Women's Motivations, Men's Motivations  

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8/1/2005 7:20 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Women's Motivations, Men's Motivations

What accounts for the disproportionate number of men seeking sexual encounters on this site?

The old saw is that "Women make a trade-off of sex for love; Men make a trade-off of love for sex."

On this site one might make the assumption that every party is looking primarily for sex...and there may be some truth to that.

But many women's profiles cite a desire for more than sex: someone to hang out with, someone to go out and have fun with, someone to "treat me like a lady", a "generous gentleman" to support me...activity only tangentially related to a purely sexual hook-up.

Beyond that, the number of women in couples who list themselves as "bi" or "bi curious" makes me wonder if this is part of a response by women in relationships to in some way "placate and stimulate" their male mate...and might not respresent, in many cases, a strong desire on their part.

One thing is clear: men are on this site seeking sex...pretty much with no strings attached.

Women's motivations for being on this site, as is almost always the case, are much more complicated,

__Huntress__ 56M/59F

8/2/2005 8:59 am

But we are complicated creatures to begin with ... aren't we ?

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