Married Men  

Mackey05 40F
508 posts
3/27/2005 7:36 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Married Men

Today I got an e-mail from a married guy... Yes, I get lots of them despite the fact my profile says clearly that I won't help people cheat. Many married men choose to send me attacking e-mails right off the bat because of how I feel or choose to bash me after I send them a polite decline.

The man I got an e-mail from today was different from the rest and I thanked him for his e-mail.. Weird huh?! He said he had read my blogs and told me that he is married and chooses only to get involved with other married people because single women, such as myself, scare him. I could totally see that and understand. Some single females try to pull married men away from their marriages or ruin things for them "Fatal Attraction" style. He closed by saying that he believes I despise him for the way he chooses to live his life. Here is how I responded;

I don't despise you at all and don't understand where you would get that impression. Everyone has their tastes and limits and mine happen to not include helping men cheat because of how badly the affair screwed me up emotionally. As you read, I not only experienced the hurt it causes the 'other woman', but ended up seeing how the married woman feels after learning a guy I had seen was married when his wife called. I love sex but refuse to get in any situations that I see as hurtful to me or someone else.

That's just me. Everyone else has their own set of values, morals, beliefs, and kinks and whatever makes you happy, gets you off, and you can be comfortable with doing is fine. I don't condemn people for what they choose to do in their bedrooms, but I have a choice in who I get involved with and what I do with my body. Hope that clears things up


3/28/2005 12:01 am


I do believe you are more than one step closer to that long road of recovering yourself, Congrads to you . If no one else will say it , I will , I`m proud of you "

cloud1945 69M

3/28/2005 7:32 am

Mackey thanks for putting this in your blogs. Maybe it will help others. It has me.
To a deserving person------thanks

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