all my fault  

NC4GT2 47M/42F
31 posts
4/25/2006 8:22 am

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5/1/2006 5:54 pm

all my fault

ok, im young and dont always make the right desescions, well i have this great guy (my husband) and recently have admitted cheating on him with his best friend,

it was not the first time we had did it,and i am always the one that tells my husband before his friend does, i feel so quilty!!!

i think my husband looks at me different now, (which i guess is to be expected)and the truth is i can say i can promise i wont do it again, but will i?

ilove my husband, but i have needs that he cant satifie, so if anyone out there has been through this, help me stay focased and let me know what to do!!![blog columbus]nc4gt2

Allowed_to_be 32M
13 posts
4/25/2006 10:50 am

If you ever want to hang out with someone to help fullfill your needs, hit me up. Later.

want2tasteU1979 38M
6 posts
4/27/2006 2:03 pm

I have been in your situation the best thing I did was not tell. lots of marriages are made up of people with different sex drives, and as I seeit you can deprive your self of or fill that need but if you love your husband don't hurt him by telling him.

NC4GT2 47M/42F

4/27/2006 5:26 pm

yes i do agree to a limit, i didnt tell him for months (6) but when the other guy blamed it all on me, i jumped to defend myself, by not telling you always got to worry about the other party will tell, so i guess you can say i was saving my assnc4gt2

want2tasteU1979 38M
6 posts
4/28/2006 1:09 pm

Well can't blame you from coming clean but really if that guy was your husbands best friend he wouldn't want to hurt his friend by telling. As far as not telling if you cheat with other married friends they are usualy less likly to tell because they don't want there marriage to end. It's just to bad your man doesn't have the drive to please you.

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