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4/13/2006 5:08 pm

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Quirky things about having a big dick:

First off, I didn't even know I had one until I was 21-22. I had never seen another guy naked and erect before in my life (outside of porn), so I just assumed I was the norm and that every guy had an 8-9 inch dick. I know it seems a bit absurd, but what else did I have to compare it to?

It wasn't until I lost my virginity that I discovered otherwise. My girlfriend told me that I had the biggest dick she had ever seen. Apparently guys being able to reach her cervix with length to spare WAS NOT the norm.

--Dress pants. To this day, I still feel a tad uncomfortable wearing them. When I was much younger (think high school era) I gained erections much much more easily: just the --sight-- of an attractive woman was enough. It was pleasurable and awkward at the same time. That's not a problem now: years of experience of being around women, and actually having sex, and the desensitization that comes with porn have helped, "mature" in that region.

But back then, not so much. And because the fabric of dress pants is often thinner then what I usually wear and prefer (jeans), it was much, much harder to hide an erection. All guys have had this or similar problems at one time or another, but it's really, REALLY hard to hide an 8+ inch prick with thin material when you're walking down the street.

Luckily these days I only wear dress clothes when I'm on business, and then I'm too focused for such naughty thoughts. Usually.

--Fear. Some girls have had big, some haven't. Some want big, some don't. When you drop trou, you have to immediately gauge your partner's reaction and take appropriate measures. If she's happy and excited, then you just let the good times roll. If she's shocked and nervous, then patience is the name of the game. Never rush her, encourage her to touch and stroke it before she does anything else. Personally, I want her to know that I can be gentle when need be, so she doesn't have to worry about me punching through to her stomach. Let her know that you can start slow as first, so you both can get your bearings, find out what your limitations are, etc. Excluding when it just gets down to hardcore dirty fucking, that's generally how I prefer to roll anyway. Every girl's got something different that she likes, and often they won't tell you (sometimes they might not know), so its up to the guy to take charge, and be a bit experimental with what he's doing and how he's doing it.

If I think of anything else, I'll write it out.


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