Taking the first step...  

Mikey_B1972 45M
134 posts
2/22/2006 6:31 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Taking the first step...

I haven't been with anyone seriously for quite a while now, actually nov of 04. I haven't been on dates, i haven't really done much of anything except concentrate on myself. I have had a few one nighters, but nothing serious. I am realizing that i need to make some serious changes. When i go to the club, i am normally the sharp dressed guy leaning on the bar, sipping on a drink. Some of my boys are with me, but they tend to get a little loud and are very outgoing. I am when i get to know someone, but I am having difficulties meeting women. Some of my female friends tell me i look too stuck up, or even intimidating. I am the nicest guy you will ever meet, i just like to look good when out on the town. This previous sat night, i did something totally out of the norm, i just invited a crowd of girls over to my section of the bar and started rambling. I noticed a few of them checking me out but had the hunch they would not make the first move. I ended up in the middle of a bachelorette party and was felt up and/or complimented on by all but one, shit, the bride to be would not get off me. During my bouncing days, the chics would flock to me, but now on the other side of the business, i have to do the hunting. I am seeing now, by taking the first step, the night ends up alot more fun. This has been an issue of mine for quite some time. My boys get their attention, then when they start talking to me, they end up liking me, rather than my boys. HOW DO I OVERCOME THIS? I have watched Hitch a dozen times and can't seem to get it down LOLOLOL


rm_hottpantz 44F
1 post
2/26/2006 10:10 pm

Hey Mikey B! Just read your whole blog and I gotta say thanks for the interesting read. Great pictures, good questions, some pretty cool stories. You know, I would read one post and be like "who does this joker think he is, some arrogant flashy pimp?" but then I would be like, "oh, he's a sensitive guy, how sweet". Anyways, keep up the great blogging.


Mikey_B1972 45M

2/27/2006 5:30 pm

hottpantz....do i sound that confused or am i just complicated? LOL


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