Do people actually read profiles?  

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
3114 posts
8/22/2005 5:25 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Do people actually read profiles?

I really wish people would read a profile before sending emails or winks out…

The last 4 winks I have gotten have been by younger girls seeking an out-going guy because they are shy girls. Well my profile clearly states that I am a pretty shy guy. Sure I am out going online but in real life and very shy when first meeting someone.

I also do not do one-night stands and I have gotten a few emails recently from a couple of local gals that where inviting me to go party with them. Sorry but I don’t do that crap either!


I am sure some of you are just as frustrated by this lack of understanding as I am?

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
8/23/2005 10:36 am

I am glad that you liked those pieces (blogs) Atomic...

They are to long for most people to desire to read...

Thankfully a few people have indeed read them though...

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
8/23/2005 10:28 am

I think it breaks down to a maturity issue page_me...

It is sad to say but a lot of people do not reach reasonable levels of maturity till their middle years now. It use to be 15 to 25 where adults were acting like adults. Now it seems most people are 40 or 50 years old before they reach what I would consider adulthood.

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
8/23/2005 10:27 am

I am glad atomic...

I have not had any women local to me contact me yet...

I am sure that at some point I will have one find me. Normally however it is me finding them...

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
8/23/2005 10:25 am

Realmom I have to disagree with that...

I have never been spammed by someone emailing me. If I email them then often you will get a spam reply but not if they are the ones who contact you. You have better luck by a girl contacting you because it shows she is actually real.

angelcoed1980 37F

8/22/2005 11:35 pm

I totally agree with that. In my profile it clearly states I don't do one-nighters and that I expect a guy to come up with something interesting to say to me and yet I still get the "I am cuummmmming on cam for you" and a bunch of bologna like that.


rm_page_me 49F
1 post
8/22/2005 8:17 pm

I think some people do read profiles,but on the other hand many don't. I understand what you mean "been there done that"....I have had my share of"Let's @#&$ and forget about everything" type of responses and winks.

AtomicKisss 59M

8/22/2005 7:48 pm

Oh, one more comment... Folks, in my opinion, the above listed blogs are well worth reading - check them out.

AtomicKisss 59M

8/22/2005 7:44 pm

Hmmm, it just goes to show you how different people are. A lady called me this weekend for something casual (my profile indicates that I want something long-term). I was glad and flattered to oblige.

realmom2 60M/52F

8/22/2005 6:23 pm

The young girls who are sending you winks are phonies. They want you to respond so they can try to convince you to join they're websites, they're not here to meet people, they're here to get your money. BEWARE

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