The modern bisexual male  

Montu905 53M  
22 posts
3/23/2005 2:49 am

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The modern bisexual male

Why are people scared of bi-curious or bisexual males? There is a time to play with women, a time to play with men, and a time to play with both. We all find bisexual and bicurious women a turn on but bisexual men a turn off, why is this.
Food for thought.

bi43wyz58 37M

1/14/2012 7:17 pm

I like that shawntill dawn likes us bi guys and I wish more women would accept our feelings too and lets play

rm_TWELL301 63M
105 posts
1/9/2012 8:22 am


rm_dik6555 48M
1 post
9/14/2008 5:06 am

i agree... being in the middle of an orgasm that one creates or is a major part of is incrediable.... i prefer those that take a while though... it is the playing that gets u there that makes the difference whether it be with a male or female

doralman_69 58M

5/13/2008 3:41 pm

It's amazing the number of people you meet who are homophobic. Like you said when two women are having fun together it's a turn on but let it be two guys and OMG - the world is ending - LOL. I say to each their own because that's what makes the world go round. To me there's nothing more erotic than a man or a woman having an orgasm that I caused.

KissKiss10003 30M

4/26/2008 2:28 pm

Why do we have to say I'm Bi or gay or Str8. Why is it that we as a people have to put a tag on everything. Why can't we just be human or something. We should all have a level of respect for every one else that it should not mater any more. Thats what I want to see some day.

openminded21000 63M
1 post
1/22/2008 9:15 am

I totally agree! When I finally accepted myself as being bisexual, it was like a burden lifted!

rm_gottahvya 63M
1 post
12/6/2007 7:24 am

Straights want straights, gays want gays, yet bi's will take either. I like women and I like men, both give pleasure in different ways. Being Bi is a great thing and I feel sorry for those that don't agree because they are missing out on half the pleasures that are available in life.

Talentbtm37 47M

12/3/2007 10:37 am

I totally agree with what you say. We are bisexual by birth and not a choice , Just like men and women who are born homosexual or heterosexual . We don't want our cake and eat it too, and we are not gay hiding behind our bisexuality . "NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH A MALE OR FEMALE BEING GAY OR HETRO .. Bisexual is what we are and there is nothing wrong with it . Most heterosexual men see nothing wrong with 2 women getting it on, and find it very pleasing and a turn on, but have a problem with 2 guys getting it on . Hmm ! Whats up with that ?? I am a bisexual male, and i like and enjoy both women and men Do what pleases you and enjoy who you are, along with others . "PEACE"

rm_hotvirgcpl 48M/47F

10/20/2007 2:54 pm

I'm not opposed to it either. In face, the idea of my husband and another man pleasing each other while i watch turns me on. He has yet to have a bi experience, he is still unsure, but willing to try. I have a feeling its going to happen soon and I can't wait!

century47 63M
3 posts
3/14/2006 4:20 am

I have been thinking of a session with bi-men for years now and i am finally acting on it. i think it is very cool!!!!!

NoVaBiathlete 58M
2 posts
1/26/2006 10:20 am

Wow. I just found this blog and its fascinating. I especially enjoy the comments from the women. For about two years now I have been activily seeking other bi curious guys in my area. I find it very erotic, especially my fantasies about finding a couple to have some erotic fun with. anway, thanks for posting and Im so glad Ive found others that are of the same mind. Hi.

Montu905 53M  
7 posts
8/15/2005 3:14 am

I think sometimes the hardest part of moving forward is getting rid of the thoughts that this is wrong and bad. I'm with you on small towns, its hard to keep secrets. But once you have enjoyed being with another guy or bi couple you will see how much fun it is. Many people put labels on things to fast because they have close minds. Think about it, explore it, do it, than evaluate it. Sometimes being bisexual is not for everyone.

rm_bisexman27 41M

8/10/2005 8:41 am

my wife is not open to me being bisexual at times. she just can't get the "gay" thought out of her head. but she is still open to me being with other men, she just can't be there too. i wish she would open up because i would love to bring another man into the house to be with us both. it's weird because she's open to it if it's with a couple and she can be with the woman. but not with her gone to the usa she's open to me being with anyone. i guess it's more food for thought.

rm_cmywoodie 50M

7/23/2005 10:25 pm

I have to admit I too feel that ppl look down at anyone bicurious or bisexual. Small towns are worse. It seems city folks are more open to the idea and not as judgemental. I am very curious but yet I find myself very reluctant. Anyone else have this problem of moving forward? Let me know.

Montu905 53M  
7 posts
7/18/2005 3:39 am

Good point we men like to see two women have sex but don't you think the women want to see the same thing with their man. Also there is what I call a time and a place for being bisexual. If I'm with a couple where the man is straight, I'll tell him I won't touch him unless he wants to. Just because I'm bi doesn't mean I have to have both male and female during sex. I think that whats scares straight man and why they don't want sex with a bi male. You have to have an opened mind.

1 post
7/11/2005 11:45 pm

a bi male is sexy my wife loves the fact that i am a bi male. she loves it when we can get another guy in bed with us she really gets off on the man on man thing but i can understand why alot of bimales dont come out so i am one of the lucky few that has a wife who gets into me getting it in the

Montu905 53M  
7 posts
3/25/2005 1:16 am

Ah yes, How did I forget; that when one guy touches another "they are considered gay" I'm like you two, I find it erotic also.


3/23/2005 7:07 pm

My wife actually finds the idea erotic, but she may be weird. I have heard of some women finding it so, but most men shy away because of the "Am I gay?" stigma of enjoying someone playing with their ass. Personally I find most erotic acts exactly that erotic whether between opposite of same sexes.

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