Advice Needed...  

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
3114 posts
8/2/2005 5:27 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Advice Needed...


I am not sure what to do with it…

I have gotten some wonderful compliments on the detail I gave in giving a woman a sponge bath. Should I use the same methods for the explanation of using food during sex and massage in general?

I was thinking of doing the factual parts first for my book and then in the next section incorporate them into a short erotic story so that the readers could see how it is used in both ways.

I am not sure how well this would work though…

I want the readers to learn and if I get them all hot and bothered with erotic stories then it will decrease the likelihood of them actually learning much.

Violet Blue did this in a couple of her books though and I think it was a very nice touch. It gives a small break to the brain in regards to pumping to much information into it so fast.

What are your thoughts?

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
8/4/2005 2:06 pm

I agree sxy...

We all learn differently though and sometimes it is useful to study something and then see it in action. I wouldn't use many stories even if I did any at all. Just to help explain the more complicated techniques.

I will be using a lot of drawings as well to cover the techniques.


rm_Sxybadboi23 35M

8/4/2005 8:58 am

I think you need to decide whether your book is education or hands on. If it is purely eduacation, stray from the sotries and stick to the facts. If you want a hands on book, try using some pictures or giving them step by step instructions. I think the stories add a chessy touch to what sounds like an inteleqtual book.


LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
8/2/2005 5:41 pm

The only problem is that my book isn't intended as a learning point of someones own sexuality. It is designed to help men learn how to act like a gentleman and to treat people with better respect.


demonicsexkitten 42F
10688 posts
8/2/2005 1:14 pm

well, maybe make a companion book? to be included with or sold seperately. but i agree it would give a nice break to have it incorporated.


rm_figher8 62F

8/2/2005 12:10 pm

Hi, I think U should send me your sponge bath story for a start. It sounds sexsational.

My opinion is that U should consider revising your eroticism as to help people think about their own sexuality not wantonly decrease their ability to think/lean much.

You would intuitively know how sexy U are. Who else U want to make feel sexy?


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