The problem  

Lucyandricky007 50M/48F
7 posts
3/28/2005 9:32 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The problem

I've found that the main problem with helping your woman achieve multiple orgasms is technical. Assuming the woman achieves her first orgasm well before the man does, I found that the next orgasm will most usually start to happen just as the man is about to ejaculate. You see, in the 15 - 20 seconds before ejaculation, a man's penis becomes almost painfully erect as it strains for release, gaining extra length and girth. This extra pressure is usually enough to put a woman over the top. The problem is this: can she reach orgasm in the 10-15 seconds before her partner ejaculates? The answer is unfortunately, not often. You see, as the man approaches orgasm, the woman feels one coming on and immediately increases her gyrations or whatever other method she uses to "crest", unfortunately, this causes most males, to ejaculate even sooner often ending up with frustration on the part of the woman from being, "so close" to orgasm and her partner not being able to wait for her. The secret to this is of course communication. Both men and women should always let their partners know where they are along the road to orgasm so that the partner has a chance to adjust their timings. It takes some practice but, with repitition, not only will the woman acheive multiple orgasms more regularly but that second or third one may well coincide with her partners first. And there's nothing like ejaculating at the same time to take a relationship to new heights.

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
3/28/2005 7:09 pm

Yes those simutaneous ones are earthshaking. I have only achieved that a few times. And that was with partners who I had a lot of experience with. Even when you know each other so well it can be difficult to time it right.

rm_69LIBRA04 47M/F
1 post
1/30/2006 1:41 pm

i must be lucky the man that i am with not only makes it a rule that no one come until the women comes but he tries new ways to bring me there.for example he told me that he had learned not only a new way to make me have an orgasm but he would make me squirt.being i had never sqirted before i did not think it was possible.but ladys let me tell you this man not only made me come so many times i lost count but this man made me squirt to the point we had to flip the when we have sex i am willing to try anything he wants me to especially knowing that he is always trying to take me to a higher level.for info on some of the things he does get at us at 69libra04.hope all you ladys reach the levels i have.SUNSHINE

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