A new breed to take into account.........  

Nightguy_1961 56M
3324 posts
3/20/2006 11:54 pm

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3/24/2006 11:08 pm

A new breed to take into account.........


Okay...in the past, I've written about the different types that come into the Basement chatroom here on AdultFriendFinder ( see Prof Night's Guide to the different 'types' who enter the basement & An addition to Prof Night's Guide). While they were written very much tongue in cheek, there was a streak of truth in them.

Recently, a new type has caught my attention...and I can't come up with another name other than the one given to it by BAB...attention slut

NOTE: an apology to those true sluts in the world who are proud of the fact they're sluts..We love you and don't go changing' a damn thing

An attention slut is just that...someone who craves attention...and cannot stand to be out of the limelight. There are both male and female attention sluts...and there are very few differences in the way they act. If they even get the slightest indication that their time in the spotlight is fading, the tactics used are 'interesting' to say the least.

Attention sluts will 'invite' the attentions of unwanted trolls, then turn around and, in a 'Perils of Penelope Pitstop' moment, ask for help from the people in the room. And before you ask, yes, I used to get roped into doing that...now, I just tell them, "Here's the iggy button...fire away!" Is it silly...yes! Is it childish...YES!!! But, did the attention slut get the fix they needed? Absolutely.

Then there are those who make a big deal about leaving the room...the reason is "Well, I've been in here and NOBODY's spoken to me!" Hey, it's a chatroom...and chat is a two way street. Chances are, if you jump right in and converse...people will respond. Just walking into a room doesn't necessarily guarantee someone will talk to you.

Another tactic is the 'poor pity me' feint...and this works for both male and female attention sluts. Nothing ever goes right for them...they haven't had a date in so long, haven't done this, things are bad, the sky is falling,...yadayadayada.

Got news for you, chief...Life is rough, especially in r/t. EVERYBODY has problems...and I mean problems much worse than not being able to 'find someone to be with'. I know someone who's dealing with severe depression almost 24/7...and you'd never tell by the way they talk in the chatroom. That person's attitude/outlook: Life's rough...wear a damn helmet!!!

Attention sluts...final notice: The handout from this One is over...get away from the keyboard for awhile...get outside in the real world...and find something REAL for a change.

NG61...trying out new loads in his 9mm of truth and logic

© Nightguy_1961 2006

rm_CuummDrop 50F
2591 posts
3/21/2006 3:07 am

Thinks back... uh oh,,, have i ever been... "brb-afk'd"....



Take care,,Sir..

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/21/2006 3:42 am:
CD,

LOL.....no, you don't even come close, so put that out of your pretty little head.

rm_CuummDrop 50F
2591 posts
3/21/2006 9:17 am

Whew, had me scared there for a minute Sir...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


wickedeasy 68F  
30968 posts
3/22/2006 2:51 pm

oh dear -

one passing thought

if someone is that desparate, that lonely, that needy - well, for me a few minutes of solace ain't such a bad thang

now, if they are simply blowing smoke up my ass......

easy

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/22/2006 8:13 pm:
easy,

True...but I think you know the types I'm talking about....just think about it.

NG61

angelicdelights 106F

3/23/2006 12:06 am

Sir,
You said toward the end of this blog..."That person's attitude/outlook: Life's rough...wear a damn helmet!!!".....you and i have talked about my past a tad bit and i would have to agree with that person. its rough but you just push past the negative ways and try hard to move to a more positive outlook.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/23/2006 12:49 am:
angelic,

Yes...we have talked a lot about what you've gone through...and not once have I ever heard you say that you felt sorry for yourself.

I'm proud of ya', darlin'

NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
3/23/2006 12:31 pm

it takes all kinds to make the world sorry we seam to get the worst kind in the chat rooms but as you tell me take the bad with the good or Iggy the bad.
NGs_lady


Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/23/2006 3:57 pm:
My lady,

You are so right...or there is the option of just not accepting either...by staying out of the room completely. All my love...Sir

MamChelle 49F
1443 posts
3/24/2006 7:09 am

*smiles* guilty...but as i recover..i am doing better...sometimes it takes having a Friend spank the ass and get deep into the whys of ones actions. As most of my Friends know 2004-5 was pure hell. i survived and have grown from it in many ways. *curtsys* i have a helmet and i expect a few crashes..and am greatfull for Ones i have grown to trust for being there to give a hand either up or to my backside whichever i need the most. *wicked grins* Besides being a regular ol' painslut is so much morerewarding in real life than crying in some cyber beer! Yuk i don't drink rt either! *hugs and ty's *


Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/24/2006 11:11 pm:
MamC,

As far as I can recall, you've never come across as an attention slut. If you think real hard, you'll know who and what I'm talking about....those who will take up your time & energy unloading their problems, but when you're down on the canvas...they have no time for you at all.

You've never done that

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