I Hate Goodbyes  

Luvwetcunt1000 50M
382 posts
1/20/2006 12:25 am

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I Hate Goodbyes

For those of us who have been actively blogging and commenting on each other's posts, It has become a wonderful activity almost a daily ritual. I try to log in as often as I can and everyday I look forward to reading funny and interesting things.

Today I found that another much loved blogger has decided to leave. I was sad when I read Silkysmoothlegs3's post. I've enjoyed her witty comments so much even though now I regret that I wasn't a regular visitor to her blogs. I'll miss her a lot. I'm hoping she'll reconsider.

Throughout my life I've had to say goodbye to friends who left for other jobs, or moved to other places. It was always a difficult thing for me. Sometimes I just wished so hard that we could meet again.

Today just reminded me of one of those days and I feel this great emptiness in my heart. So tell me, how has it been for you? What was it like whenever you had to say goodbye to a friend, a loved one who passed away, your ex, your close neighbour who migrated? In that final moment, describe what your exact feelings were. What last words did you say? What regrets did you have?

slidein2meplz 63F
1994 posts
1/20/2006 8:09 am

Oh this is a hard one to answer. I have a very difficult time saying goodbye. With friends and neighbors I normally don't use that exact word and prefer to just say see you later.

With ex's....I don't recall ever really saying goodbye....I think we just didn't say anything and went our separate ways. It's been a long time since I've been in that situation....so I can't really remember.

Regarding someone who's died...the only 1 was my dad -- I just did a post on him yesterday...I wrote him a letter and forgave him, told him I loved him...and only because I had that chance to do so, others that have passed...were sudden..and I didn't get a chance to...but inside my heart I would tell them goodbye and I always felt extremely sad...and yes, lot's of regret when those circumstances happened.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

Luvwetcunt1000 50M
1258 posts
1/22/2006 5:52 pm

Slide, thank you for visiting. Yes, I guess Goodbye is never an easy thing for all of us. I think you're right, see ya later is easier to use. I sometimes do that. BTW, I visited you post OK .. 2006 Is Here ... It's a good one!

Fly, thanks for stopping by. Your replacement is a good idea. I think I'll use it more often.

digdug41 50M

1/22/2006 11:10 pm

I think there is some extenuating circumstances that have forced her to stop and I guess when she gets them resolved she will be back

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

Luvwetcunt1000 50M
1258 posts
1/23/2006 12:06 am

Thanks Dug. I figured that.

But the good news is today I found she's back so I'm happy about that.

You have a good day now.

Luvwetcunt1000 50M
1258 posts
1/24/2006 11:37 pm

Hi Kate,

You are not interrupting anything. In fact, I'm honored you stopped by. Those are nice words you just said.

Stay strong, Kate. We're all with you.

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