Online Dating - You Never Know Who You'll Meet!  

MyTongueInGroove 42M
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7/20/2006 12:27 pm

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Online Dating - You Never Know Who You'll Meet!


Hello, I have a very interesting story to tell about online dating! I was using a “respectable” online dating services (doesn’t include AdultFriendFinder) without much success. That lack of success is what eventually got me to AdultFriendFinder, so I guess it wasn’t all bad. Anyway, about 1 ½ weeks ago I had sent a message to a very attractive woman whose profile sounded very interesting, and she actually sent me a message back (always a good sign). Right from the start I realized something was wrong. She was 28 years old, was a nurse, but lived with her parents in an apartment? Second red flag was her writing skills from her first email. I wondered if she had some kind of mental challenge and maybe that’s why she lived with her parents, but then again, she was a nurse? Also, she used some larger words and spell check can only do so much if you don’t know the words to begin with. Many of the words were entered where they shouldn’t be and words like “the” was used instead of “A”. Some sentences I couldn’t figure out at all, but for the most part it didn’t seem so bad and maybe she was just a fast writer and didn’t review the letter before emailing it. I finally figured that she was probably foreign when she said that she liked to go out with her friends to the café. I know very few homegrown Americans and no Texans that go to a café. I answered her questions and asked her some questions over a couple more emails. However, she ignored answering my questions like, were you born in Texas and if not how long have you lived here. She also ignored me when I asked if we could meet, I figured if we met it would take 5-10 minutes to figure out if she was foreign, not so smart, or just plain crazy. She sounded like she was getting very emotionally involved with me and she had sent me an email saying that she was the jealous type. Then after I had not responded to a previous email, after only two hours had passed, she sent me another email that needless to say, concerned me. To help you understand a little better, here is the email leaving out only names, “Greetings my friend!!! Has passed not few hours as you to me do not write. Can at you that that happened???? I very much worry for you!!!! I very much miss on you!!!!! You do not suffice me!!!! Necessarily write to me, I shall strongly wait!!!!!” Anyway, I decided that it was time for a breakup email. I was polite and tried to let her down as nice as I could, I certainly didn’t want to get her upset. Today I got her response back and it was beyond what I could have imagined. She wasn’t even upset? Also, she said that she needed to be honest with me and that she lived far away from me. I thought, she lives in Fort Worth and I am about 1 hour away, that’s not that far? Then it hit me “I live in Russia”! Well, now everything makes perfect sense. She is still interested in me and I have to admit I am curious to find out what is going on, but I’m not looking for a Russian mail order bride! Is anyone online who they say they are? Any comments or questions on what I should do would be appreciated. Thanks!

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