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LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
3114 posts
3/4/2005 2:36 pm

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I do not understand why so many men out there are so skeptical over this issue. Is it because you are afraid that people would think you are bi-sexual or homosexual?

Just because you have something slid into you butt does not mean you are bi or gay.

I have been toying with anal play since nearly when I first began masturbating. Often I do not like anything to actually go in there, but sometimes just running my finger over the opening when I am ejaculating actually makes me have a heavier orgasm.

The whole point is added stimulation, it can increase pleasure or it can add a second sensation to help keep your mind off your penis.

Toys are always a very fun thing too! If you can’t get a toy then there are plenty of household items that could be used in their place.

Once again, just cause you have something touching it or in it will not make you bi or gay (unless it is a real penis). Sexual security is a big issue, be comfortable with who you are and have some fun!

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2 posts
3/10/2005 3:03 am

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RompsOasisDavit 63M
2 posts
3/6/2005 2:20 am

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LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
1241 posts
3/5/2005 7:03 pm

Very well said m'lady. I agree, I do not think that many others feel that way though... I have enough troubles in my own life, I do not have time or even a desire to judge another.

rm_iLoveMyBOB 43F
10 posts
3/5/2005 2:09 pm

You have a good point with this story, I've seen many thoughts / questions etc. about things like this, on here and in other places.

Experimenting on the sexual issues / feelings is still 'not done' for many, or at least not talked about...

Being open and true, at least to yourself and your feelings, is one of the most important things one can be, for it helps us understand ourselves better and even can help us intensify our relationships with others.

If you know where you stand you can communicate that to others which can lead to a better mutual understanding and / or pleasure.

And as to 'being' gay or bisexual... or bi-curious, or straight... it's all in how one feels about themselves. Who am I to judge anyone who has feelings that are just different than my own? Everyone acts on their own experiences.

LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
1241 posts
3/4/2005 6:52 pm

I agree, I didn't mention it. You are only gay or bi if you do it on a continual basis. One of the girls I am friends with use to be gay. She hasn't had a relationship with a woman now in 7 years so no one can actually call her gay or even bi-sexual anymore.

I don't think having a attraction to a member of the opposite sex makes you gay either. It only actually changes reference when and if you make a action. A few times only counts as experimentation though.

So overall I agree with you, thank you for pointing that out.


3/4/2005 6:25 pm

Even if it is a real penis it doesn't necessarily make you bi or queer either. You could be experimenting to see if it's something you might enjoy, or it could be something your lover wants to see do and you do it for her...there's a lot of different aspects and situations to look at.

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