Does older mean out of luck?  

Nightguy_1961 56M
3324 posts
6/3/2006 3:54 am

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Does older mean out of luck?

A good friend of mine, wickedeasy, posted an interesting post awhile back, for women over 40 only. It was a list of reasons why women over 40 are special.

Well, wicked and I are good friends and we bantered back and forth about this in IM and on the phone in a playful manner, with me saying that there was no matching list for us old guys over the age of 40.

So, ladies, I need your help. Give a reason why us guys over 40 are special. I'd like to see if I can come up with a list that extols the virtues of us OLD guys...you know, us guys who see the big red X in the box for age when we view a profile.

Guys...stand proud and tell us why we're better with age...please?

Thanks for any information you give...and please, be kind...

©NG61 2006


GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
6/3/2006 3:57 am


to prevent any further confusion as to what or who I am I best not comment to this one

~ grinz ~


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/4/2006 3:04 am:
Okay, now I'm curious.....

BaronessK 53F

6/3/2006 5:16 am

Well, I was going to 'cheat' and see if there was something already on the net; if there is, I couldn't find it. So, I guess I'll famble on by myself as best I can.

{Real} Men over 40...

*Realize life is short...but it's far from over.

*Realize there is sex and then there is SEX.

*Realize the 'buttons' on a woman are far better than a remote's.

*Realize they may want a 20 year old bimbo, but she won't be able to appreciate what all he took so long to perfect.

*Realize that no matter how good or young they feel, a woman their own age will already know what's worth risking their health for {positions, locations, mixture of both}.

*has already learned to have an empty house, a locked door, an unplugged phone, a cell phone set to voice mail only, and the right mood motivators along with a gentle touch when needed.

*has hopefully more than realized it doesn't matter how big the other guy's dick is...unless his girlfriend of wife is cheating on him {in which case...it still doesn't matter what size the dick is}.

That's all I can think of, for now; I'll think about while I'm at work later and get back to you probably.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:50 am:
Good reasons....wish I could say I've got the empty house....not yet, anyway.....thanks.....

Whispersoftly5 53F
15176 posts
6/3/2006 5:30 am

Experience has value
Knows what's important and what not to give a gosh darn about
With age come character

Whisper...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:50 am:
At my age, I certainly am a character.......

Thanks....

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
6/3/2006 5:51 am

Men over 40...are better..because..they

-Know how to take their time
-Do seem to appreciate a woman's body as well has her personality more
-Are more creative in bed
-Are more willing and able to attend to her pleasure
-Are often better conversationalists
-Give better advice..based on life experience
-Have grown more fully into their personalities
-Are more relaxed around women
-Aren't as easily intimidated..if at all
-More sophisticated..have acquired better taste..so:
....Drink better liquor
....Often know how to cook..well
....Drive better cars
....Dress better
-Make more money..so:
....Can afford more expensive jewelry
....Have their own place

Other have already touched on some of this. Don't want to get too redundant here..

Kiss

Kiss


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:52 am:
I don't think you're being redundant....thanks.....

Sorceror07 55M

6/3/2006 5:53 am

knowledge is power... it's a myth that a man reaches his sexual peak at 17, at least if he makes it a point to study tantra.

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:52 am:
The first time I heard that theory about a man reaching his peak at 17, I said to myself, "If this is true, then I'm fucked......"

Thanks.....

libgemOH 57M/53F

6/3/2006 6:12 am

I would not even consider a man younger than 40!!!
* Better lovers!!!
* Real life experience!!
* More grounded in reality!!
* FAR FAR sexier!!!!
* Know what they want in their life!!
* Less fickle!!
* Less worried about what everyone else thinks!!
* Less hang ups!
* Understand that life is what they make it!!
* More responsible!!
If you want more, I can come up with pages!! Kids are nice but real men are where it's at!! -B


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:53 am:
Thanks B, you've come up with some good ones....

ButteryDelight 59F

6/3/2006 7:16 am

Men over 40 are better because

They are not impatient and take their time to appreciate the gift of a woman's body also involves the heart of her soul

Have developed a sense of humor that fits any occasion

Are as generous with their time as they are with their thoughts and feelings.

Are unique because everyone of them has come from a different back ground and is so shaped by life's various twists and turns

Are "keepers" because a wise woman knows the little fish get thrown back in to grow and mature.

Buttery Delight


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:56 am:
Are "keepers" because a wise woman knows the little fish get thrown back in to grow and mature.

Bottom dwellers get thrown back as well.......look at me.....

Thanks.....

MOfunNOWWOW 56F

6/3/2006 9:36 am

Men over 40...why do I love thee, let me count thy ways!!! No I won't do a blog take over but just give this for a huge enlightenment!!!
Prior to the age of 40, men want to fuck the bejesus out of ya...after the age of 40 men want to relish and slowly make love to every inch, every nook and every crany! Men over 40...let me worship them! mmmmmmmm {=}


MOMO
just a squirrel trying to get a nut


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:58 am:
MO,

Then please explain why a large percentage of the ladies on this friendly site seem to have cut us 'old' guys out....even the ladies who are older?

Doesn't make sense.....

Thanks, my dear.....

rm_Twister2bed 48M
617 posts
6/3/2006 9:48 am

I didn't get to 40 yet gimme a few more years of exp and I'll come back and spill the beans.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:58 am:

rm_Melciber 62M
214 posts
6/3/2006 11:22 am

I am going to come back to this blog over and over and over.

What a boost. Thanks NightGuy. Thanks all you wonderful women that have replied - wish I could do an individual thankyou, but NG might object

Actually I might just copy-and-paste this blog, print it and post it on my fridge door.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 2:59 am:
Go right ahead.....thanks....

BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
6/3/2006 11:32 am

I can't speak for all Men over the age of 40, NG. However, I can speak for those that serve me. It has everything to do with knowledge. Likes, dislikes, what works, what doesn't and the all mighty what is expected. The wisdom they have gained growing over the years makes those over 40 attractive and well defined. The molding factor has been established and they know what to expect or accept. This is ever changing and the ability to understand facts and act upon them can be charming. Training has been in place and you can move forward refining the relationship. Maturity and priorities are more established in 40 plus men, IMO. I have found that the investment in Men over 40 is a good one. It seems to click. Manners and the way in which you carry yourself is pleasing.

I am sure I have overlooked something here, but shall say that it is most important that men over 40 not let themselves go. Again, wisdom is key.

House of Lady Hunter © Summer of 2006


After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:01 am:
Nicely put, thank you........

MamChelle 49F
1443 posts
6/3/2006 12:10 pm

As You know NG this girl is 37, but i rarely date men in their 30s. i am deeply attracted to, big, tall, and silvered, men in their 50s. i have that Daddy fetish thingy. i find that older men value the entire woman more than mere body parts. Over 40, most men have lived enough to know that we women aren't all going to be perfection, every day of our lives. Most men over 40, are employed and stable and i am one that is not a gold digger, but is real enough to understand, that i need that stability in my life. Men over 40, are more appreciative of my talents, in every area. And most men over 40, have the practice, and skills, to never let me forget that i am a woman!!...and aren't so overly judgemental, that they can't see past the badgirl act, to discover the good one beneath.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:02 am:
Good answer, thank you, bad girl....*grins*

FeistySyn 53F

6/3/2006 12:14 pm

I prefer men over 40 always (for all the wonderful reasons listed above), unfortunately, they don't seem to prefer me.... apparently, I am too old for them... they chase the 20-something to 30-something set.... sigh... then the 50 - 60-somethings chase me... now *they* really are too old... I don't want to date someone who reminds me of my father

Apparently the depth of depravity here is bottomless... don't you feel right at home?
~~~~~


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:10 am:
It would appear that I'm too old for most people...oh well.....

FeistySyn 53F

6/3/2006 12:17 pm

P.S. If you have never read Andy Rooney's bit about the benefits of women over 40, you should.... it's GREAT... and much of it I think applies to men as well...

Apparently the depth of depravity here is bottomless... don't you feel right at home?
~~~~~


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:10 am:
Thanks.....

NJCuriousOne559 58F
1 post
6/3/2006 12:21 pm

I prefer men over 40/50 for the following reasons:

1) They know how to treat a lady in and out of the bedroom.
2) Knowing what they want and that its quality over quanity and mental stimulation also has to be there
3) Experienced in all aspects of life

etc.

I will never again date a younger man. Been spoiled and love it


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:11 am:
Glad to hear that it works for you....thank you.....

sexyladytech 47F

6/3/2006 12:32 pm

Mmmmm... just thinking about men 40 and older.....sigh... what a pleasure... After reading through the responses i have to agree with each of them... I personally have a playmate that is a little over 50. The magic that occurs when we are able to get together .... you can't put a price on that kind of passion. It is unhurried, tender, ever building toward climax.... for me it isn't about gifts or shopping - I can buy whatever my heart desires..... but my body yearns for his touch. Something that i haven't encountered with men my age or younger.... there are just certain elements missing.

that's my two cents worth!!

sexy


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:12 am:
Nicely put, thank you......

hornylilgirl78 107F

6/3/2006 12:51 pm

I've been dating men in their 40's for several years now...I love them! They are so much more experienced, confidant, and secure in who they are. In terms of dating, "older" men (NOT OLD...just older than me ) tend to be much more chivalrous, yet still accepting of a woman needing to occassionally open her own door...you can sit and actually WATCH a movie with this man because he knows the fooling around can wait till afterwards, and he is more aware of the things happening in the world - rather than just those things that affect his life. He tends to pick up on subtle hints much more easily, will actually talk with you, and is upfront with you avout his feelings and desires. Sex tends to be less of a numbers game with him and more about the value of the experience. And the best part? Most men over 40 have learned that cuddling afterwards is s GOOD thing!

~HLG78~

"As kinky as a cheap garden hose!"


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:13 am:
Glad that you think that way....wish more ladies did....thank you....

NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
6/3/2006 1:07 pm

I have found that men over 40 look at a woman as a whole. They do not have to have the Angelina Jolie or Barbie Doll type women around them. Let's face facts, ladies, we fill out a little more or a little less than we want to.

Men over 40 like curves and like playing with them in all kinds of interesting ways. (like other women have said, they know how to press the right buttons)

Men over 40 are ones you can talk to and hold a conversation that is interesting.

Men over 40 (most of them) know how to wear their pants!!! Let's face facts, I don't want to be seen with someone whose pants are hanging around their asscheeks and who look like they can't afford clothes that fit or match. Besides, good fitting pants give a woman an idea to see what kind of pushing power he might have... LOL

NGs_lady/Lady Stee


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:14 am:


You and I have had this conversation about the baggy pants.....LOL

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
6/3/2006 1:25 pm

I let you know when I get there...LOL...but I have to tell you, my thirties so far have been VERY good to me, and I'm looking forward to my Forties too!

lustytaurus


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:15 am:
No problem, kid...I'll have your hummaround ready when you get here....*shuffles off mumbling to himself about 'young whippersnappers'......*

PurplePeach72 45F  
9199 posts
6/3/2006 1:28 pm

Great post and when you compile a complete list please send me a copy b/c I'm going to e-mail it to all the sexy men over 40 that I know, who complain that the younger guys have it easier...lol
I love men over 40, actually prefer them. My favorite boytoy is 42, my hubby is 46 and our favorite couple, both are over 45. Why do I love these older more mature men:

- always offer me a soft place to fall
- never mind lots of foreplay
- no premature ejaculation
- no "I'm all that & a bag of chips" attitudes
- even the ones who spend hours in the gym don't admit it, or expect their women to.
- always appreciate a younger sexy woman
- more thorough lovers
- make sure they fully satisfy their lovers
- take their pleasure from their lovers pleasure and never quit til she's done
- almost never really look their age
- generally great conversationalist, sense of humor, and humility
- salt & pepper, gray, silver or hair look sexy on men, so does bald
- have learned that it's not the size of thier dicks that matters but how mch attention they pay to their lovers
- always find the right buttons and have a knack for discovering new ones
- appreciate a woman with sexy curves and a brain
- not intimidated by strong women
- more respectful of limits and desires
- less drama
- less demanding in and out of bed
- the best kissers
- better cars, trucks and toys
- won't be insulted if you bring them a piece of Viagra
- more willing to experiment and less judgemental
- generally last longer in bed than younger men

40 something men are awesome! Rock on guys! Great post! WIth your permission I'd like to put a link to this in my next post.
{=}LeeAnn



Kisses,
LA


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:16 am:
I'm not saying that they have it easier....just saying that it seems that the ladies want them younger....if they're being honest on their profiles....know what I mean?

Thanks....

wickedeasy 68F  
30939 posts
6/3/2006 4:27 pm

one of my SIr's friends is 60 and is marrying a woman who is 35. He doesn't much like her, they fight all the time, and he thinks she is silly and vapid. why is he marrying her? because in his words "she's under 40"

that being said - men that i consider MEN, over 40 are better because
- they know what to say when you ask - does this make me look fat?
- they take their time
- they shower before sex, not after
- they make sure you are fed - physically, emotionally and with a good wine to go with it
- they can TALK, not just pontificate
- they understand that anticipation is a good thing
- they listen - not just pretend to listen
- they're smarter in the ways of the world, of the heart
- they don't lie, but they know the value of a good circuitous answer

and they're ever so grateful - grins and runs

WE

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:19 am:
and they're ever so grateful - grins and runs
ouch...

No need to run.....I can't catch you with this dagger in my back.....

longtallandcute 43M
42 posts
6/3/2006 7:44 pm

I must admit to being briefly unsettled by some of the comments about people in their 30s (I'm 31) - then I came to my senses and realised that I've generally considered my five-year-younger self to be something of a schmuck my whole life. So I'm sure I'll have that opinion of the 31-me when I'm 40.. and so on. *shrugs*

And if my father's anything to go by, it doesn't have to slow down much when you hit your sixties. Lucky bugger, he gets far more sex than I do...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:29 am:
Glad to hear that your dad's not slowing down.....and thanks....

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
6/3/2006 9:11 pm

Nightguy....this was a great post...with some really good comments. I do think that most men over 40 know how to treat a woman. And maybe they just don't take them for granted the way some of the younger men do. I'm not really able to compare them to the younger men though because I don't have the experience. ~hugs~


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:29 am:
Glad you enjoyed it....and thank you.....

SacredStarDance

6/3/2006 11:02 pm

all of the above and more..hubby is 49..he is proof age is just a number..its what you have learned and how you live.. the sexiest most caring, compasionate man..friend..lover..My Husband

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:30 am:
Nice endorsement...can I quote you on that?

Thanks.....

OboesHonedIambs 63F

6/4/2006 12:56 am

Guys over 40 are better, because they're well seasoned by life experience. By and large they're past the mistakes of callow youth and appreciate what they do have.
So, guy over 40 are:

more responsive.
stable ,
appreciate women more than girls,
offer more substance,
are much better lovers,
are more patient,
laugh more,
love more,
and aren't as hung up.

Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:34 am:
Nice reasons....thanks.....

BaronessK 53F

6/4/2006 3:04 am

Looked up the Andy Rooney thing for 'inspiration'; found out it wasn't written by him, but by Frank Kaiser {a columnist for Suddenly Senior}. What I also found on the Urban Legends site was a reference to a long ago message from Benjamin Franklin about older women {that I believe goes both ways, for both sexes}.

"Old Mistresses' Apologue" June 25. 1745 {by Benjamin Franklin}

My dear Friend,

I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entring into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.

But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:

1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.

2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.

7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.

8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!

Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.


If good old BF said it, that's good enough for me. {Plus, I think older men are incredibly sexy anyway -- their experiences shine through, leaving a 'roadmap' of sorts in their face and through their expressions.}


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:35 am:
Thanks for the research.....

HBowt2 60F

6/4/2006 8:07 am

You damn well know...or if you don't then you're not over 40.....


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:36 am:
Well....according to my profile...my ID has been verified as to my age and all, so yes....I'm over 40.......

sorry......

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
6/4/2006 12:47 pm

no idea never dated one

hehe sorry


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:37 am:
AHA!!!!

I knew one lady would admit that once that age hits 4-0, he's put out to pasture.......

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
6/4/2006 2:12 pm

Goddess knows that age is just a number...so tapping into this mindset is impossible for me...even jokingly, NG!

Different people are different in different times..
never about comparisons for me age wise... I appreciate all men
of all ages at different times for different reasons.

Remind me to tell you something when we talk...I don't want to post it ..................hugz from Goddess!


Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:38 am:
It appears that some people think that age is more than just a number, however.....and most of us guys & gals have been stung by it more than once.....

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
6/4/2006 2:14 pm

Astrologically, however...there is a shift for everyone on or about
their 46th birthday


Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


HeartlessBitch69 47F

6/4/2006 4:08 pm

I will not be with a man now that is not over the age of 39! I did not know what I was missing! I had my first older man December 30th 2005, it was mrrdking, who is now 49.
Older men know what forplay is.
Older men take thier time.
They think about you!
I have never had a man think about me! I am mrrdkings Little One and he treats me as such. He is so calm.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:38 am:
Good for you!!!!!

lacenleather2 106F
159 posts
6/4/2006 6:15 pm

Well My shadowed friend ...
at 94 I have seen much .slight snicker at white lie ..and I will not lie ...there is a special time, need , hunger, of the ..."i am robbing the cradle", but i believe that a 40+ man's ( average)attributes are ...
1) hopefully they know that up against the wall lust is not for everyday ....cause than it looses it's extoic pull
2That if they want me to sit there and not have an opinion than they better be the One ...and still know that i have an opinion
3) that in order to have the best sex that you have had ,,,,you have to give the best sex that you can
4)That reality is life and you have to be responsible for what you ask and what you get and what you give ...
5)believe that laughter and conversation count ,. even in the bedroom
6 they know that the journey between skin on skin , or leather and lace is the most important process, not the end beore we start
4) and last ...but should be first , you have to realize that a women at 40ish or above is at her prime , and a little extra padding only makes the ride more comfortable ...look in the mirror
lacen


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 3:39 am:
Excellent reasons.....thank you.....

funintheday2006 57M
9659 posts
6/5/2006 3:26 am

Oh, my over has been well and truly whelmed! And, naturally, my whelmed is over.
Directed here by a cyberfriend who read my blog today on the anguish of my age.
Great blog, Ill be back.
In the meantime, Ive never seen so many ladies like guys over 40. So why isn't there a line waiting at my door??!!
Must be because Im ugly!


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:52 pm:
No....not ugly.....maybe because your light hasn't been seen yet by others...stay tough and stay the course....and thanks....

HBowt2 60F

6/5/2006 3:49 am

Well....according to my profile...my ID has been verified as to my age and all, so yes....I'm over 40.......

sorry......


i knew that....but its the confidence that a man has when he is over 40 that i find attractive and his sense of who he is and what is important to him.....and all of this comes across in your abiltity to post about your lifstlye in such an open manner.....your carings in your comments ..and so much more....not every guy over 40 has this so maybe its not an age related thing but i find that it's usually only present in guys over 40..


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:52 pm:
Thanks....I figured that's what you meant...and I am honored by your compliments....

wickedeasy 68F  
30939 posts
6/5/2006 6:48 am

grins - now NG you know i didn't mean you - you wild sexy thang you - half of blogville starts panting when they see you posted

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:53 pm:
Oh really....which half?

Thanks darlin'....less than 24 hours now!!!!

SacredStarDance

6/5/2006 9:45 am

yes you can

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:54 pm:
I thank you so very much

rm_shannee2006 53F
3355 posts
6/5/2006 12:21 pm

I seem to consistently pick men in the ranges of 36-44. Don't know why that is...but it's working for me right now.

I agree with what the other ladies have to say about this topic, so no need to repeat what's already been said so far. What I will say on a personal level is that I need a youthful attitude toward life. That is, a sense of adventure. I love humor and I have noticed that men of some maturity have learned that humor works wonders with women...and they are really good at flirting in humorous ways by the time they are in their 40's.

I am rather like Shaye in that I am a really good at guiding people to finding the best and deeper parts of themselves...Men of maturity see that in me and value me even more for that than they do for my looks.

I've also noticed that young men are almost totally oriented toward the visual, whereas men of maturity begin to see just how much their imagination adds to sex. A man with an imagination can make sex amazing for himself and for his partner. I like being with a man who finds ways to make every encounter new and fresh. That shows that he was thinking about me...really thinking about ME...not just his own orgasm before before I was in his arms. Young men don't bother with that, they just pull your cloths off. That's fun and all...but it hardly shows any true concern for my overall experience of his company.

Nice topic! Then again...men are a favorite topic of mine anyway. LOL!

Yup...this juiciness is from me....

S


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:56 pm:
Thank you, shannee....you, along with the others, have put it so well...

I would like to think that I've discovered myself through my travels and experiences. I take heart in knowing that the journey is far from over....

Thanks again....

BaronessK 53F

6/6/2006 5:59 am

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    grins - now NG you know i didn't mean you - you wild sexy thang you - half of blogville starts panting when they see you posted
Oh, gawd, don't we, though?! {trying to see NG with mzhuny blocking my way, again!}

To try to clarify my earlier ramblings, NG, it basically boiled down to me, personally, having to have time to think back on their ages {and versus maturity, for some of them}. I didn't date until I was 18, and then rarely at first; one of my very first dates, at 20, was with a guy who happened to be {notice how that's phrased} 49...and it wasn't a father fixation or anything like that. I simply thought he was 'sexy' -- attractive, confident, funny, likable, and very much able to get my motor purring like a fine-tuned Porshe! Age IS only a number; some men never mature, so I wouldn't want them, regardless. I have consistently date 'older' guys; not because of their age {and not in spite of it, either}, but because they were mature {and sexy}.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:56 pm:
BaronessK,

Thank you...I do appreciate your input and your compliments....

ohcurious14 60M  
1684 posts
6/6/2006 7:05 am

48 and don't really know what to say. I am speechless here.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:57 pm:
That makes two of us.....

ButteryDelight 59F

6/7/2006 9:26 am

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/5/2006 4:56 am:
Are "keepers" because a wise woman knows the little fish get thrown back in to grow and mature.

Bottom dwellers get thrown back as well.......look at me....Thanks...


Bottom dwellers? hmmm..Now, I am thinking, mmmmmm YUM..fried catfish!..lol.

Seriously now, I believe the gift of a woman's body also involves the heart of her soul,the inner core of who she is. That's why is so devestating. Following that thought. It also means that the gift of a man's body would also involves the heart of his soul, the inner core of who he is. That being the case and in mho, Nightguy Sir, who ever threw you back needs their head examined.

Buttery Delight


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/7/2006 11:58 pm:
Thank you...I am honored and humbled.....

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