The first thing I look for in a woman...  

Mentor_FX_u 53M
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5/15/2006 10:33 am

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5/15/2006 9:16 pm

The first thing I look for in a woman...


Honesty, sense of humor about life (and your self), and above all, a little wisdom.
There was a time when it was mostly about the physical appearence, but as I have gotten older and wiser, I find behavior and attitude to be the biggest turn on. I love shy intellectual women who are independent enough to form their own opinions and make good decisions, but not so independant that they can't ask for a little support and help when needed.

Turn-ons:
Shy, intellectual nerds with a naughty side.
Spontaneity.
The abilty to laugh at yourself without being self-depricating.
A little role playing. (a little)
Petite, yet curvy.


Turn-offs:
When a woman writes a long-winded description about themselves, then writes only a few words about what they look for in a man. It makes me wonder if it's going to be all about them or if they even know what their looking for.

When the desciption of what they're looking for is almost exactly the same as how they described themselves. If you're looking for some one exactly like yourself, then why don't you just date your self? I believe two people should have some things in common, but I believe each should have some qualities or traits the other doesn't. This allows for individualism and the chance for admiration and respect toward one another.

Mind games. Uuugh! So many mind games. I'm talking about manipulation and lies. Some mind games can be innocent and fun.

Over-bearing, over opinionated, overly competitive biotches.

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