OK Ladies- Let me ask you a question...  

NativeTexan71 46M
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7/1/2006 1:36 pm

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7/4/2006 9:08 pm

OK Ladies- Let me ask you a question...

I've been on this site for a week (not continuously) and I've had a grand total of five profile views, about 5 legitimate e-mails (two were from guys- one propositioning me and one responding to my previous blog, and three ladies' auto-replies).

I had resigned myself to NOT putting a picture of my dick or my face on the site (and I'm still not putting a pic of my face on here- I can send you one privately if you'd like), but I finally decided to put a picture of my johnson up to see if that increases my responses.

Please take a look at this photo and answer honestly- would this make you more or less likely to open my proile than the other pictures (of my torso) that are already up there? What do I need to do to get noticed on this site more? Should I add- "have a long tongue and can breathe through my ears"? Any suggestions regarding my profile are welcome. Feel free to be brutally honest, although it would be nice to get a compliment or two.

NativeTexan71 46M

7/1/2006 3:28 pm

Maybe if I add some comments this will move up the board a bit where some of you can actually find it; after all, no one is going to my profile so no one knows I've added a new post to my blog, either.

NativeTexan71 46M

7/1/2006 3:29 pm

By the way, standard members ARE allowed to view my profile and reply to my e-mails, FYI.

NativeTexan71 46M

7/1/2006 3:31 pm

Also, now you ladies don't have to go to my profile to answer my question, although I hope you do; so, which of the above photos would be more likely to get your attention?

NativeTexan71 46M

7/1/2006 3:36 pm

By the way, here are some additional comments/rules I have come up with in regards to my experiences so far with regards to AdultFriendFinder. This is a quote from an e-mail I sent to a male member recently as I was getting frustrated with all the fake profiles.

"So far, the only replies I have had that seemed legit were two "auto reply" responses. I have managed to have a dialogue/elicit reciprocal interest from exactly 0 women. Half of my replies have already had their profiles removed after I reported them to AdultFriendFinder for asking me to e-mail them.

I am beginning to think that unless you are gay/lesbian, married, TG/TS- your chances of actually meeting anyone here are reduced to an extremely small order of probability. I have, however, changed tactics a little bit recently- with humorous results.

Since you can barely tell looking at the ladies profiles who is legit and who is not (I have even seen profiles with no photo posted, which I thought must therefore be legit, which turned out to be fake!), I have begun (are you sitting down?) looking at the men's profiles in my area and seeing which gold and silver male members have female friends and/or testimonials.

I thought that was a good idea, ya know, thinking outside the box? Have gotten very little traction out of that, except one e-mail from a bi-sexual man who, I guess, saw that I visited his profile and e-mailed me to see if I wanted to hook up even though my profile says straight. Maybe even gay men are having trouble hooking up here (or is it the same urge straight me feel to try and "turn" lesbians?).

Anyway, the point is I have started to develope rules of thumb for AdultFriendFinder- see what you think:

1) A girl who has no friends or testimonials is probably (95 percent chance) fake. With this many guys putting the fullcourt press on the samll number of available women, how can you be single and female and not have friends?

2) A young, attractive female who actually shows their face clearly here is likely fake (60-70 percent). Given the sheer volume of horny guys on this site, why would any other than the most open, liberated woman display a clear head shot here? The odds of someone they know seeing them here is much higher than the odds of a male's identity being discovered and yet most guys STILL only show torso or dick shots.

If they show their face AND nude body- that figure shoots up to 85-90%.

3) If pics of females not taken by the females themselves (webcam, in front of a mirror, etc.) and they are not in a couple where they might have been taken by their partner, their profiles are likely fake (85 percent, particularly if they are nude. Single women who need to get laid aren't having guys take nude pics of them and particularly aren't letting their girlfriends do it so that they have to explain what it's for!

4) If the young woman instantly strikes you as VERY hot, they are fake (98 percent). This goes back to the idea that most real single women aren't going to show you everything and likely took the picture themselves as well. Even the best looking women don't look their best trying to pose for a webcam or in front of a mirror with poor lighting, etc. So what most women end up with is a pic that doesn't quite do them justice.

5) If a single woman says in her profile that she isn't picky, and/or she isn't fairly specific about what she is looking for- she either is in a contest with herself to see how many male friends she has (saw one who had over 45,000!) or she is fake (80 percent).

6) If the profile asks you to 'send her your e-mail if you want to talk more' she is fake (100 percent).

I am sure I will add more rules as time goes on. Bottom line- I will continue scouring other straight guys' friends lists looking for profiles of local woman- and if they don't have friends themselves (and/or violate other of these rules), I won't consider contacting them. So far, most guys that have a lot of friends, most of their friends are not men and not women, but couples. I guess in lieu of finding one or two women to hit it with, they've resigned themselves to tag-teaming a woman with her husband whenever possible, and I'm not going to go there, either."

sweettxgirl232 37F

7/4/2006 12:17 pm

I don't think that last comment that everything you say is true.

sweettxgirl232 37F

7/4/2006 12:18 pm

OH and I think both the pics are good, I don't see one being any better than the other. You look hot in both hehe

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