Disappointed...  

MarmaladeCpl2 38M/40F
3 posts
9/26/2005 9:07 pm

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Disappointed...


We are very disappointed with AdultFriendFinder... We came to this site last year, hoping to find some friends from our area in Chicago, but we could not find any. Put this on hiatus for a while. Moved to the NW area of Ohio and thought maybe our luck will change while we are in Ohio. Took the hiatus off AdultFriendFinder and looked around again. Found some interesting people and tried to strike a conversation with them but again, no luck. They would be looking for fuck first, friendship later. Now it looks impossible for us to find some friends in NW Ohio that are not so hung on fucking at first sight/first meet. We think it's neat and all, but that's not what we are looking for at first. We want to get to know this person we are talking to at least for a certain length of time so we won't get burned because in the past, we got burned so many times by our so called friends.

Right now we are looking for bi-females because we feel so comfortable being around them for some reason. Butch kind may scare us but we just want to have some friends so we can discuss our sex life with them and compare notes. After a while of acknowledging this person, we may open ourselves to them and maybe the mood will be right, we can do wild sex, some kind of kinky sex (no BDSM, spank you very much ma'am).

Our current circle of friends tells us that they enjoy our company and like to talk with us because of our spontaneity, sense of humor and open-mindness. We find it so hard to believe people here on AdultFriendFinder that we met, are not interested in talking with us. We have tried talking to some people on Yahoo, but it would be one sided conversation, and that side would usually be our side. The other side would be so quiet, "Yeah I know what you mean...", "oh Kool", "ok" and whatever else in 5 words or less... That's so lame and we can't fathom why people go on Yahoo and not say anything more than 5 words that could be intellectual and not sound so desperate like "Can we meet for some sex tonight?".

Thank god AdultFriendFinder evolved into this kind of site because of the blogs, the chatrooms in Flash, the groups, the "Get Local" and many more. It seems to be much better than before, content-wise. For the people here on AdultFriendFinder, there seems to be no improvement than last year when we tried AdultFriendFinder for a while.

Not surprising if we don't come back to our blog and add more to this, on a daily basis. If we feel all fired up to rant more on this, feel free to read on and on, after we add something new to this!

yesssman47 59M
6 posts
10/6/2005 8:17 am

This site doesn't seem to cater to those of us seeking some small kind of emotional connection that would enhance the physical one, and I have not read about much success in hooking up by anyone locally. It seems it is more for voyeurs than people desiring a passionate touch. I would be delighted to be found wrong, tho....


pussylicker8190 46M

10/6/2005 5:53 pm

You folks will find success in some local swing clubs.North of Monroe,Mi there is a good one and also 1 in Port Clinton.They prefer couples over single guys like me.E-mail me and I will give the info on AdultFriendFinder.


rm_badandmsmae 60M/59F
3 posts
10/26/2005 9:19 pm

Hi, we are also from Findlay. Meeting new people is very difficult. We do sometimes play on the first "date" but never make that the only reason we will meet. We have some good friends in the lifestyle and always looking for more. If you would like to talk and maybe meet


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