of my girls. I gave her an assignment: find someone to bring here tonight, someone you trust. She had one hour." She further explained that the girl was trying to push a limit tonight: being dominated while being watched by someone else. Lady S looked me in the eye and said, "You don't have to stay if you don't want to. Nothing is expected of you except to watch, okay?"

Realizing that I could have left, something in her eyes made me stay. What harm could be done? She got up from her chair, obviously pleased that I'd decided to stay. Taking my arm, she led me back into the house where the girl had gone earlier. Entering a spacious bedroom, I saw the girl who brought me kneeling on the bed, her knees spread; her hands clasped behind her neck. Her eyes were looking down at her nakedness. Lady S motioned me to a chair to watch what would take place, then she started to weave her magic...

How to describe what she did? Without ever raising her voice, Lady S made her girl lie back; spread her legs, play with herself; suck on her own nipples. Lady S made the girl get on her hands and knees and proceeded to flog her. The girl yelped and squealed, but never attempted to move. When Lady S sat back down in her chair, the girl crawled over and kissed her shoes, thanking her in quiet tones. Lady S said, "Don't you think you should thank you friend for helping you with your task?" The girl crawled over and kissed my hand, thanking me and asking, "Ma'am, is it alright if I kiss his lips?" Lady S smiled and nodded, "If it is okay with him, then by all means" The girl almost jumped up and kissed me deeply, then whispered in my ear, "Thank you, Sir".

As we were leaving, Lady S took me to the side. "I would like it if you would consider coming by to see me. Would tomorrow be okay?" Since it was my day off, I told her I could. Arriving the next day, Lady S told me: she had heard about me from my previous mentor by asking about me. Seeing that I had some experience in BDSM, she was wanting to help me further with my learning. I accepted her offer to be my mentor.

Many a night, I was with her as she worked her BDSM magic. I learned from her the subtle art of mental domination…the ability to dominate using only my voice. Lady S used to always say, "It is easy to tie someone down. The art is using only your will...your voice...your eyes to hold someone in place." She taught me how to drop my voice to a certain timbre to make a submissive's heart skip a beat. She taught me how to use my eyes to keep a submissive in place. Under her supervision, I learned that one does not have to be a bully to dominate. All one needs is the will and the desire.

Lady S and I become more that just teacher and student. We became closer than friends, closer than family. Many a night, we sat and just talked about any and everything. As close as we were, it was never a sexual relationship. Yes, she was an attractive woman, but I always felt that if we crossed that line, that something would be different, something would be lost. Many a night, I'd fall asleep on her bed; her under the covers & me on top; my arm around her as we slept.

One night, she was upset about a family matter at her home so far away. She was in tears as she told me about what was going on. All I could do was just hold her as she drank wine, trying to chase away her problem. As she got a little tipsy, I helped her to bed. I helped her into her bathroom and waited outside. She walked out naked (not a problem, I'd seen her nude body before) and crawled into bed, with me beside her on top of the covers. As she continued to cry, I just held her close, wishing I could take her pain away. She fell asleep in my arms.

When I awoke at sunrise, she stirred and looked me in the eye. She said, "I'm so sorry. I know you think I'm a fool.' I looked her in the eye and reassured her that I never would be that ignorant. She smiled and kissed me. The electricity as our lips touched shocked us, for she pulled back and looked me in the eye. " I think I might be making a mistake, but who gives a damn" she said as she kissed me again, this time with passion. We made love as the sun came up...just two friends who needed the closeness that all of us do at one time or another.

Sex didn't pull us apart, but my situation down in Florida got worse, job wise. Figuring things would be better back in Virginia, I packed my car and headed home. I kept in touch with most of my friends as long as I could, especially Lady S. But time and circumstances work against us all, and I lost touch with Lady S over the years. I've heard that she passed away while I was up north back in the 1990's. That thought makes me sad, very sad. I learned what makes a Dominant from this special lady, and the thought that she has passed on leaves a hole in my soul.

The Dark Sage puts down his quill and wipes his tired eyes. Blowing out the candle, he sits in a lone tear runs down his memory of his friend.

©Nightguy_1961 2006

libgemOH 57M/53F

4/18/2006 5:40 pm

Lady S must have been very special and precious to you. I'm sorry for your loss but glad for you that you had her in your life! Still listening very attentively...-B

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/18/2006 9:39 pm:

That was a long time ago, but when one touches your life, it hurts when they go

MamChelle 49F
1443 posts
4/18/2006 7:42 pm

Tears and memories refresh our souls....*skoyc* c

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/18/2006 9:42 pm:
They do....just didn't think it would still be so fresh, you know?

NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
4/18/2006 7:52 pm

I remember the first time you told me about Her the pain in your eyes was almost to much. I know it took a lot to put this out for all to see. Thank you for sharing so much for all to see.
Hugs and love for you to find

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/18/2006 9:43 pm:
My lady,

You know that you are the Number 1 lady in my life now *hugs*

tillerbabe 57F

4/19/2006 12:10 am

It's so very exciting and fascinating how these people came into your life..

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/19/2006 12:54 am:

At the time, Orlando was an exciting place for a guy in his early twenties to be at...

BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
4/19/2006 8:48 am

Simply Beautiful, Darlin'

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/19/2006 7:11 pm:
I try, Darlin'...I try

NSAAddict 43F

4/19/2006 10:13 am

I'm so moved by the way you write NightGuy, not only the heart and soul that goes into your memories of your dear friend but also the way your beautiful description of your beginnings stirs me deep inside. Thank you.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/19/2006 7:12 pm:

I'm glad you like what I write...that means a lot to me...thank you.

wickedeasy 68F  
31332 posts
4/19/2006 5:12 pm

thank you

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/19/2006 7:12 pm:
You're welcome.....not sure what I did, but you're welcome

Babel__Fish 46F

4/21/2006 5:19 am

My thoughts on what you learned from is Domme is what BDSM is really all about, if you HAVE to control someone with ropes & whips alone then (in my eyes) that person is not really submitting to you and could only be looking for acceptable abuse in the realm of BDSM.

A submissive should be able to be controlled by her Master's or Dominants words before being dominated by ropes or bondage gear.

I am going to write a bit about when I came to join my Master here in Belgium so that maybe others can get a feel for the lifestyle better through my writing as well.

Thank you for sharing and also know that you are educating the people that are reading your posts about the lifestyle that we both share, some people have grave misconceptions about BDSM as a whole.

*hugs for you both*

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/21/2006 9:21 pm:
Here's to hoping to dispel any & all misconceptions about BDSM.

I look forward to reading about your experiences, Babel.

Whispersoftly5 53F
15176 posts
4/21/2006 2:44 pm

The circle of life can be so painful. I am sorry for you loss and take joy that she touched your life in such a special way.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/21/2006 9:22 pm:

Thank is about loss, damn...I heard that the other day somewhere.

Become a member to create a blog