Who Have You Been Chatting With On This Site?  

MissAnnThrope 57F
11679 posts
2/16/2006 12:19 pm

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Who Have You Been Chatting With On This Site?

This is from CNN, in today's stories. This is just an excerpt from the article, not the entire thing. The article is entitled, "Entwwistle arrives at courthouse" for those of you who want independent verification:

Computer activities

According to the documents, details of the following activities were found on Entwistle's home computer:

* On January 16, four days before the slayings, Entwistle visited AdultFriendFinder, a Web site that assists "subscribers in finding sexual partners through Internet chat rooms, personal advertisements and other services, and that Entwistle made attempts to contact persons on that site."

I hate to tell you married guys this, but with CNN reporting the very married Entwistle was a member and then murdered his family, well guys, your slim to none chances just got worse. You are now a potential murderer in the eyes of the women on this site. Well, look on the bright side. Once the story fades, you might get the slim chance back.

Ladies, especially those of you in his area, check your mail from January 16th and see if you have any from this guy. I'm dying to know. If you do have email from him, what was his handle and what did he have to say for himself? Sadly, if you're a standard member, the mail for this day has expired.

I'm so not trying to make light of this. What he did was vile and disgusting and he should never see the light of day again. But the fact he was trolling for sex on this site? I just can't help myself. I see the comedy in that fact. Because I know certain drama queens of a certain regional chat room are all going to be screaming he wrote to them by the weekend. Well ladies, if you are reading this, let's see the cut and pastes. Let's see the evidence he wrote to you. No hoarding evidence. Let's see it and let the cops see it. No false claims, just to be more important in your shallow pathetic lives.

What is bothering me is, with CNN reporting this, the number of hits for this site are going to skyrocket, out of curiosity. Some of them are going to stay. Which means, how many morbid emails are we ladies going to get, saying things like, "If I don't get laid, I'm going to kill my family?" So I do hope management at this site is taking this seriously and working with law enforcement on this case.

If they are working with law enforcement, what are the implications for other members on the site? There are still states and other places around the world where adultery is illegal. We have the scammers, the bots, the hookers, the fake deaths, the fake illnesses, the fakes in general. Are these going to start to come to light too? Is law enforcement going to start taking a look for other criminals on this site? So far, according to other reports, no one from this site could be reached for comment.

Now, if Entwistle met any of the women from this site, would their lives be in danger? Probably not. He might have tried to scam you out of money, though. He was unemployed, lied to his wife about money, claiming it was all in offshore accounts and debt was mounting to the point where they were close to going homeless. They were living way beyond their means. He was freaked about money and he was unhappy about his sex life.

Ladies, I am not saying mercy fuck the married guys on this site who are having massive troubles at home. Nope. I seriously doubt he wouldn't have killed his family to spare them from a life of poverty.

BTW, in spite of his DNA and his wife's DNA being found on the murder weapon, he's just plead not guilty. Right.

pinkplaytoyz 51F

2/16/2006 3:09 pm

Jeez-Ussssss!!! I had to turn on CNN to see for myself. I, for one, have no worries that the erstwhile Entwistle plagued my mailbox, my profile is turned off...and I have no fortune to steal...
Gotta hate it for the site though, perhaps they should add a few psychological questions as well...
"I have thoughts of murdering people..."

a. never
b. occasionally
c. frequently
d. I murdered someone last night

Thanks for the post!

Pasting 56M

2/16/2006 4:07 pm

WOW! And I thought the only dead thing on this cheesy site was the chance of having a sex life.

NickRules999 40M
9464 posts
2/16/2006 4:13 pm

This is horrible. This site looks to get some bad publicity coz of that. Also, the chances of not only married guys, but single guys also just went down. Good thing I stopped paying.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

nightstalker172 38M
1258 posts
2/16/2006 4:53 pm

If OJ simpson can do it why can he ...He should just plea guilty..idiot...but at anyrate...anyone can be a serial killer on here married or not...Thats the risk you take when contacting anyone on any website.

I dont know how many times Ive been referred to as Richard Ramirez....damn him....DAMN HIM...

NickRules999 40M
9464 posts
2/16/2006 8:49 pm

I'm back.

Yahoo has the condensed version of it. AdultFriendFinder was not mentioned, and neither was the family's living situation. All it talked about was the murders and the court proceedings. It turned my stomache all the same, though.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

header1979 38M
507 posts
2/16/2006 10:49 pm

I posted about this in my blog yesterday. It is on all the news shows and people are talking about it. I was at a business get together and people were talking about the website. One person asked"What kind of people would ever go to these websites?' I just smiled to myself. she had no idea she was talking to a member. We are every where and you can';t tell us from everybody else.

The thing about Entwhistle and Scott Peterson is that they seem so normal just like everybody else you know, excep they kill their wives. Why do people who come from good backgrounds and have everything going for them to this stuff. It is kind of scary.

womanoirish 55F

2/17/2006 8:05 am

I had no idea A F F was involved in a murder scandal, thanks for the update!

And Header1979 made a great point; now all the "judgementals" are sticking their noses up in the air and pooh-poohing a sex site, when all the while the members are everywhere. Just takes one weirdo to ruin it for everyone else.

8337 posts
2/17/2006 6:49 pm


I don't think you should be any more worried now than you were before about murderers being on AdultFriendFinder. This just reaffirms that possibility. They were always here and always will be, it just means you have to safeguard yourself like you have been doing. You know this, you're an intelligent woman.


That is why sociopaths are so dangerous, because they do appear "normal" and in fact quite happy to the outside eye.

In reality only they know they are going to kill, there are no outward signs.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
2/17/2006 7:16 pm

Pink, that was good!!!! d.......oops, I mean a., heehee.

Seriously, maybe they should throw in a few undercover female profiles and try to catch some of these nuts.

8337 posts
2/18/2006 4:23 am


With all the fake female profiles on here that's really gonna put a dent in the AdultFriendFinder sociopathic population.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
2/18/2006 11:38 am

pink, ROTFLMAO! You know, the other night in chat, someone asked what the purpose of the room was. We started telling him, it's for guys who are plotting their wives murders to hook up. Yes, we did offend more than a few people.

silhouette, I do remember. But I don't think this guy would have been a danger to any woman he met on here. At least, not if it was just a hook up. But imagine if he had, how shocked she'd be. A friend of mine on here and I have had these conversations bfore, but we keep them private, as we don't want to give anyone any ideas.

Pasting, =^..^=

Nick, this isn't the first bad publicity the site has gotten. A few years ago, some politician in either Maryland or Virginia got in trouble. He met some escort on the site, who started blackmailing him. That was when they started trying to crack down on hookers on the site. And did you know this site gets a mention in the Neil Gaiman book, "American Gods"?

nighstalker, HEY! Ramirez was the Night Stalker before you were! Then again, Darren McGavin was "Kolchack: The Night Stalker" years before Ramirez went on a killing spree. But Entwistle wasn't a serial killer. It was supposed to be a murder suicide and he wimped out, the loser.

Dysgyzed, a bit worried that the FBI or local cops might start looking at the site? What are you wanted for? And chocolate coffins? I want one!

header, typical that I'm a day late and a dollar short. I haven't gotten a chance to see your post yet. But yeah, people who don't use this site have a skewed idea of what it's about. They think we're a bunch of sex fiends who never put our clothes back on. If only they knew the reality.

As far as Entwistle and Peterson go, Peterson was a jerk from the get-go. He didn't want the responsiblity of caring for a wife, a kid and a mistress. Entwistle had tens of thousands of dollars of mounting debt, no job and was lying to his wife about money. The pressure got to him, they're saying. But it's also proof that if Entwistle had gotten laid, he would have done this anyway.

woman, it just makes it a bit harder for the men. I can name more than a handful of boil the bunnies on the stove type of women on here. But while this site has been in the news before, thanks to this story being so high profile, the loser quotient is about to go up.

Division, I'm not worried about meeting a murderer. I could meet one of those in real life just as easily on here. Think Ted Bundy. I also exercise caution and when I go off to meet someone alone, I leave a note saying where I'm going and what I'm doing and who I shall be with. Funny story about that I have to blog sometime. You know as well as I, if it hadn't been for the manhunt, this never would have made national news. If he hadn't been from the middle class, this never would have been national news. Maybe Geralo Riveria would have reported it. It would have been regional news, but not an international incident. You know as well as I, if this was some minority couple from the projects, it never would have gotten out of local news. This site is huge and we have people from every strata of society on here. So while I'm not surprised a member ended up killing someone, it is surprising to see it be such a high profile case.

Lianna, like there aren't undercover cops on this site. Although, they tend to go into the chat rooms, posing as 16 year old girls. It's amazing how often guys you think are normal turn perv when they see someone posing as a hot and horny 16 year old, looking for a guy around 30. Pigs.

rm_VoodooGuru1 50M
2053 posts
2/18/2006 12:20 pm

Who did you blow to get this post past the A FF censors?

8337 posts
2/18/2006 11:28 pm

^Word up Voodoo.....

She gets all her shit past the censors. It's uncanny.

Ann, you're right, but that's just the way the media works I guess. People are murdered everyday in these type of situations. I think you're right though that it's simply a case of a "high profile" case from the middle class which was sensationalized whereas a low profile case from the projects just wouldn't have been as tantalizing. You are a realist like me, so you know how things play out. Brutal honesty. I'd like to see some of these "biological experiments" you speak of though. You have a side of you that is enthralled with these morbid type phenomenon.

If you know some sites where I can see this type of thing, let me know.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
2/19/2006 9:58 am

Voodoo, I didn't blow anyone to get it past the censors. There were no keywords that the bots pick up on.

Division, lots of people get this shit past the censors. Or maybe they favor women, but I don't think so. But as far as my mysterious genetic experiments in the basement, you know I don't keep any sort of record. I destroy all evidence.

Guys, I am NOT the only one who has written about this. header1979 wrote about it in Public Perception of Adult Friend Finder Members. SassyChrisls wrote about it in IMPORTANT a MURDERER in the midst of us A FF'ers this is not a prank or a joke. I'm sure others have too. Not to mention, it isn't like the name of this site wasn't all over Fox News, CNN, MSNBC, etc. I'm willing to bet the farm that this week Geraldo is going to have a story on it. The dark, recessed corners of the Internet or some such bullshit.

8337 posts
2/19/2006 12:36 pm

They favor lil' goth looking chicks who insist they aren't goth chicks at all, but merely punk chicks from the past complete with Siouxsie and the Banshees fetish.

I want details on your experiments.......I'm being nice, Ann.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
2/20/2006 12:15 am

I hadn't heard about AdultFriendFinder being part of that. Appreciate the information.

However...when you really think about it...someone like that can be found anywhere. That last serial killer "the BK Killer" was a well respected member of his church! Just brings home the point...that we need to use common sense when dealing with individuals on this site...or anywhere else.

By the way...someone looking down their nose at people who are on this site...probably hypocrites. Remember the TV evangelists caught with their dicks in the cookie jar? As I recall a couple of them were on television with tears rolling down their cheeks...asking for forgiveness. Theonly reason they repented is because they got caught.



cuteNEway 42F

2/20/2006 2:52 pm

Fortunately the only social deviance that I've encountered are of the assholian and sexually ahmish(thanks Cause!!) variety. Men don't stalk me...they run! lol But seriously...I see the slightest hint of wierdo-in-a-bad-way and I run!!

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
2/21/2006 12:42 am

Division, you're so not getting blackmail material, er, I mean details of my experiments. No, this site doesn't favor me. I've had to make adjustments to posts to get them taken off the rejected list. Not to mention, header seems to be a man and he wrote about it too.

Kissmystuff, exactly. The Internet was for the military and academics when Ted Bundy was going cross-country murdering women. The people who look down their noses at us are hypocrites. Then again, there are those who think we're weird sex maniacs too. OK, so we are weird sex maniacs. But not all of us are out fucking anyone who asks. The preachers were all forgiven by their flocks. We won't be so lucky when they take up the torches and pitchforks.

Cute, men only run from you when you go into full attack mode, or you've had a few too many kamikazes at Sam's. (No, you are NEVER living that down.) You get far more action than most of us. Not to mention, you still haven't heard it was a terrible, hideous mistake to have sex with you, after said person has chased you for a year. Nor do you scare men with just a simple hello, the way I do.

ldftb1 36M
214 posts
2/21/2006 6:17 am

what happened to innocent until proven guilty, the american way?

pinkplaytoyz 51F

2/21/2006 3:26 pm

ldftb1, pay attention hon, the latest I read about the case in People mag vaguely referred to "adult sites" being visited by Entwhistle...went into a little detail of the silly story he told police (that they didn't buy) to try to cover up his heinous crimes. It turns out they found some DNA evidence on his father-in-law's gun that he "borrowed", used to kill his wife and daughter with, and then returned to his father-in-law's house...can we say "Blooming Idiot"?!!!!

Hippink 36F  
4498 posts
2/26/2006 10:28 pm

The fear-mongering of the US media is comical. THAT is the shit that should be blocked from public view, not this kind of necessary talk. The only eyes that maybe need to be opened are those that are on the site, not taking seriously the danger in hooking up with someone they don't know. Which is really funny, cuz I'd be willing to bet that a lot more women getting murdered are meeting their predators in places other than on line.

The saddest thing is, he murdered his WIFE, not someone he met on the site. But, they pick up on the tiniest scandalous thing they could dig up, and spread fear of the deviation from the norm. Only those not intelligent enough to think for themselves will fall for it... and those who like to control using fear will use it to wield power. I look at this and shake my head in disgust.

Nothing will change in the way I hook up with people, cuz I'm already about as careful as they come. Sure, I'm not invincible, but to be sure of my safety, I'd pretty much have to stay locked up in a panic room or bomb shelter, never to venture out. That doesn't sound like much fun. Hmmm... unless I was locked up with the Chippendale dancers... bah, they're probably all gay. And one of them COULD be a murderer.....

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