Looks and effect...  

MajorEasy 48M
3805 posts
10/29/2005 11:43 am
Looks and effect...


I am confuse after chatting with an AdultFriendFinder woman friend whom I have not met yet...

She was commenting about testimonials on my profile...if the women there are good looking, then she feels intimidated that I won't find her attractive enough to hang out with...but...if the women there are not good looking, then she thinks I'm desperate and will 'play' with just anyone, in which case she's not interested...

Hmmm...I feel it's a no-win situation...can anyone help with why she'll think like that?? Like I said many times in my group postings...I find most women sexy in their own way and I'm not hung up on how they look to others and what race they are...as long as they are pleasant and presentable...why can't that be accepted??

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rm_W223344Y 42F
34 posts
10/30/2005 7:29 am

agree with funsassy. no one has figured women out yet, and my dear, you won't be the first.

as to her intentions, my guess is that either ways, she doesn't want to meet you. that's all. In my eyes, it's her loss, don't worry about it.

(btw, if you get this soon, i lost my phone. email me about lunch?)


MajorEasy 48M
2693 posts
10/31/2005 9:55 am

Okie...seems not many are interested in this topic...time to move on...


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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rm_SexyCplJoy 41M/39F

11/3/2005 8:06 am

Haha, your testimonials are great! And i am not saying so because we gave you one.


I can almost see you cracking your brain thinking of a logical explanation for it, well buddy, some women are simply not worth the effort. Those who dare to get to know you are the only ones you should care about.

Sorry, but we're prejudice and you have nothing to worry about.

And hey, find yourself a good woman and let her take care of you. (please make sure she swings though, and preferably caucasian, you know my restrictions, K's not willing to give you up just yet. haha)

Cheers.


MajorEasy 48M
2693 posts
11/7/2005 11:05 am

Cheers mate for the comforting words...unfortunately, I see it as my mission to make as many women happy as possible...so unless the right girl comes along and wish to share (it would be to her benefit as well as I'm extremely loving with a woman who 'gets' me and allows me to be me...)..I'm pretty happy to be on my own...for now...and heh heh...you'll be the first to know if I get myself someone you care to swing with...

How's it going over there?? Sorry but no time to email properly...can you fucking believe Man U won???!??!!?!??!?!?!?!

Mate...I need a stiff drink!! (hugs to K... )


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
.


Loreena_05 45F

7/19/2006 6:21 am

    Quoting MajorEasy:
    Okie...seems not many are interested in this topic...time to move on...

Have you figured out yourself yet why is this so for your question so far?

But just to share with you, I had come to know a guy who is like that lady you mentioned too. No matter what I said, he did not seems to be convinced that looks is not really that important, to me. One thing, they sure suffer from the low-self esteem.

Thats good enough for them to reject all sorts of approach.


MajorEasy 48M
2693 posts
7/19/2006 12:28 pm

    Quoting Loreena_05:
    Have you figured out yourself yet why is this so for your question so far?

    But just to share with you, I had come to know a guy who is like that lady you mentioned too. No matter what I said, he did not seems to be convinced that looks is not really that important, to me. One thing, they sure suffer from the low-self esteem.

    Thats good enough for them to reject all sorts of approach.
Nah sweetie...don't think I'll ever figure this one out...

Yeah...I thought it could be low self-esteem too...but if that's the case...shouldn't they just leap into any willing arms?? Why decide based on who a person cares to be with??


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
.


Loreena_05 45F

7/21/2006 12:32 am

As far as I know, a low-self esteem person normally rejects a lot of things and prefer to keep within the comfort zone. So it can be quite difficult to simply just jump into bed with anyone. You know, one who hesitates will be lost. But have pity.


MajorEasy 48M
2693 posts
7/21/2006 2:52 pm

    Quoting Loreena_05:
    As far as I know, a low-self esteem person normally rejects a lot of things and prefer to keep within the comfort zone. So it can be quite difficult to simply just jump into bed with anyone. You know, one who hesitates will be lost. But have pity.
Hmmm...sweetie...don't mind me...but I think you've described a person low in confidence instead of low self-esteem...


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
.


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