WHAT THE HELL?!?!?!?  

NaughtyKittyII 46F
535 posts
3/7/2005 9:58 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I'm not having a very good day today People. I've grown so tired of other peoples' negative opinions...as hard as I try not to pay them any attention...But somehow they still get too me...SOMETIMES. And I know it's only because I ALLOW IT!!!

For some strange reason, I'm now being viewed as being "intimidating"...

I can't help but to be who I AM...forget what anyone else says or thinks...for that matter!!!

To be so persecuted for being such a "free spirit" to me is uncalled for. If someone doesn't like it....DON'T FUCKIN' EMAIL ME THEN!!! DON'T CHAT WITH ME....NOTHING!!!

Kisses XOXO (though reluctantly)


redswallow777 49M
6811 posts
3/8/2005 6:00 am

Sorry your getting the bad press. I have been reading your blog for several weeks now and I have never found you intimidating....opinionated yes....intimidating no. I don't think I would take the time to check out what you were thinking if it were not for the "free spirit" I see in you.

There will always be those who see you as being too out there....too in their face...because you have strong opinions and opinions that differ from the masses. I say be true to yourself.
" Don't let them tame you!"
Isadora Duncan

SigEp4U 44M

3/8/2005 6:18 am

Chin-up girl... it's not all bad. Some people really like your attitude... myself for one. If you can't be who you really are... then life becomes a prison.

Take it easy... I'm gonna take it any way I can get it...


djkozzmx 43M

3/9/2005 12:47 am

Come on sweaty babe, get up an fight for your right to be FREE and just you. I like the way you are, don't worry about foolish people. Just relax, take it easy. Let me give you a sweet massage From Mexico: Your fan Enrique

LustGoddess2469 51F  
2453 posts
3/9/2005 10:31 am


Don't let the bastards drag you down. Just because a woman has an opinion on something, is intelligent, is sexually confident, expresses herself freely, and doesn't "go with the flow" doesn't make her intimidating - it makes her strong. A lot of men (if one can call them that without laughing) are afraid of strong women. They are the weak ones - the "toss asides" that waste our time. It takes a real man, one who is strong and confident and comfortable with his own sexuality, to be able to handle a strong woman. If they can't handle the heat, then they should get out of the damn kitchen.

And for whatever it's worth, I love being a B.I.T.C.H. (Beautiful, Intelligent, in Total Control of Herself), and you should be too.


rm_bluegenes51 57M
245 posts
3/9/2005 11:37 am

...How could anyone not love it??? (at least I did not call you a sweaty babe)

6sinsation9 55M

3/9/2005 11:53 am

Oh dear. Look, because some people might be intimidated by you doesn't mean you're 'intimidating'; it's in how they, individually, perceive you.

But more importantly, why is "intimidating" a negative thing? When I'm intimidated by a woman, it's generally because she's so intelligent, confident, and beautiful, that I'm afraid I'll say or do something moronic (more likely, 'both'), and end any chance of ever earning her respect. So, by my definition, is this such a bad thing to be?? Personally, I don't think so - I wish I met more of them ...

Of course, in the world of the Internet, having an opinion of any kind will draw someone to disagree with you. The only sure way to be universally agreed with is to say nothing at all.

So, you can listen to people like 'us' - who enjoy reading what you have to say - or you can listen to these others, and whatever trash they might be saying.

Choose wisely who you listen to ...

PerthPete 52M
124 posts
3/10/2005 6:52 am

hey naughty, chin up and good on you for being you. Why are people so negative, and if they are why do they have to take it out on others. Each to there own & hy do they have to take joy from hurting. The answer is is that they are sick, and because they are sick their rudeness and opionions should be treated with the disdain they deserve.


3/10/2005 7:43 pm

Kitty, you are so cool. Don't worry about what others think of you or say about you. Everyone has an opinion, but not all people should express their opinions because they're actually stupid. People always fear the things that they don't understand. That lack of understanding is usually due to a lack of personal development. So, just keep on being your bad self. You have a lot of love out here.

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