Are you real?  

NGs_lady 65F
419 posts
6/21/2006 8:01 am

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Are you real?

As an answer to some of the questions I've seen posted lately, I am a real person. I am NG61's submissive, I am his lover, I am his wife, I am his lady.

There have been things that have happened in our real life that have been connected with Blogville and this site. My husband wrote a blog about feelings he had concerning his son. He also wrote a blog a blog concerning feelings he had about my sons.

These were used against him by a real person. We do not know who this person is, but I have an idea.

Let me start from the beginning: When I met my husband's son, my husband didn't have a real good track record with wives; I'm his third wife. His son did not accept me because I think he felt I was going to hurt his father. I think this worked in a few people's favor: my husband's sister is pissed because we are married. She is a greedy person. "He is my brother, you are my friend. Why don't you get together and maybe you can straighten him out?" This was one of the first things his sister ever said to me. It did not work out the way she wanted it to; instead, I fell in love with her brother and I found that instead of changing him, or as she said, 'straightening him out', I enhanced some of the things I saw in him. I told him of ways to strengthen and help his hair grow longer; his sister wanted it short. I kept his beard and mustache trimmed and evened up as best I could; she wanted him clean shaven. Sorry, I guess when you fall in love with someone, you are willing to let them be themselves, not what someone else thinks they should be. This was the first trial in NG61 & my relationship.

I have always gotten along with NG61's parents; yes, I know you're not supposed to get along with your in-laws. Then, when I was accepted by his family, I was invited to family functions: Christmas, family dinners, and other events that NG61's family hold on a regular basis. I was accepted by most of them. NG61's first wife, his son's mother, is still part of the family. She is kept in this position because of her son and because of the love NG61's parents have for his son. This woman did not make it hard for them to see their grandchild or spend time with their grandchild after she divorced NG61; for this I am grateful. I have nothing against this woman, she is part of NG61 life and always will be because of the son they share. This was the second trial in our relationship.

Before we go into trial three, let me give you some background. When NG61's son graduated from high school, NG61's parents were sent an invitation for the graduation. NG61 never saw the invitation; he waited for one that he never received. His sister, being the diva she is, was going, because where ever her parents went, she had to go (you have to understand, his sister tends to be a lot cling-ish when it comes to her parents and spending their money). When everybody went to the graduation, NG61 could not get the time off, due to problems at work. He also felt that since he was not invited, he was not wanted there - ie, the beginning of the problem. When NG61's son went in the Army, all we heard was "I don't think this is a good idea. I don't want him hurt. I wished he'd stayed home & gone to college."- NG61's parents' & sister's words. While he is in the Army, he gets married to a lovely young lady who seems to be very in love with him. Hence, they start a family and Alex, NG61's first grandson, is born.

Of course, the great-grandparents are anxious to see the baby. So they plan a trip to New York (clarification: NG61 & I do not have the money to run all over the country & take trips anytime we want to; money stops us, along with work). Naturally, since NG61's folks are going, his sister must go. So, we are sent pictures of the proud great grandparents and the proud great aunt holding NG61's grandson. Ever felt left out? Well, NG61 felt left out again.

When his son, daughter-in-law, and grandson came down for the first time; of course, NG61's first wife had to come to Virginia (she lives in Florida; the kids live in NY). The excuse is "Virginia is halfway between the two; she wants to see her son & her grandchild". Ever felt left out? During this fiasco, she and her strange-acting daughter take over the show at NG61's parents' house. In front of NG61's parents, she is very nice; in private, I am told what I am to call my husband (he doesn't go by his first name, but his middle name. I am ordered to call NG61 by his first name). When we have what is considered a family breakfast at a well known local restaurant (notice I said family breakfast which I was a part of through marriage), I was excluded from all pictures taken and put in my place by NG61's son and his son's mother. (Ladies, you know how men are; they don't notice when things are happening. NG61 was not aware of all of this until afterwards)

This begins the third trial. NG61's son is asked to stand in our wedding vow renewal ceremony. You need to understand that NG61 & I were married by a justice of the peace. We wanted to be married in the church, hence the vow renewal ceremony. All is planned, all is in the works for this to happen. NG61's son agrees to stand as best man for his father (would you think he's accepted the fact by now?).

Two days before the ceremony, we are told that the first wife is coming into town because she wants to see her son & her grandson (Notice, it has never been said that it was my grandson). Thanks to the hard work of NG61's parents, it was a lovely day. Of course, it was not done the way I wanted it done, because NG61's sister had to do the planning. She picked the color of my cake. The only thing that was the way I wanted it was the flowers that I carried, the corsage NG61's mom wore as my Matron of Honor, and the boutonnieres my sons wore when they gave me away & my husband wore as the groom. NG61's son was in uniform from the 10th Mountain Division. I was informed he could not wear a bouttoniere, but I found it strange that he didn't even want to take it with him as a token of remembrance.

This brings us up to date for the fourth trial of our relationship. A real person, who is a member of AdultFriendFinder & who has seen NG61's picture(I'm sure), started a war. They have sent his son the posts from his blog that they want him to read. Not the ones where he says how proud he is of his son, never the ones that says how happy he is with his daughter-in-law or his now two grandsons, but the ones that say how NG61 feels that his son doesn't want him in his life, so NG61 will stay out of his son's life. Can we call this shitty?

So you see, there are real people here. They are little, vindictive, shit-stirring ass-wipes, but they're here!!

Now maybe a few of you will understand why NG61 has made the comment about closing his blog and why I do not write about what is most in my mind at times, because I never know when this little person is going to use what I say to hurt my husband.

For the person who is doing this, get a life! No matter how many trials and tribulations you put in our lives, I will not leave my husband, I will not turn my back on his son, and damn it, I will continue to call those two beautiful children my grandsons. If you don't like it, die and be damned to hell.

To the rest of you, I don't know if you're real or if this is just a game. But you see, I am very real. I have gotten to know some of you and some of you I have gotten to know on a very personal level. I thank you for letting me get this rant out and yes, I can say, NG61 is real. He takes our life very seriously, as do I.

Just a little look into our trials and tribulations. I hope all have a nice day.

Hugs & love and best wishes to most.

NGs_lady/Lady Stee

rufflebutt2202 66F

6/21/2006 8:34 am

May your life even out and become easier. May those that cause you and NG pain go straight to and burn in hell now and forever. I wish I knew you both in rt but ddo read and absorb both of your blogs and hope to continue for a long time to come. Take care and hugs to you both.

ps.I'm real too!

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:25 am:
I have been hoping things would even out, but life goes on and I am not let the little people bother me any more.

PrincessKarma 44F
6188 posts
6/21/2006 8:36 am

*warm hug*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:26 am:
Thank you a hug always helps.

shylena256 43F
1967 posts
6/21/2006 8:38 am

Hey Lady Stee-
I don't know you but that just STINKS.
I am so sorry, and I do understand.
I get along great with my Mother in Law (now separated from her son but she is still family)
But she is JUST the type of person who would do something as backhanded as sending the negative blogs to NGs son. I don't know why some people are just mean like that. I truly do think they think they are doing something good, but they are just WHACKED!

Please stay strong.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:30 am:
We all have bad smells in our life,I guess we just figure they will not come from family. Everyone has a whacked person in their family you just hope they will leave you alone.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
6/21/2006 9:30 am

~ shakez head ~ incredible ....

can't find the right word(z), but petty is one of those I do find

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:36 am:
Yes I agree that petty is a good thing if this is all they have in thear life is to start trouble.

BaronessK 53F

6/21/2006 9:48 am

It is hard, when someone like NG {and you} are so accepting of others in your lives, to have someone show disrespect, rudeness, cruelty, etcetera. It will get better; as I asked him {to take a break, if he feels he has to get away for a while}, that would be my solution. I have cut back on the time I spend here, myself, for various reasons {other than the ones y'all are talking about}. I realize that this site and y'all's other sites or pursuits do take up time and evergy as well; but you both would be missed.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:39 am:
This is the only site I go to. I will not give it up nor will I let him. If we let little people run our lives where will we be.

ButteryDelight 59F

6/21/2006 10:33 am

Families can cause trials in our lives. Weddings and funerals seem to bring out the best and the worst in people. We too are going through our own trials involving my daughter's wedding. When my mom died of cancer in March of 2005 my step-father mourned her. But, after six months of loneliness, losing 45 pounds, and almost his sanity, he decided to get his life back together and he started dating. Well, my sister did not approve of that. She felt like it was too soon and that he was dishonoring my mother's memory. My step-father remarried in April of this year. But, ever since the time that my step-father made it known he was dating again, my sister has made sure that we all know that she doesn't want to have anything to do with my step-father any more. He is not her birth father he has become just a man that my mother married. It matters not that they were married 25 years and that he was that sister's father from the time she was 11 years old. Not only has she sent us harsh verbal emails telling us if we cared about her feelings at all we would not have anything to do with him either, she has called us too. And now she has one of my other sisters on her side. God! Why does there have to be sides?

Anyway, to make a long story short, my sister is coming to the wedding but has said she will not sit by him nor talk to him. And she definitely will not be in any family pictures with him. She drove home her opinion by calling me last Saturday a week before the wedding and talking for three hours rehashing all the reasons why she felt that way and that we did not know everything that happened between her and my step-father. I am thinking, I don't care and I don't want to know. I can not help but wonder why is she even coming? I also wonder why she can not put that a side for her nieces sake and be pleasant for an hour or less.

Anyway, I am sorry for making such a long post/comment. I kind of got carried away. I am also wishing for a bouncer for the wedding. Just in case my sister acts like a butt head. I am also wishing you did not have to go through your own family trials.

Buttery Delight

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:42 am:
Just remember it is your day the hell with the people that can not accept that. Congrats and hope all is as beautiful as you are on your special day. My best wishes will be with you.

rm_cinminroz 63F

6/21/2006 4:01 pm

*hug* for you both.
I wish I understood how some people can be so nuts! I think you were right when you said they should get a life.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:45 am:
Thank you for the hug. If we could understand people we could get good money for helping them. Me I'm just going to leave them alone.

rm_CuummDrop 50F
2591 posts
6/21/2006 4:59 pm

Now i understand... sigh...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:46 am:
Thank you sorry to tell you this way.

wickedeasy 68F  
30939 posts
6/21/2006 5:29 pm

i know you

do not give them an inch


You cannot conceive the many without the one.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:47 am:
Do not worry I will stand strong and the hell with them.

mycin62 55F

6/21/2006 6:14 pm

You know, in the end, the only thing that matters is how you feel about each other.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:48 am:
Thank you and our love will make it on for ever.

mysticdreamangel 62F
2759 posts
6/21/2006 7:45 pm

Ng's Lady,

May you both have all the happiness you deserve! Damn those all to hell that have mad both NG and yourself feel bad this day.

Stay strong,

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:51 am:
Happiness is something they can not take away from us. We have each other and friends what do they have nothing.

peaches19555 62M

6/21/2006 7:52 pm

it seems that for nightguy the third time is a charm!

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:53 am:
Well thank you so much.

rm_shannee2006 53F
3355 posts
6/21/2006 8:04 pm

Wow...I'm sorry that your blog doesn't feel safe to write in.

I'm so sorry that you and NG feel forced to edit yourselves just to make sure that things can't be used to hurt your relationships.

I wish I could say or do something to help...

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:55 am:
Nothing will hurt our relationship love will win. I have desided to write anything I want to hell with them.

MaggiesWishes 61F

6/21/2006 9:33 pm

Ignorance begets fear. When One is ingorant of something they don't understand, they fear it ... to compensate this ... they throw nasty words around like the backasswards cowards they are.
I'm sorry.
Even more so that you feel it necessary to explain this to the unknown and the unwilling to learn that behind this mass of fiberoptic wires and wireless signals are real breathing, kind, loving, working people with lives.

YOU and your NG, do NOT have to justify your life, the lives of your family or your lifestyle to NO ONE. This just burns me when the GOOD in people is splattered like sewage across the pages.

I value your friendship, you reached out to me ... a stranger and embraced me with no fear ... I'm forever grateful to you both.

warm huggies 2ya, Sweet Lady

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 2:59 am:
This is not ignorance this is someone that is not happy and can not stand to see anyone else happy. I pity them and hope they can get a life.

PurplePeach72 45F  
9199 posts
6/21/2006 11:55 pm

Dear NG's Laday,

I am so sorry you two are having to go through this drama. It is ridiculous, petty and vindictive. Just know that we are all here for you if there is anything we can do. Perhaps if you can figure out who this ball-less wonder is you can return the favor of exposure. I'm a firm believer in people reaping what they sow and the desire to ruin another person's relationship with their children and grandchildren is an unpardonable sin. Take care of yourself and NG. We do hope you both stay.
Big Hugs,


PurplePeach72 45F  
9199 posts
6/22/2006 12:19 am

Since this idiot tried to sabotage your's and NG's relationship by sending all the negative posts about his son, I would make sure you send all of the positive ones, with a note that all stories have more than one side. As an adult, he should be able to see someone is trying to manipulate him. I hope it all works out soon.
Hugs to you both,


NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:09 am:
Thank you!! You have given me an idea. Please do not worry NG61 and I will make it we will always be one they can not break us up.

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
6/22/2006 1:09 am

*says nothing, but looks at his lady with awe and admiration....*

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:12 am:
Awe and admiration goes to you for how long this has been going on and you have keep your cool with it. Know that they will not win we will always be one.

HBowt2 60F

6/22/2006 1:27 am

Glad to see that NG knows what a spectacular woman he has....well done to you....

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:14 am:
Thank you I am just me I try to honer Him,but i do have a bad temper.

willing2tryit42 41M
1141 posts
6/22/2006 2:17 am

....... wow. Its is definately amazing the amount of trouble people will go to to shit in someone elses cornflakes!!!!!!!!!!

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:25 am:
Does not eat cornflakes likes healthy start LOL, but relay thank you so much

curious082385 32F
4925 posts
6/22/2006 2:19 am

I never understood how some people think that by stirring up trouble, they can cause a situation to swing in their own favor. It sounds as if you both know (or at least have a good idea) of who this person is who causes so much heartache and trial. I hope that whoever it is realizes what they are doing and stops.
Hugs to you both.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:37 am:
It is one of three people who is causing this mess. I myself think they figure by causing it they will just make everyone as unhappy as they are. Sorry not going to work.

Fox4aKnight1 44F

6/22/2006 2:39 am

Hugs Sweet lady .....*skoyc* and huge bearhugs

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:38 am:
Thank you hun it sure helps

Mistress_Nessa 41F

6/22/2006 2:47 am

NGs_Lady, My heart goes out to you and to NG... it's truly sad that anyone would go to the trouble of doing something like this... I am a firm believer in the phrase "What goes around, comes around"... and the person responsible for this will pay dearly for what he's doing... I am sure of it!

As for you and NG... you seem pretty real to me, from what I've read about both of you, there's a love that's felt in his words when he mentions you, and same with you when you mention him. Something like this can not break a love/bond that strong!

In total admiration...

~ Mistress Nessa ~

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:41 am:
THANK YOU the first person that knows what I know they will never come between us. Yes I believe you are rite they will get what is coming to them ( I just wish I could be there to see it) in the end.

Shameless_Biotch 49F

6/22/2006 4:35 am

Thank you for opening your lives up for us, Dear Lady, it helps those of us who are concerned to understand what you are going thru...
Unfortunately, when you are real, reality strikes!
As I commented to NG61, don't let the assholes and turkeys of this site get to you...I know this is hard when they are messing with your family in real life, but as you have seen on this blog and his, there are lots of real people with real caring and concern for both of you!

Enough out of me!

Your Shameless Friend

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:48 am:
I am open most of the time and realty is something we can not get away from. People that start trouble for family or friends just put themselves out there to get hurt in the long run of life.

Thank you and welcome

sexyariesgirl 58F

6/22/2006 6:33 am

This is my first visit to your blog, and I made my way here after reading NG's post today. I am so sorry for the troubles you are having...please know my thoughts are with you and your family. HUGGS....

Power To FOK

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 3:51 am:
Thank you and welcome every thing helps hope you come back


6/22/2006 7:41 am

As mrs.# 3 myself.. I can so relate to this in so many ways..
My respect for you and your out pouring , loving , support for your Husband... As I read your post I would think your son would be proud of both of you..maybe he is and has to stay neutral.

This other person.. does need a life so desperately.

warm huggs

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:04 am:
I am #3, but He is my #4. I just think his son has had someone pulling the wool over his eyes and is too stupid to realize that it is being done. Know what I mean, and yes I wish they would get a life.


6/22/2006 10:39 am

Late too the post but I am glad to hear the good news that the fortrress will reamin opened and the "other" EXCELLENT news and await excitedly! Kisses and hugs...btw with tongue poked out (haha)

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:10 am:
Better late then never and yes I will fight to keep the Dark Fortress open for as long as I can. I can not waite for things to get done. BTW will collect my kiss and hug tongue or not LOL

sportsfan362436 48F

6/22/2006 11:18 am

<--- feels an even deeper admiration and respect for you and Ng... if this one can do anything from way the hell over here... please do not hesitate to say. Not to mention, if the person who is creating all the problems is AD him or herself... they'd better take care... cuz if this one finds out who it is... their own military career will be fucked seven ways from Sunday.
warm thoughts n hugz to you Bboth, as always

*Smiles, kisses n hugz*

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:14 am:
Thank you for your support Might let you get in on some of this if I find out anything. Do not know if the military needs to know but may need to have something mailed from your part of the world.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
6/22/2006 12:53 pm

Loving that the two of you have each other....and that NG commented here in awe of that! I do understand this kind of pain....and I think I would send him the positive posts and go from there. Sorry this idiot is trying in infect your life and your love.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:28 am:
Having each other we do and always will. Am thinking of sending him by snail mail he does nit get that much time on line over there. He is over seas so you see they started shit when we can not make a case.

lightswitch1963 70M/54F

6/22/2006 3:11 pm

I, Mrs.L, owe you an apology. I am addicted to ng's blogs, but I will now make it a point to view yours. You sound like your marriage is as strong as ours, and exclusion hurts. If I have offended you, I am sorry. I have nothing but love and respect for you both.

We'll leave the light on for you.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:33 am:
Mrs. L an apology is not in order many women are addicted to NG61 and his blog. Yes our marriage is very strong and exclusion does hurt. You have not offended me in anyway and I hope to get to know you better. Thank you and welcome.

VCF1962 106F

6/22/2006 3:46 pm

I just take faith in "what goes around comes around" and sit back and wait for it to happen. It usually does in some form or another.

I hope this has just strengthened the bond between you both.

I'm kinda wondering whether all this blog stuff is really a good idea - but how in the hell do you break the addiction ?

Mistress Innuendo
Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:42 am:
I also believe in what goes around comes around and I do know that they will get what they deserve I just wish I could be there to see it. The bond between us is very strong and gets stronger every day. As far as the blogs go why do we need to keep everything bottled up inside of us when FRIENDS can help. If you can not write why have we been given letters or words. If you hide people will find another way to start shit for you. We have freedom of speech lets use it.

lacenleather2 106F
159 posts
6/22/2006 4:34 pm

I am real as well , with real life trials and sorrows .I hope that you find the shit distrurber(too bad that they dont have a life ) and stomp the living crap out of them my leathers on hence the attitude .
I have often admired the love the you and NG share , so I hope that this most recent trial only brings you closer together and stronger as a unit .

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:52 am:
All Real Lives have trails, happiness and sorrow. Some people just think Others should have more. These people are usually very unhappy or have no life, hence Lets make everyone feel as bad as we do. Sorry it didn't work this time NG and I are going on with our lives together. Thank you for the idea of stomping the crap out of them, but that would make me as small as they are. So I will let them reap what they have sowed more unhappiness.

OboesHonedIambs 63F

6/22/2006 6:40 pm

I so despise family politics for the reasons you named and more.


Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:53 am:
Yep it can be a mess, but the most they will get is a bigger mess.

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
6/22/2006 7:25 pm

thankyou Nightlady....*HUG*

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:54 am:
You are welcome

hotandhorny107 59F

6/22/2006 10:14 pm

It is a shame that one person can be so bored and unhappy with their own lives that they have to find ways to bring havoc to another. I once worked with a woman just like that. I truly believe that she was threatened by me in some way, fearing that I would take her job, so she made it a point to run to higher ups in the company reporting on things I did and said. Of course it was never the complete story or conversation and usually ended up with me getting the short end of the stick... When push came to shove one afternoon, I simply told the office manager that although she could certainly believe anything she wanted to believe, she should bring my accuser and all involved parties in at the same time and we could get the matter taken care of rather quickly. Funny how I was never called in again regarding any conversations I had with other employees. End of story was happy for me when the little bitch got fired for lying regarding prohibited computer use. Blamed another co worker and got caught...What goes around comes around

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:59 am:
You need to realize that we are so far apart that it is not easy to talk to all party's, but I believe one day all will come out in the light of day. When this happens than someone is going to feel real BAD

rm_Melciber 62M
214 posts
6/23/2006 2:00 am

NGs_lady, I always considered you and NG to be very real.

Thank you for helping us understand what surrounds your lives.
I do hope that the vindictiveness will blow away.
As a good friend of mine is fond of saying . . .
"Don´t give them any energy."

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 5:03 am:
Real is what we are. You are welcome I feel that I had kept quiet for long enough. People needed to know that NG61 was under stress from a lot of things this being the worst.

chasingfun27 39M
1108 posts
6/23/2006 2:44 am

Family dealings become complicated when parents split up, but from from what you describe NG61 is the victim of an opportunistic attempt to discredit him.

I hope it works out.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 5:08 am:
This family has been split for a long time. It is just with in a little time someone has found it necessary to start trouble for NG61. I wonder if someone is sorry he is happy with me. Maybe they just figured he should be like them UNHAPPY and ALONE.

rm_Bladesong 41F
476 posts
6/23/2006 11:16 am

Yes there are "little, vindictive, shit-stirring ass-wipes" here on this site. I am sorry you have to deal with that Lady. It's wrong but it will be seen through. Just hold strong as you are! Nothing this petty, vindictive and crappy can hold you and NG down. You can see it in your writings of each other

~It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved!

Be Good to those around you!


NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 5:12 am:
I am going to hold strong, but the person that started this is going to get theirs in the end and I will not do a thing. The real story will come out.

NSAAddict 43F

6/23/2006 11:34 am

Lady Stee, I'm sorry this is the first time I'm visiting your blog, was led here by NightGuy's recent post and just wanted to say it's so wonderful to see the way you stand by him. So sorry for the troubles you have had with this awful person but hope they get theirs soon and with a vengeance. Hugs, NSA

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 5:15 am:
Thank you and welcome. I believe they will get what they deserve in the long run. I like hugs hope you come back.

VTLakesideVixen 61F
458 posts
6/24/2006 2:03 am

Lady Stee better known as NG's Lady, this too is my first time to visit your blog, but having read NG's blog quite often it is clear to me how together you two complete each other. Thank you for clueing those of us in that didn't know what was happening. There
is not a doubt in my mind that either of you aren't "real", and if
even half of us had the love that you and NG share the world would be
a much better place. I too firmly believe that what you sew, so shall you reap---so someone out there is in for one hell of a mess
coming up in their life!

Meanwhile, just keep loving each other, your sons, grandchildren
and the others you choose. Love lasts forever, shit rots and turns
to dust.

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 5:22 am:
Thank you and welcome.I think you are so on the mark. It will get them in the end. What a dust storm we will have by the time it is all over. Checking for cleaning stuff.

BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
6/24/2006 12:49 pm

*Shakes head* ... Sometimes I just wonder, then I just stop. Hope all is improving. That would be enlightening.

Lady Hunter

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009

NGs_lady replies on 6/26/2006 1:56 pm:
No need to be conserned all is improving just great. Things are looking up for both of us.

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
6/25/2006 7:01 am

My lady, you've been touched by me...just as you've touched me...

Go to [post 399928] and see...

All my love...

NG61...slipping back into the darkness...

CelticFlower 51F

6/26/2006 3:31 am

It amazes me how cruel and thoughtless people can be. I am in the middle of a separation, which is going to cause all of these kinds of problems. This is the nature of my hubbies families.....lies and manipluation are where they get their kick.
I wish you luck and happier times.
I envy the love and support you give each other, you are 2 wonderful people.

rm_daveman45nz 57M
42 posts
6/26/2006 4:46 am


I have come from NG's blog, I feel it is my duty to offer suppport to you at this time. I think you have a wonderful man whom I greatly enjoy reading. I am a touch jealous of the wonderful person he has in his life as well...



Babel__Fish 46F

6/29/2006 2:22 am

*Hugs* Sorry someone is toying with you and I know that it is not nice! I have not had this done to me, yet, but I fear that it could & I am sure that many do fear this also.

This is one of the reasons that I have let my blog slide down off the front pages and I hope that it will soon not be listed high in the 'get local' section. *SOME* People can not understand our lifestyle choices and I am sure that THAT is also being played against you both.


NGs_lady replies on 6/29/2006 6:23 am:
Thank you Babel and believe me I do understand.

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
6/30/2006 7:21 pm

It will all work itself out in the *wash*...
it always does {=}

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

NGs_lady replies on 7/2/2006 5:35 am:
Thank you, I hope it does.

Mermaidslut 51F

7/3/2006 6:17 pm

Ng's Lady,

Some people are so jealous at what you have, they hurt so much inside that they try to hurt those who have what they do not. Just remember, you are a great role model of a couple, and for that they are stupid at not joining your circle rather then trying to destroy what they think they are not worthy of for themselves. They are already the victims of their own hatred, for that alone is what keeps them from being friends with such good people.


ButteryDelight 59F

7/4/2006 11:25 pm

NGs_lady replies on 6/24/2006 4:42 am:
Just remember it is your day the hell with the people that can not accept that. Congrats and hope all is as beautiful as you are on your special day. My best wishes will be with you.


I wanted to let you know that my sister came to the wedding and was actually polite to my stepfather and his new wife. She was also in pictures with him and didn't say one thing bad about him. I was shocked and so pleased that she didn't ruin her nieces wedding day.

Buttery Delight

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