Question please....  

NGs_lady 65F
419 posts
3/30/2006 6:21 pm

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6/2/2006 8:18 am

Question please....


How do you get comments on your blogs? I worry that my blogs are not being read. I was shown where to look and damn!, people are reading them, but no one comments on them.

Please let me know what you think. I enjoy knowing people's opinions and feedback.

Thank you,
NGs_lady

help4meplease 39M

3/30/2006 7:01 pm

You click on "Blogs" upper right corner

Then you will find your blog's info... go down ... there is something called "Recent Posts" <-- that's where I find you and this post.

Have a nice day


NGs_lady replies on 3/30/2006 10:55 pm:
thank you for the information
NGs_lady

rm_Gentle12553 68M
1378 posts
3/30/2006 7:17 pm

I agree with DK...comment in other blogs...you can make a friends and even a few enemies.....and ask questions that folks might be interesting...

And at times make a controversial comment....or blog entry...believe me...then you will get comments...mentions something like"

"Where did you get that stupid hat?"


NGs_lady replies on 3/30/2006 10:57 pm:
the hat is my husbands it looks better on him
NGs_lady

rm_coathanger1 49M
859 posts
3/30/2006 7:17 pm

I sometimes get a lot of views myself and I usually don't get that many comments. It just takes a while to get a regular following.


NGs_lady replies on 3/30/2006 10:59 pm:
well i always said i would rather lead than follow
NGs_lady

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
3/30/2006 9:59 pm

My lady,

As I've hinted to you....to get a little, you've got to give a little...no sexual innuendo meant


NGs_lady replies on 3/30/2006 11:01 pm:
As You tell me My Love I give very well I guess it is time I did so here.
NGs_lady

Babel__Fish 46F

3/31/2006 5:41 am

*sigh*

Well this is my 2cents...... I think that being a part of a couple and not 'searching or looking' for a sex partner is part of the problem of not getting comments and there is also a fact that you are a Alpha submissive....THAT is something that a lot of members/bloggers have a hard time wrapping their minds around.

It is basically going to take time to get to know other bloggers and build a reputaion for yourself before some people might take your writings over the BDSM lifestyle seriously. You also have a great opportunity to tell/explain to others about how you and your Sir fill in your BDSM lifestyle... to educate some of the people that may have inhibitions or warped ideas about BDSM.

It is also through your writing plain to see that you are devoted to your Sir and him to you.... just like I am to my Master and in some people's eyes that may not be what they want to read about.

Drop by some of the bloggers that you like to read but I would not just *throw* comments out there in hopes to get them in return. There are a lot of really cool people in the blogs and it takes time to get to know them, I have been blogging for almost 7 months now.

Hope that these comments help and not hinder you in blogging!

*kusjes*
Babel {=}


NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:22 pm:
Thank you yes it does help And again thank you for taking the time to write to me.

wickedeasy 68F  
31340 posts
3/31/2006 6:58 am

pffffffffft

if you didn't comment - hell, i'd think i hadn't written anything at all most times

i like what Babel said - if folks comment based on sexual content or availability - then my friend, we are both doomed

your wickedone

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:24 pm:
wickedone i think you have got it

wickedeasy 68F  
31340 posts
3/31/2006 6:59 am

oops - one more thing

i think you look great in that hat

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


rm_CuummDrop 50F
2591 posts
3/31/2006 7:47 am

sometimes, the person, can't think of what they want to say at that particular moment. i do know that happens with me. i think about my response (not so that it's perfect) just so i ain't putting my foot into my mouth to add,,, already insult to injury...

Hugs,,, and thank You M'lady, for,,commenting on my blogs... Means a lot to me...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:27 pm:
to tell a friend what you think is always a pleasure to me thank you for your comments they do mean a lot

MarinadelMar 60F

3/31/2006 12:09 pm

I try and read my way around my favourite blogs every couple of days. But it's very much a question of time - if something really 'touches a nerve', I will comment, but otherwise I simply read, enjoy and move on.
Then there's this strange thing called 'Real Life' .....
I think I need forty eight hours in every day


NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:29 pm:
Of you find a way to get the extra hours in a day i will pay for the info.

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
4/4/2006 5:23 pm

I have learned that many people will read and not comment...
sometimes the blog will have thousands of views and only thiry
comments..interesting and yet the ones who do comment seem to be
connected in a way that the ones who don't are not...

i appreciate honest feedback from the heart..especially if the
heart has been touched in anyway...it is as though my heart is
touched back. the writer in me appreciates that..always.

thank you for your loving and honest support...

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
4/5/2006 1:14 pm

    Quoting rm_goddess1946:
    I have learned that many people will read and not comment...
    sometimes the blog will have thousands of views and only thiry
    comments..interesting and yet the ones who do comment seem to be
    connected in a way that the ones who don't are not...

    i appreciate honest feedback from the heart..especially if the
    heart has been touched in anyway...it is as though my heart is
    touched back. the writer in me appreciates that..always.

    thank you for your loving and honest support...
thats what i am saying tell me something its good its bad just something


rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
4/7/2006 11:35 am

agreeing that feedback serves....

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
4/10/2006 7:38 pm

Dear lady,

The answer here is simple; they chose not to, or have nothing to say. Personally, I think your blogs are great! However, I am a bit biased Keep up the good work. Another thing might have something to do with "time" or the lack there of it.

Me personally, I just pick up the phone and tell you what I think! LOL

For all Time,

Lady Hunter
Madam of this Ole' Manor {=}


After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009


NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
4/10/2006 8:56 pm

    Quoting BadAssBlonde1:
    Dear lady,

    The answer here is simple; they chose not to, or have nothing to say. Personally, I think your blogs are great! However, I am a bit biased Keep up the good work. Another thing might have something to do with "time" or the lack there of it.

    Me personally, I just pick up the phone and tell you what I think! LOL

    For all Time,

    Lady Hunter
    Madam of this Ole' Manor {=}

yep you do and we love hearing from you always


rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
4/11/2006 10:11 am

So many blogs..so little time

I do read some..comment on some. I find that when I visit others and leave a comment..they do the same for me.

By the way..I think the hat makes a statement. Shows determination.

Kiss

Kiss


NGs_lady replies on 4/12/2006 11:44 am:
well thank you i like the hat might even get one of my own

rm_Leo_Aries 64M/61F
117 posts
5/10/2006 6:10 pm

Hi NGs lady, mmmmmmm well its a good question you post here, and one we would also like to know the answer to as we are new to blog land.
BTW, loved your post "Punishment for breaking the club’s rules" am talking to a subbie form Ca who is searching for her Master. It seems she has been trained well, and is looking for a Master that will go on with her training and form a Poly family with her as the main gurl.

I am chatting to her as she is lonley and in need of company, so if you know of any goos Doms in Ca, then would like to chat to you .

Cheers, Aries (Leo & Aries)


rm_verriberri 80F
1849 posts
6/2/2006 3:50 am

I read many but rarely comment, unless I am ready to begin a conversation - so often the receiver of a comment feels an obligation to respond. I only invite that when my comments are meaningful enough to warrant the time to respond. This is my first visit to your blog, and there is a great deal here - an education for me really, and very interesting. Thank you -v


NGs_lady replies on 6/2/2006 8:19 am:
I am glad you stoped by and welcome.

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