Ladies: How Do You Feel About Pornography In The Relationship?  

LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
3114 posts
2/26/2005 5:25 pm

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Ladies: How Do You Feel About Pornography In The Relationship?

How do you women feel about pornography?

Would you allow it into your relationship?

Do you like your man looking at or masturbating to the sight of other women?

LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
1241 posts
3/4/2005 7:01 pm

I feel the same way. I think we all have our fantasies. I think it is ok to be aroused by a image or thought, but to use that image or thought as a substitute is not ok. If I was dating a woman who prefered pron over me I would dump her. If a woman ever was having sex with me while dreaming or thinking of another I would dump her. As long as it does not effect our relatiosnhip then that is fine, but only if it does not effect anything. I don't know if that makes sense to anyone else though LOL...


3/4/2005 4:03 pm

Sure, pornography has its place in a relationship on the provisor that it is something that is shared not a visual prompt for a man to become aroused. I should be the only visual stimulate he needs, if he brings an image of a phatom woman to bed with me then I simply get out of bed... Surely the physical is better than a phantom... Whats your opinion?

HolyLivingFuck 34F
5 posts
2/26/2005 10:31 pm

Well, I'm a lesbian, so I obviously can't comment on whether or not I approve of *men* viewing pornography. However, I'll say that I'm a big fan, provided that it's well done. I'm enough of a girl to admit that I prefer written pornography to visual (though I do adore visual... the problem is that I prefer to watch girls, and it's hard to find girl/girl porn that isn't painfully artificial), but I'd say that it's all the same thing.

And of course I would allow it in my relationship! Hell, I hope that my entirely theoretical girl would have as an active fantasy life!

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