Over promoting?  

MovininMesa 39M
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7/25/2005 6:07 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Over promoting?


I have been spending time reading different articles here on AdultFriendFinder. I keep running across articles from guys that complain about not getting responses from women. They point out the numbers and wonder (like me) if they even have a chance when there are so many other "fish in the pond".

But then I started looking at the groups in my area and it finally hit me. Maybe women don't respond simply because guys are coming across as popup ads.

I looked at the first group and saw post after unanswered post by guys that are just throwing themselves at women. So, I moved to the next; Same situation. While I was looking at the the third group I noticed something. A couple guys were posting the exact same thing in all the different groups. Granted, it's good to cover the bases so they get seen, but isn't that just over-promoting themselves? It seems they are just asking to be ignored like an unwanted popup ad. What's worse is they are probably ruining it for every other guy. It seems to me that after she reads his email or post for the third time, she's gonna be so tired of the crap that she's gonna skip everyone elses email/post too.

It seems like this might be another good reason why men aren't getting the responses they are hoping for.

Just my two bits...

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