People & Answers  

NGs_lady 65F
419 posts
3/30/2006 6:18 pm

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4/2/2006 10:25 pm

People & Answers


Some people have asked me, "Why don't you come on-line anymore?" Well, I do. I enjoy talking in IM when I'm spoken to, answering my emails when I get them, and writing my blogs. I also read a few different blogs. You know who you are.

I read a blog the other day that caught my attention. It was talking about people leaving or not answering IM's or emails.

Well, OKAY, I'M GOING TO SAY IT!!!

When I started coming online, I went into the chatrooms. I noticed that when a certain person,Nightguy, was in the room, certain people would talk to me. If he wasn't, they ignored me. They would tell Night to tell me, "Give her my love....give her a hug".

Well damn it, I'm a real person!!! I can type and spell (maybe not as well as other people, but I make out). I have put my YIM on at 7am and not turned it off for days. I might get three messages in four days. Emails are something of the past; I don't get them, so I don't send them.

BUT.....

When certain people had problems, they burned my YIM up: "Talk to me...Help me". Where are you now? A friend is a friend, but not here. A few people I have met, I have gotten close; we don't IM or email, we talk on the phone. But again, where are the rest?

Well, I guess I missed the notes that said "You're only a friend when I need something."

Sorry
NGs_lady

©NGs_lady 2006


Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
3/30/2006 9:57 pm

My lady,

Your TRUE friends will always be there...we know how fair weather friends act.

Sir


NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
3/30/2006 11:05 pm

    Quoting Nightguy_1961:
    My lady,

    Your TRUE friends will always be there...we know how fair weather friends act.

    Sir
Yes we do so now I look for TRUE friends not fly by nighters
NGs_lady


wickedeasy 68F  
30937 posts
3/31/2006 6:55 am

if people could know you the way that i do, they would understand the depth of your perception, your intuitive ability to cut straight to the heart of an issue, your patience and, when needed, your straight from the shoulder, "get over it"

i have been thinking about chat rooms - especially on such a site as this - and i realized something - while a few may hope that something real can come out of them - most just want to play. i am not judging it - only commenting

for me, i go to see friends - but so many friends are choosing not to go that it has become less and less compelling - now, i check the room list (thanks for telling me how) and slip off into blogland more often than not

and as Night said true friends don't disappear

your wickedone

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:33 pm:
Welcome to my world now you understand why i say call or YIM

Fox4aKnight1 44F

3/31/2006 10:52 am

Lady,

Alot of people are like that you will find. And I am mostly ust the oppisite. I hide when hurting or in pain but anothers pain and hurt can pull me out to try and help. I have some close friends that I email and IM with back and forth on a regular basis and thats about it. But most really don't want to take the time the 5 min. or 10 min it would take to say hi hello I was wondering how you were and what has been happening in your life lately. Sometimes we are so caught up in our everyday lives that we forget. And that is really a shame. Perhaps we all need to slow down a touch and remember that guess what.....we have more friends than we knew if we just remembered that they were friends. I truely enjoy my friends that I have made here and make an effort to talk to them when I am feeling up to it. And I really do make an effort. because my friends help me everyday just by being my friends.
hugssssssssss
Kelli


NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:36 pm:
I understand what you are saying' but when you take the time to say hello are how are you at least answer even if it is to say i don't have time

BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
3/31/2006 11:53 am



I tell you where they went. *Sits back and lights up* They wore you out with their problems and have retreated to their own world. To hell with them all! You do not need folks like that crowding you and pulling you down. They will resurface, they always do. Tis best to leave them right where they land. Until then my dear Friend. *Smootches*

Lady Hunter - Doing the Catch up thing in GA
Madam of the Manor

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009


NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:38 pm:
as always you have said it all

Fox4aKnight1 44F

3/31/2006 4:27 pm

NGs_lady replies on 3/31/2006 3:36 pm:
I understand what you are saying' but when you take the time to say hello are how are you at least answer even if it is to say i don't have time


I agree with you there. It considered polite but then well you have some that either don't care or some that can't or won't for whatever reason. If I don't anwser then likely its because I am sick and depressed and just can't think of anything to say...

Hugs
Kelli


rm_CuummDrop 50F
2591 posts
3/31/2006 4:48 pm

M'lady, i do not think i have your IM... i will be sending you a email, with my IM/contact information...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


NGs_lady 65F
762 posts
4/2/2006 10:25 pm

    Quoting rm_CuummDrop:
    M'lady, i do not think i have your IM... i will be sending you a email, with my IM/contact information...
please do i enjoy talking to people


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