My Dilema  

MWWwantsmore 52F
1594 posts
6/12/2006 5:48 am

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6/14/2006 4:55 pm

My Dilema

A while ago I wrote a post about what you would do if a friend of your significant other made a pass at you. I am encountering another problem similar to that.

It started a few years ago when I went to visit my mother in law in Florida. A few of her brothers have condos in the same complex also. There is one of her brothers that has always been a favorite of mine and he has a condo there.

One of the days my mother in law went out and I decided to walk over and visit hubby's uncle. Well I was in Florida so I was wearing shorts and my bikini top. Turns out his wife was with my mother in law. He gives me a big hug and a kiss and invites me in. Then he starts going nuts on me, fondling my breasts, trying to kiss me. Pushes me into a chair and kneels in front of and tries to remove my top. Now I am shocked and not sure how to react. So I tell him we cant do this, not that I want to! He is over 70!

He keeps trying saying that he wants young tits and that his wife wont let him do anything to her. Tries to take my pants off and pulls my hand to his crotch. Now I am totally turned off and get out of there as soon as I can. His groping me was totally gross to me.

Now a few weeks later, the phone rings and its him whispering that he is back in town and wants to see me. I am like freaking out here! A few days later I am home alone, hubby went away and he knew that. The doorbell rings and I look out and see him and don't answer the door. I am afraid to! He finally leaves.

Now I never told anyone in hubbys family about this and so far I have been able to avoid him at family functions. Either I didn't go or he wasn't there. But last night I saw him again, he comes up to me and gives me a big hug and kiss. When he was leaving he came up again and kissed me. He said so you are home from work for a while. Obviously with me being on crutches I cant say no.

He says that he will have to come over and see the work they are doing on the house as he gives me this wicked grin. So I am like OH SHIT!

Now what am I gonna do? I will have to watch out this summer. Not sure if I should tell anyone or not. At least my daughter will be home most days!

Phuc_Buddy 47M

6/12/2006 6:29 am

I don't know whether to be laughing or worried about the situation. Sorry but I do find it funny that you are being chased by a 70 year old horndog! On the other hand you shouldn't be subjected to that kind of crap.

MWWwantsmore replies on 6/12/2006 7:07 am:
At first I thought it was funny but he was so persistant that day and then when he showed up at the house OMG! Just makes me nervous

rm_herestill 57M

6/12/2006 9:43 am

you know,you might have to tell your hubby.He (hubby) might not do anything,but ya gotta try! Or take self defence for ppl on crutches!You might want to think about the safty of your daughter also.

MWWwantsmore replies on 6/12/2006 10:06 am:
What I meant was my daughter is home with me most days, so we can protect each other!

pragmaticCTcpl 62M/51F

6/12/2006 1:24 pm

Simple advice...continue to NOT answer the door, if and when he shows up...and pass it on to your daughter.

MWWwantsmore replies on 6/12/2006 2:50 pm:
Thats my plan and I already told my daughter the same and why!

NSAAddict 43F

6/12/2006 1:46 pm

Yikes MWW, that's hysterically gross, feeling conflicted like everyone else I'd tell your hubby for sure, you don't want the horndog getting angry and telling his wife or your hubby you tried seducing him. Best to get your side out first before it gets ugly!

MWWwantsmore replies on 6/12/2006 2:51 pm:
I am worried about telling hubby, no telling how he will react.

gemini0157 60M
6842 posts
6/12/2006 2:40 pm

I would tell your Husband (his Nephew) whatever and and tell him to keep the old fart the hell away from you. There's no excuse for this... sounds really hillbilly... I'd keep my daughter way away from this guy..

MWWwantsmore replies on 6/12/2006 2:51 pm:
I plan to keep him away from my daughter, dont worry!

docdirk 48M

6/12/2006 5:43 pm

If I were you, I'd run like hell when I saw his walker pull into the driveway. (Actually, if I were you, I'd limp like hell)

WTF???? You gotta get new in-laws, ASAP!!!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

MWWwantsmore replies on 6/13/2006 6:21 am:
You wanna come over and protect me?

rm1973 44M

6/12/2006 6:20 pm

Can you still outrun the old man on your crutches???

MWWwantsmore replies on 6/13/2006 6:21 am:
No, but I can wack him in the nuts with them

rm_alotofPlzr4U 107M

6/14/2006 4:34 am

Well well MWW... Is this a first for you? Turning away a MAN?

Just jokiing....

What an awful situation.

If it were you, I'd tell him this can'thappen, leave you alone and get the F out when he stops bye, if he's got an issue with that, I"m sure the police will have no qualms dealing with him.

Such a sad situation.

I must say though, he does have wonderful taste in women!!!

MWWwantsmore 52F

6/14/2006 7:03 am

Well a 70 year old dirty man is not for me! And thanks for the compliment

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