Contemplating leaving  

Mackey05 40F
508 posts
2/23/2005 10:00 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Contemplating leaving

Well... Can't say this journey on AdultFriendFinder hasn't been interesting... Disappointing and frustrating, definately. Getting boring? Of course. Lately I feel like I am running into the same kinds of men over and over again. I'm starting to feel very negatively about things and am bummed out completely. I really thought I'd find one cool guy on here that I'd be able to click with and have sex with on a regular basis and hang out with time to time. Bummer... I feel like an object and am irritated that guys don't think I can see through their games, lies, and fake sympathy... When someone isn't feeling well you don't shove your dick in their face like an asshole and you sure as hell don't give them a hard time and pressure them to meet with you. No common courtesy and no thought whatsoever. Maybe it's time to invest in a battery operated friend and take my funbags and go home.

Sexonthebrain4U 51M
36 posts
2/24/2005 12:34 am

Sorry to hear you feel that way. I enjoyed reading your blogs, although I was freaked out a little when reading about your "near death experience". I guess AdultFriendFinder wouldn't be at the top my priority list after something like that, either. Well, not all of us men are assholes and I wish you luck...just hope you're not too jaded after this........take care.


2/24/2005 3:05 am

With all do sinecity, I do hope you feel better. If you interested in having coffee sometime, please know I am here for you. I'm also fun to chat with. if tou want to discuss this further I am on yahoo chat as just_steve2000. There is NO reason we can't be friends. Even if it is just friends. I look forward to hearing back from you.


cloud1945 69M

2/24/2005 5:07 am

The guy is here ----- be patient------ you will find him.

SigEp4U 44M

2/24/2005 8:02 am

I for one hope you don't leave... I was just starting to enjoy reading your posts.

Of course I can not blame you for feeling the way you do...

I haven't been on here very long but... I get the distinct impression that some guys think that just because they have an account here, that it means they have hit the sex jackpot. Like it automatically qualifies them for a one night stand with any woman who also has an account on here.

It just blows my mind away...

Of course I am sure there are ladies on here that are just looking for a one night stand... but in general... I bet they are also looking for some sort of connection as well... some sort of chemistry.

Anyway... if you go... it was nice to start to get to know you.


rm_newbie 49M
4 posts
2/24/2005 9:08 am

Mack...I am with you! I am getting bored too. I am not sure how to work the AdultFriendFinder thing. In theory you set your standards / filters and the guy/girl who meets them doesn't fall through. Honestly so far I've had nibbles...folks who say they want to get to know me better. That excites me, but then I am not sure how to do that.

I must say that the blogs are great! I read alot of them. I enjoy hearing what people have to say...even the guys. I find myself checking them out to see the competition (I'm straight). Plus I get to see that there are people out there that are thinkin like I think, and doing what I do.

So maybe I'll hold on to the parts I like, and maybe the parts that aren't working so well...will catch up. Maybe you should too. For now I am writting about what has happened to me in the past and reliving the moments, and they were so great! So I know they can happen time.

Take care,

Newbie - Sex and Barking Dogs (my shameless plug for my blog)

1 post
2/24/2005 4:12 pm

Really sorry your so disillusioned. I loved your blog and found it well written and very entertaining. It also made me feel really great when I sent you a pic and you said I was very handsome. That was so nice. Whatever you decide I hope you find much happiness in life.

rm_Minnguy58 60M
57 posts
2/24/2005 8:02 pm

it can get boring here, your bog has made it enjoyable to be here and I too, honestly, hope you can find that guy you are looking for. Most likely when you are least expecting it, he will show up.

rm_Hrd4YouAll 57M
14 posts
2/24/2005 8:25 pm

Idiots and assholes are everywhere. I have been on AdultFriendFinder for several years and have met a LOT of evil women and several very sick men... But it has paid off, because I met the most wonderful partner I could ever have hoped for. Just stick to your guns. When you see through a liars crap, call him/her on it and then BLOCK them and move on. Have faith and don't give up!

Have a great day, sweetie!


2/25/2005 4:34 am

"Living vicariously through you". I love that statement. One of my favorites. Hang around, I like your blogs/posts. And yes, I am living vicariously through you.

StlRams69 38M
22 posts
2/27/2005 9:12 pm


I fell ya gf, and if you like how about me and you chat on yahoo as well I go by ramsrule_62040 or on in here in the lower midwest room or grate lakes room. So please don't give you babe cause you sound nice and sweet and really wanna get to know ya a bit more. So when you get a chance talk to me on yahoo and we will work something out.



LickMe5X 53F
41 posts
4/18/2005 11:07 am

OOpppss... forgot the second part... read some of the women's profiles... we ALL suck...

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