Sex Question (Part Two)  

LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
3114 posts
7/24/2005 4:43 am

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Sex Question (Part Two)

What is sex meant for... in your opinion?

Is it just a sporting activity to you?

Do you think it is meant for someone that you care about and you know cares for you?

LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
1241 posts
7/27/2005 6:15 pm

I feel much in the same Erotic.

I wish more people felt that way but many seem to think of sex as a recreational sport that is meant to be shared with as many people as possible regardless of even how old they are.


7/26/2005 7:50 pm

Sex is something I feel shouldn't be taken lightly. For myself, I feel sex is going to happen if the chemistry is there between the people involved. Everyone has thier own individule ways, Weather it be straight 1 on 1, Couples with 1 or more extra partners. Men with men, or ladies with ladies. It is what they desire. I am a 1 on 1 straight pleasurable sex type woman. I feel very comfortable in talking about sex with my partner, What turns him on, nor do I mince words when telling my partner what he does or doesn't do that turns me on. Sex can be so over rated at times.

i6u9we69allnight 41F

7/24/2005 9:00 pm

depends on if its with the person you love or the person you lust. either way its great and I can never get enough of it.

4 posts
7/24/2005 6:03 pm

I am an adult performer in LA. I encounter this question frequently..., I mostly receive opposition to the concept that sex is a STRESS relief for nervous and negativity energy that builds up in our groin region... This relief is a great and freeing experience if done right... Love has been misconstrued as the means to have greater sex as it SEEMS to heighten the sensation.. when in truth the heighten effect is the ability to OPEN up and TRUST your partner... ie communication must be established!!! please let's stop confusing LOVE with sex...

dark_whispers 40F

7/24/2005 5:41 pm

What is sex meant for... in your opinion? The answer to that question really varies with each person.. or even mood.. For me.. it is all about the energy, the pleasure, the fun, the excitement.. it can be an enjoyable way to pass time.. or it can be more deep..

Is it just a sporting activity to you? No.. to me..that would really make it a game.. I dont like one nite stands.. I also dont care how many times my belt gets notched.. While I do think it is extremely pleasurable.. I do not find it to be just a sporting activity..

Do you think it is meant for someone that you care about and you know cares for you? No.. I think pleasure should be shared between individuals .. but..i dont think they have to care.. depending on what is happening in life.. i think caring about someone..could make it better or worse.. If i was in a deeply committed relationship..then caring would enhance the pleasure.. but.. if im not..and i let myself care .. its only going to hurt me..

Mikey_B1972 46M

7/24/2005 12:59 pm

1. I feel sex is meant for the exchanging of pleasures between people that words can not express
2. Honestly, sometimes it is. The sensations and gratifications you get from sex are addicting. I feel people who are mature enough to handle the situation of it being a sport without breaking a heart in the process should pursue their needs.
3. Years ago, it was an act that should only be taken while in wedlock. In these days, it is done freely without regret or disgrace in some matters. When sex comes into play between people who love each other, it is a means of a greater expression.

ANewLevel4Us 39M/38F

7/24/2005 7:03 am

Because we are in a long term relationship, I feel sex is first and foremost because we care about each other. Some nights, it does feel more like a sporting event... but it's all about wanting to make each other feel good - thus, the caring part of it all.

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