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1/31/2006 4:46 am

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With Valentine's approaching soon I began to wonder if you have ever had a crush on someone and never told them, if your answer is yes, why?
why did you not say anything???
You see I ask because that has never happen to me, the few times I have had a crush on someone I become too excited and make it a must to let that person know it.

Cowboy_Deluxe 39M

1/31/2006 5:32 am

The only time I had a crush on a girl on Valentine's day dates back to second grade.. I told her, her boyfriend got upset, I fought him on the playground, ripped his shirt..shoved dirt in his mouth.. Yeah she hated me even worse after that..decided that Valentines day just isn't a good day for crushes.

NutBuster1974 43M
1138 posts
1/31/2006 5:39 am

yes .. because the first few times I got rejected.. so from then onwards I kept my feelings to myself till i got way older ... hmmm about 10 yrs ago ..

silkysmoothlegs3 106F

1/31/2006 5:45 am

I have a crush yes
and i havent told him
i dont wannna spoil it
and he lives miles away
and.......he doesnt seem to notice me anyway

Thanks for the visit
i love your blogg
i shall return sexy


timberwolf6972 45M

1/31/2006 5:51 am

Hi Kink,I have had crushes on some women before and never told them cause they were happily married or something like that and it would have just caused a problem, so I kept it to myself.Come visit my blog sometime. {=}

KMA5 42M
771 posts
1/31/2006 6:08 am

I crush alot, I have been told. Nothing too serious though. Last Valentine's I gave a special crush a chocolate rose and a book coverd in velvet with inspirational quotes for today's strong woman.

Sorceror07 55M

1/31/2006 6:12 am

yes i have, because i was shy... much more shy when i was younger for sure. but i've gotten over that

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...

umland2 38M
6 posts
1/31/2006 10:12 am

want to hook up?

MyRealLoverOne 47M

1/31/2006 1:40 pm

No, I have never been able to hide it. I usually like to give an online kiss to my special crushes though.


Choozmi 51M

1/31/2006 3:02 pm

Once in high school I could have sworn that a very sexy classmate ("Gina") was staring at me quite often. She was a year ahead of me (her = sophomore, me = freshman), though, and very popular, and a senior boy was always hitting on her. So I assumed that I was simply imagining it.

One day our teacher read one of my stories aloud during class (it was a creative writing seminar). At the end of the period I went up to the teacher's desk to retrieve the story and found out that Gina had asked if she could borrow it overnight -- to study or something -- and was that all right with me? Of course it was.

Even after that big hint that she found me interesting I still could barely talk to her and nothing ever came of that. Ahhhh... regret.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
1/31/2006 4:13 pm

I have a crush on my daughter's orthodontist and I wont tell him because first he is married, second I love Sail, and three it would just ruin all the fun ogling over him.

Now lust, that is a different story

Purry {=}


mrorgasm4you04 58M

1/31/2006 4:18 pm

Dearest KINK

I think Im like you on this one. Ive had crushs before...but I always wanted to let them know I liked them. I think its best to throw a few crumbs the persons way...and let them know how you feel.

Flirting is my weapon of choice... a well placed (glance / smile) or a kind compliment, if sincere, can work wonders.

Its funny that you have mentioned crushs so close to Valentines day...

I have the biggest crush on a beautiful women as we speak. And with Valentines Day soon approaching, I would really like to make her feel appreciated and sexy on that day. Maybe I could throw her a smile or wink... to let her know how I feel.

Great subject my Dear KINK.

Bye for now ....

O-Man wink

Dallas_Male_35 49M
255 posts
1/31/2006 7:08 pm

LoL, "Crush" is a good word for this topic.

If you develop a "crush" on someone, and it doesn't go the way you want, it could "crush" your hopes, or your heart, or your ego, depending on some things.

I've had crushes before, but I'm not the most impulsive person in the world, I'm pretty patient. I've always waited things out to see if they were in reality the same as what they appeared. In the long run, it saves you from being "crushed" in those cases where it may not have worked out.

reverend21 51M
1913 posts
1/31/2006 8:20 pm

A crush, yes, I could not share it with her as she lived to far away. To let her know would be disrespectful and possiblly hurtful to her so I will not allow myself to share this with her, eventhough I know that I will never meet another like her.

tillerbabe 57F

1/31/2006 8:57 pm

Yup.. I do it a lot...(I don't say anything), becuase it always seems that when I do, I get rejected, I feel like a fool and I absolutely hate i just keep my mouth shut.

ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
1/31/2006 8:57 pm

i have crushes, always on guys i shouldn't have them on. so, i give myself away, likely by being silly. but, as i crush on people i shouldn't, i never admit them, even to friends. just here in blogland

elysianpleasure 49M

1/31/2006 10:12 pm

I have had a few crushes...
To shy...
Wrong circumstances...
Lots of excuses...
I think you have the right idea though

JustSayHi2006 57F

2/1/2006 9:27 am

If I have a crush on someone they usually know it and they usually have a crush on me too...

maletomakeuorgas 37M

2/1/2006 3:08 pm

I quite fancy purrkitty at this moment in time and look forward to getting to know her better!


2/1/2006 6:12 pm

Mr Tex,
Picturing your shy side brings a warm smile to my face for I would have never imagine.

OMG Cowboy,
I am so sorry your awesome display of driven testosterone failed.
Oh please do not allow for it to permanently scar you.
Valentine's is such a great day for friendships and LOVERS both.

Thank you for visiting. With honesty like that who needs luck.
Trust me darling those who did not see your shine are the unfortunate ones.

Miss Silky,
Thank you for gracing my blogy with your hotness, I too loved your Blog. Now about this crush of yours! soemthing tells me he too has a crush on you, call it Kink intuition.


2/2/2006 4:36 am

Crushes on taken ones? ooh, I could never be so daring with my heart.

What a sweet Valentine gift.
Books as gifts are one of my many favorite things.

Welcome back. I do wonder how one gets over their shyness when shy.

Dear UM,
Thank you for the invite though premature.

Mr Real,
I think it is fabulous the manner in which you direct your attention towards that special someone you have your eye on (very sexy).

Damn it another one gets away, due to shyness.

Thank you for visiting and purring my way.
and yes, LUST is a very different story.
Stay gorgeous

Mr O,
You definitely seem like the romantic type which most women love. I too believe that letting the Crushee know how you feel is a MUST.
No secrets here.
I do not know about throwing them a few crumbs though, the visuals to that are just not nice darling.

Mr Dallas,
I feel crushed just by reading that. I slowly feel all of my relationship phobias returning.

That can not be, you must tell her you must for the pain and regret the years can bring due to you not saying anything can last a long time.

Rejection and you do not go in the same sentence in my world.

Oh my Snatchie Pooh,
You keep your crushes a secret sometimes, how naughty.
Don't you just love Blogland?

Welcome back, I know that the next time you have a crush on someone it will be different.

Your entry totally made me feel so very CUPID (as I aim my arrow towards Purry's Hiney)
I just adore it when men are not shy about putting their crushes out in the open like you have.
It really allows the woman you care for see that there are no others you are intending to court.

Mr Aka,
You casanova you

rm_bigchoklatdk 46M

2/2/2006 10:13 am

Yes...........a little shyness, mingled with thoughts of rejection.............but there's a first time for everything.....oh hell, why not!?!!..................MISS KINK, I'VE GOT A HUGE CRUSH ON U! Holla.


2/2/2006 4:04 pm

Hi Miss Kink,

the answer for this one is the same as for FIRST CRUSH

I never told Lisa how much I liked her which was so dumb because I knew there was a point where she liked me too. She was a bright and cute honors student and she'd always be the one telling me the dirty jokes that she'd pick up at those beer and BBQ parties her Air Force Pilot father oftentimes hosted.

She was too cool.

I guess there was one of even bigger stature than her named Karen. She was the younger sister of my best freind from my earliest years. She was the most popular girl in school but not a big cheerleader type at all. Like Lisa she was a straight A student (I always went for the brainy ones) but what nobody really appreaciated about her that just hooked me so deeply was that she was a drop dead amazing artist. She could draw or paint the most amazingly realistic pitures that your jaw would drop off your face.

Nobody else seemed to seemed or appreciate that aspect of her. But I did. But that never got me very far with her. I was still socially inept at that time and her having always been somewat at the fore of all things social (while amazingly also avoiding becoming a snot about it) was simply out of my league. Behaviorly I was just too clueless to get anything started in that way with her.

I even ended up in the same offcampus dorm as her since she also went to the college that I did but even at that later date I had little luck with her. And I never did tell her how I really felt but she knew enough of it that I never had to. She was quite the perceptive one.

I even think she gave me an opening to enter trying to do something too only I was not in the right mental space to take that and try to make the most of it. Even to have had that chance was actually beyond where I ever really expected to get with her even though she was sort of like the only woman who existred on the face of the planet for me back then.

It just hit me how horrble that all was. That wasn't just a simple crush. It was full blown unrequited (sp?") head over heels (or ass over teakettles) love and it wasn't a very pleasant thing at all for me. It was awful!!! I can laugh about it now though. But it also makes me cry if I let all that really sink in.

She's now a very successful graphic designer and also runs her own company that makes quite unique and very artisitcally designed childrens furniture back in that beautiful city we both went to school together at Santa Barbara.

Truly my one that got away. Overall I don't know if it really would have worked. I think there is likely a parallel universe to this one where it did work out though. But in that regard it's not really supposed to in this one.

Hey Sasha write me somtime soon if you can. That pesky A FF email delete bot flushed your older mail when I wasn't looking and now I can't write you anymore. I only had that one lucky week in December where it seemed I could write everyone.

anyways, take care


Deepthroat215 53M
328 posts
2/2/2006 8:02 pm

I had a crush on a co-worker and almost got a chance to live it out. She had better judgement and stopped after we kissed a little one night in the parking lot. You're my new crush

Uninhibited1972 46M

2/2/2006 8:13 pm

If a girl expresses frustration with guys coming on to her, even if I've never met the guy, I will never develop a crush on her. I tend to latch on to fact that she doesn't want to be pestered by love.

Other than that, I pretty much crush on all my female friends after spending a couple of months around them; or maybe it simply just a passing fantasy, a phase I go through. I don't think I can hide emotions well, but one friend told me she never knew.

What I love most about a crush, is being just friends afterwards. To me, being 'Cool' [Gwen Stefani] after a hot-flash is finally seeing eye-to-eye, with no awkward moments... True friends. In fact, my favorite dream I've woke up from was of me and a former crush that I never told. She meets me at some kind of sporting even, in the bleachers. She said she understood how I felt, then we sat down and enjoyed the game together.

Dallas_Male_35 49M
255 posts
2/2/2006 11:13 pm

Mr Dallas,
I feel crushed just by reading that. I slowly feel all of my relationship phobias returning.

LOL, sorry, Miss Kink.

I was not trying to crush you nor was I trying to cause you to relive any dating phobias there heh heh.

I imagine as pretty as you are that you would ever have any problems dating.

tillerbabe 57F

2/5/2006 12:45 am

YOU! are so very sweet! {=}

WellhungTrigger 44M
282 posts
2/11/2006 2:50 pm

Funny you should mention that, I just posted The crush about the yummy check-out girl!


WellhungTrigger 44M
282 posts
2/11/2006 2:52 pm

okay, link or no link? The crush maybe?


2/22/2006 6:07 pm

Mr Big,
Some advice, a little bit of shyness mixed with some confidence is very very sexy to me.

Darling, both Lisa and Karen sound like superb specimens and should always be kept deep in heart and memory. I see that you too are taken by drop dead amazing artist as you put it. Something about the way one can take a small glance if even at the pshyche of an artist through their ART engulfs me. KC, you speak about being socially inept.
What changed that and how?
I can relate, though my condition comes and goes at times.

Mr AkA,
Take the compliment.

Now what you are saying is deep, how naughty to have a crush on someone you barely know of.
I really love the " she has better judgement" line.

Thank you for stopping by and leaving your mark, I really appreciate that.
I have really taken in cosideration what you mention regarding gilr's expressing fustration towards men when approached and you being under the impression that they would not want to be pestered with love, you see I am a bit standoffish when approached in the wrong manner but when spoken to in the right tone I am melt.
Perhaps you should take that in to consideration next time you have your eye on someone.
Very sweet song "COOL".

Mr Word,
You are fabulous darling, thank you sweet angel for being so hilarious. I have not smiled or laughed this hard since someone called me Grampa KINK, *inside joke that maybe will get it's own post one day but not now.
I mean I am making a stand to have these words put in to the new Webster's edition.
Your mind is brilliant and your Ego not to shabby, I especially loved this line "There was once a time in my pimply faced teenage years that I actually thought I was completely unattractive to women.... (huuuh??) I know a total sweeps week shocker!" once again thank you for stopping by and my apologies for not replying to comment sooner.

Mr Dallas,
Thank you, you are too kind and sweet.

Cameo (Tiller)
You are too SEXY, look at those legs.

Mr Tiger,
Thank you for the post, any trips to the market lately?

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