Patterns realized  

Mackey05 40F
508 posts
3/28/2005 8:31 am

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Patterns realized


I'm one of those people who tries to go into every new situation with an open mind with can be very difficult when there are certain patterns that emerge and it would seem asinine to ignore them. Every time I get an e-mail on AdultFriendFinder or one of the dating sites I was on I'd pop over to that person's profile and read the whole thing before deciding whether or not to repond or send their message to the inferno of stupidity that is my garbage can.

One pattern I've noticed is that there is a lot of commonalities between how men of certain races, ethnic groups, and professions treat women. "THAT"S HOGWASH!" many of you are thinking, but I'm just posting what my experiences have been and I'm sure that there is some regional variation ( I'm convinced that men on the East Coast and in the South treat women with 100x more respect and consideration that the men here in the Midwest ) and other women have had different experiences... Then again, maybe my theory will be supported by women having the same things happen to them... I don't know.

In my personal life I've developed a great dislike for salespeople, lawyers and reporters. These people are paid to lie to people's faces every day and are masters at twisting the truth to fit their own agenda whether that is getting a story, building a case, or getting some idiot schmo to buy something so they can make commission. I feel like these people have no soul and get some pleasure out of using people. I'm sure hell is packed with them and right now each of those professions is holding some sort of convention in the inferno.

Anytime I am shopping I look in a store and count how many customers vs. salespeople there are before I go in. I hate being mauled by salespeople because it annoys the hell out of me! I want to be left alone and do my thing. I know which stores have people who work on commission and which ones don't. I know salaried sales people are more truthful because their livelihood doesn't depend on selling people things they don't want or need. Here on AdultFriendFinder I've gotten over 72 e-mails from salesmen. From the way they word their profiles to how they converse everything is suspect and shady. I hate asking questions because I get responses like, "How do you want me to answer?" "Which one would turn you on more?" "I'm sure you can guess." "Whatever you think makes you right." and so forth. Yes, we are trying to "sell" ourselves here but some of us don't like the lies and games.

Lawyers are along the same lines as sales people, but reporters are a different breed. As an athlete I initially loved reporters because they promoted my team's victories and the amazing performances given by my team mates and myself. What I didn't realize at first was that many times their accounts were not accurate, were biased, and so many times comments made by people were twisted to cause riffs between players, other teams, and coaches. As a coach I chose my words very carefully. It didn't help because nearly everything I said was not reported correctly and I ended up with a lot of phone calls from angry parents, administrators, and a few opposing coaches whom I was friends with. I spent way too much time smoothing over problems those bastards caused for me when I should have been focusing on more important matters. I physically threatened one reporter after he was putting the moves on one of my 15 year old female players. She told me the comments he has made to her and how uncomfortable he was making her feel so I pulled him aside and told this P.O.S that I would remove his cock and shove it up his ass and take his job if he ever sexually harassed one of my players again. The following week I overheard a convo he was having with a different player and I dragged him back to his car by his tie. Right then and there I called his editor and has his ass fired. Here on AdultFriendFinder I have run into 3 reporters who have reaffirmed my feelings that reporters are lower than snakes. One of them is the biggest idiot I have ever come across in my life. You'd think that someone who makes a living writing and expressing ideas and thoughts would be able to communicate well. Nope. He is one of those men who spouts off things without giving thought to what he is saying and the effect that it has on another person. I did like him at one point and wanted to meet him, but I realize his brain is the size of a peanut and I will never get involved with a man like him who has to apologise for everything he says. There are some people who are single and it's hard to see why, and there are those whom make it completely obvious. It's no wonder his wife left him and I feel bad that she didn't see what an insensitive, immature asshole he is before she tied the knot. At least she realized she could do better and left.

One group that cracks me up is EastIndian men. Every single e-mail I have gotten has a mention of the Kama Sutra in it. Nearly every one points out how sensual and skilled they are and that women fall all over themselves to be with them. Guys, if that was true you wouldn't be here! LOL!!! One man tracked me down on messenger and tried convincing me it was his destiny to please my white lotus.. Yes, he used those words! LMAO!! He became angered when I said I wasn't interested and wished him luck.

I already voiced my disgust with white trash men on my Dekalb thread, but don't ever confuse white trash with someone being a blue collar worker. A lot of the e-mails I have recieved from construction workers, electricians, and other men who do back breaking work with their hands daily have been the most respectful and kind men I have come across on here. They have been very sincere and honest and out of the 31 e-mails I have gotten only 2 have been rude. I did meet up with one and while he was a gentleman the whole date, he just wasn't the kind of man I wanted to get involved with.

You'd think that white collar men, educated men would be the prime candidates a woman like myself would want to get involved with. NO! They have been by far the rudest and treat women like dirt. They expect things and I swear it comes from them being in powerful positions at work and it spills over into their personal life. People smooch their behinds daily and they expect women to be submissive doing whatever they want all the time. Maybe some women will, but those of us with an ounce of self respect and dignity will laugh in your face and walk away.

Computer jockies and IT ( information technoloy ) men are a mixed bag. Many of them embody the negative stereotype of the dorky Star Trek fans who are socially inept and will be lucky if they loose their virginity this lifetime. Many of them are like the white collar men I mentioned above and have a deep controlling streak while 2 I have met were descent guys. I will admit that one of them was not attracted to me at all and he was kind enough to stick it out through dinner and gave me a hug afterwards. The other one was very small in stature.... A lot smaller than me so I was not interested in him.

I'm sure that everyone has their 2 cents when it comes to what I expressed in this posts. These are my experiences, thoughts, and beliefs and as with any negative things inside of me... I hope I'll have better experiences and meet people who will disproove my theories and change how I view salespeople, lawyers, reporters and East Indian men.

sportyfun56 107M

3/29/2005 10:22 am

Mackey... wow, lol.
Well you have said a lot and I'm sure you have pissed some folks off. Fortunately, I don't fall into any of your "groups of Ill repute". In fact I share some of your experiences with reporters. Like you, I was an athlete and fairly successful at it. I was fortunate to compete both nationally and internationally in my sport. And like you, I learned early on (high shool in fact) that reporters have a strange skill of taking what you say, reporting it, and making it sound entirely different than what you meant. They also use the worst picture of you.. lol. If I had a nickel for everytime I read an article that I had been "quoted" in, and said to myself, "Those are the words I used, but that's not what I said" I'd be vacationing on my yacht now.

So I do enjoy reading your blogs. And I promise not to misquote you.. lol

Sporty
(graphic designer in Texas)


sportyfun56 107M

3/30/2005 11:28 am

Mackey.. lol
I'd definately share a drink with you. First your yacht, then mine. We'd have a heck of a time out on the water hun. Do you like to SCUBA dive?

And mackey babe, you only pissed of the people that won't get it or understand it anyway. It's never my will to aggravate a select group of folks either, but if it does happen I regret it but life is life and you can't please all of the people all of the time. In spite of what the proponents of "political correctnes" would have us believe. So speak your piece and if someone is offended then they don't have to participate.

Sporty


sportyfun56 107M

4/1/2005 9:44 am

Mackey...
Well unfortunately, most of my Scuba has been done on inland waters, lakes, etc. I live far enough away from the Saltwater that its a bit of a chore. So I just fish when I get there instead... lol
But I have had the opportunity to Skin Dive in the Caymans, Cozumel, and Haiti. I missed out when I was in the Bahamas for a short time. But I did para-sail. That was something. Actually the Island reef I experienced off of Haiti was the best. Carribbean water is heaven.

But we could always just go fishing... or jet skiing, or parasailing.... or.....


rm_bluegenes51 57M
245 posts
4/20/2005 11:00 am

Computer jockies and IT ( information technoloy ) men are a mixed bag. Many of them embody the negative stereotype of the dorky Star Trek fans who are socially inept and will be lucky if they loose their virginity this lifetime. Many of them are like the white collar men I mentioned above and have a deep controlling streak while 2 I have met were descent guys. I will admit that one of them was not attracted to me at all and he was kind enough to stick it out through dinner and gave me a hug afterwards. The other one was very small in stature.... A lot smaller than me so I was not interested in him.
Painting with a broad brus hhere...are we not?


LickMe5X 53F
41 posts
4/20/2005 11:43 am

Hmmm... well I have to disagree with the some parts of your "patterns" I met a "computer nerd" on this site.. he was the best licker that I have ever met.. and that is my fave sex activity.. getting my pussy licked. Good luck in your future encounters.


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