Profile Pictures?  

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
3114 posts
3/26/2005 4:55 am

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Profile Pictures?

Why do some many women say they hate seeing penis pictures? Well, I can understand to be honest. I ask because I have tested it and my profile got more hits when I had a penis picture on it then it do with a face or body picture on it. Why would it get more hits with the penis picture then the other pictures if so many women claim they don’t want to see them?

HelgaBScratched 33
4 posts
3/28/2005 10:11 pm

Well, think about the life of the women who say "I hate looking at penises" Are they getting their cookies? Campare to the women who go to this site. If you were viv a vis this women may have been lying. I know I can say a lot more on the web.
Or maybe you have a dreamy dream.

DanaeKC 45F
608 posts
3/28/2005 7:20 am

Hmm. Well, here's my minority opinion: penises only look the same if you have no interest in them; or are actively avoiding them (or putting up the front you're avoiding them) in spite of having an interest in them. Men do indeed have a sexual interest in penises (do I measure up?), it just isn't of the exact sort of interest (would I let it impregnate me?) women have.

Men are very visual creatures -- they'll be the first to tell you -- so why would men all of a sudden become blind to their rivals? It doesn't work like that. It doesn't make sense... unless men are lying.

Men size each other up all the time, am I blessed, am I deficient, do I measure up, ***am I normal***. That would have to include the base physical.

It's when it comes to admitting it.... I think there's a bit of homophobia in some men's refusal to recognize the beauty of men, as they would recognize the beauty of women. The same men who say penises all look the same, or that they don't notice the penis pics will probably wax poetic over tits and/or ass and/or feet (I don't know why the vagina doesn't rate as beautiful in the same fashion, however).

As for women and face pics, women get stalked. Women also know what men what. Men don't want faces.

Men want tits and ass.

At least, at first. Men don't complain about tits and ass shots, because men are allowed to enjoy tits and ass shots. And women want to feel wanted, so women are more than happy to give tits and ass shots. Women who put up tits and ass shots, be they boudoir or bare naked, get more hits than women who put up normal shots or no shots. So the easiest way towards gaining acceptance is to give men what they want, here. And it feels good to be accepted as a sexual, attractive, desireable human being.

Men also want to feel wanted, want to be desired, though. A woman doesn't have to have a college degree and a 'good career' to net a man. She doesn't even have to be single. A man, though... how can a man compete, if he doesn't have a college degree or a lot of post-secondary; doesn't have a 'wow' job or nationality; is married, is 'normal'? if he can think with his tongue better than he can put it all down with pen (or keypad)? doesn't have a body by Bally?

He gives what he can, setting himself up to judgement of the one vulnerability all men, regardless of orientation, have.

He gives his cock.

Does he measure up? Is he considered 'endowed'? Is he deficient? Is he envied? Is he shot down? Is he **normal**? Is he desireable, above all?

There's more to a genital pic than just the genitals. And that's why, beyond the fact that every penis *is* different (and beautiful for being different, while the same), you have to be more forgiving to the cock shots that are real.

Saying all that, the fake ones and the folks who sport them can go straight to hell. Or wherever they feel most comfortable getting their jerk on, alone.

goddess30093 61F

3/27/2005 5:32 am

I am in the "seen one ya seen em all" category...and it is so overdone...why not try using your wonderful writing skills to WOO a woman into your lair instead of a penis picture which puts you with the rest of the cattle on AdultFriendFinder? I find it much more attractive to begin a dialogue with someone before exchanging erotic photos. Enjoyed your blog!

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
3/27/2005 4:38 am

I agree, with all three of you. I have noticed that many of the women who claim they want a face pic don't have a face pic.

And yeah, pretty much all penises look the same, at least in pictures.

rm_lickeetung 59F

3/26/2005 12:27 pm

To be quite honest........if you've seen one, you've seen them all. Why you get more hits with a penile photograph......this I cannot explain. I only speak for myself.......perhaps I am the minority.

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