A Modern Translation... Awakening the Goddess within (Part Three)  

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
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A Modern Translation... Awakening the Goddess within (Part Three)

Understanding the Penis
(Frequently asked questions and general information)

Do women prefer BIG dicks? SURE, plenty get totally turned on by size…a real-life “fill’er up” fantasy. But the majority of women prefer the comfort of an average sized penis and a sensitive lover who knows what to do with it. Since most of a woman’s sexual pleasure comes from her clitoris and the outer two inches of her vagina (which contain most of the nerve endings), it’s a thicker penis that ultimately has a lot more going for it.” ‒ The penis by: Joseph Cohen

“Men are often embarrassed or ashamed when they compare the size of their unerect lingams with those of other men. However, an unerect lingam is not an accurate gauge of the size of an erect one. Generally men with larger unerect lingams experience less change in size during the transition from unerect to erect states. But men with smaller unerect lingams experience drastic changes in sure during the transition from unerect to erect.” ‒ Sextasy by: Caroline Aldred

“Men are born with as large a variety of weapons as of faces. It all depends on nature. A considerable number of short men have long weapons, while a similar number of tall men have short weapons. Thin, weak men often have thick, hard weapons; tall, well-built men often have small weak ones.” ‒ Su-Nu-Miao-Lun

“There is a saying that a man whose lingam is very long will always be poor. One whose lingam is very thick will always be in distress. A man who has a thin and lean one will be lucky, and a person whose lingam is short may well become a king.” ‒ Ananga Ranga

In today’s society, people seem to mostly only care about bigger and better things. They are unable to ever accept things and even people for who and what they are. They want more money, a better job, a nicer automobile, a larger house, smaller taxes, and this list goes on and on. We have a lot of women today who go around constantly talking about how good a large penis is and how useless a small penis is. We see television commercials about erectile dysfunction and the need for Viagra. Millions of people surf the Internet today and one of the biggest things you will find is advertisements on how to increase the size of your penis. With all these factors, is it really any wonder why so many men are worried about the size of their penis?

Gentleman you need not worry, nor do you need surgery, growth pills, penis pumps, or any other kind of enlargement aid that is advertised. All you really need is education! With the right mix of knowledge and experience you can learn to overcome any possible size difference in which you may possibly encounter. Sometimes size does matter, but it is very complicated.

Here are the answers to the most commonly asked questions and concerns I have seen. The following is just the information about size differences and I will address how to overcome them in step by step instruction later on.


Circumcision is when the foreskin (prepuce) is removed from the penis. This procedure has been being practiced for thousands of years, for a variety of different reasons. It would seem that circumcision is a primary practice amongst certain cultures and religions. It is very common for Jews and Muslims to be circumcised, as well as ethnic groups in Africa, India, and the United States. For a long time doctors taught that having the prepuce (foreskin) removed (circumcised) reduced the risks of various diseases. It is a debated fact that circumcised men are less likely to contract HIV, Herpes, and Syphilis while engaging in un-protected sexual activities. It is not a sure-fire guarantee, but they have in fact claimed that uncircumcised men have a slightly higher risk to those types of diseases. The biggest problem with being uncircumcised is that a substance called “smegma” can build up underneath the foreskin of the penis if a man does no keep it cleaned. Smegma is a whitish (cottage cheese) substance that forms or gathers around the base of the penis where the foreskin and head connect to each other. Smegma is in fact a natural lubrication that helps the foreskin slide back and forth over the penis during vaginal, anal, oral, or manual stimulation. The problem comes from the odors that can result if this substance is not properly cleaned. Some men and women may find this odor to be very arousing while others could find it to be very repulsive. Not only does smegma form around the base of the foreskin of uncircumcised males, but it can also (and normally does) form between the clitoral hood and clitoris on a woman. As long as these men and women practice good hygiene and bath regularly, then smegma building up should not be an issue.

A helpful note: If you are uncircumcised you must remember to retract the foreskin on a regular basis. Failure to do so can result in the foreskin tightening up and making it impossible to retract. In the event of this happening you must see a doctor who will perform a minor surgery to cut away some of the skin and this will allow it to freely retract over the head of the penis again. Some doctors may just perform a complete circumcision instead, however that is not necessary. I had this happen to me when I was 17, my family doctor did a minor cut as I just mentioned and it solved the problem.

There are many people who believe that being circumcised will toughen up the head of the penis and thus help increase the amount of durability it has during sexual intercourse. This does in fact make sense because the exposed head of the penis is in constant friction with clothing all day long, for years and years on end. The uncircumcised male does not undergo that regular friction as the foreskin covers the head of the penis and protects it. While it may seem that circumcised men last longer before ejaculation, you must remember that their penis is obviously less sensitive then an uncircumcised mans. For those women who really care about the pleasure that their partner receives, then they would most likely prefer an uncircumcised male? Women who care more about their own sexual pleasure (and care little for the man) will most likely prefer a circumcised male. A circumcised male appears to have a rougher drier looking penis as well. This drier, firmer texture could also increase friction and thus increase the sexual pleasure for a woman. Often (if you look closely) you will find that the cut penis has more vein exposure which some women may find very unattractive. Once again however, there will also be some women who find this to be very attractive.

Overall I must say that males are born with this skin for a reason and thus should not have it removed. It provides a great deal of protection from various hazards such as… heat, cold, moisture, possible chemicals, and numerous other possibilities. There is no clear advantage or disadvantage in terms of sex though as they both provide very good advantages and disadvantages; it is all a matter of personal taste.

For those men who encounter women who only desire a man who is circumcised I would suggest asking her how she would feel about having a “clitoridectomy” done. The clitoridectomy is when the clitoral hood and clitoris are removed from a woman’s body. Removing the clitoris from a woman is not equal to a male being circumcised, but removing the clitoral hood from a woman would be virtually identical in function as removing the foreskin from the penis is on a male. Seeing as though the clitoris has nearly as many (if not more) nerve endings than the head of a man’s penis, then removing that skin would expose that sensitive area to constant friction much like a circumcised male’s penis experiences when he is walking around on a daily basis. I guarantee that no woman would volunteer for this and if you mention it then she should be intelligent and never make comments about men and circumcision again. A lot of women feel that a man should not have a right to butt their noses into abortion rights and birth control debates… I feel the same way about women commenting about a man being circumcised. If you are not a male, you have no right to request this of one unless you yourself are willing to undergo an equal kind of surgery.

Does penis size vary by race?

According to a lot of research studies, there are in fact some significant differences in penis sizes amongst various races. The following is the results of some various studies conducted to find the answer to this question…

In 1979, Gebhard & Johnson conducted a study on penis size amongst white men and black men, and released the following results. 32.3 % of black men had a flaccid penis length of 4.5 inches or higher. 3.4 % of the black men had a flaccid penis length of 3 inches or less. 11.3% of white men had a flaccid penis length of 4.5 inches or higher. 16.2% had a flaccid penis length of 3 inches or less. 16.6% of black men had an erect penis length of over 7 inches. 7.6% of the white men had an erect penis length of over 7 inches.

In 1995, Rushton presented a very informative table based upon the World Health Program on AIDS Specifications and Guidelines for Condom Procurement. The report stated that about 80% of Thai men had erect penises from 5 inches to 5 7/ 8 inches long. About 80% of white American men had erect penises from 5 inches to 6 7/ 8 inches long. And, about 80% of African-American men had erect penises from 5 7/ 8 inches to 7 1/ 8 inches long. The reported circumference between white Americans and African-Americans were similar. The Thai men, however, tended to have lesser girth. Fifty-three percent of the Thai men, but only 18% of the white men and 13% of the black men had an erect penis circumference of 4 7/ 8 inches or less.

As you can see from just these two examples, there is most certainly a difference in penis size (both length and thickness) amongst the different races. Now we know that each race has different averages then the other ones, but penis size also varies within each race as well. Regardless of race, every man on Earth has a different sized and shaped penis.

The Kama Sutra’s Three Categories of Lingam (Penis)

Shasha = The Hare

This is the lingam that does not exceed 5 inches when fully erect.

Vrisha = The Bull

This is the lingam that does not exceed 7 inches when fully erect.

Ashwa = The Horse

This is the lingam that is about 10 inches when fully erect.

The Kama Sutra is without a doubt one of the most famous sexual writings ever produced. It was written nearly 2,000 years ago and as you can see, even back then they knew that penis sizes varied from person to person.

Does size MATTER?

In 1996, Blanchard & Levine interviewed 300 women. In response to the question “Does penis size matter?” 77% of the women said yes and 23% said no. When asked, “What erect penis size do prefer?” 1% said 2 to 4 inches, 33% said 4 to 6 inches, 50% said 6 to 8 inches, 8% said over 8 inches, and 8% said that the size did not matter. When asked, “Does length or girth matter most?” 36% said length and 64% said girth. It would appear that the most desired length is average to slightly above average, and overall girth seems to matter most.

In 1997, Edwards conducted an Internet survey. When asked, “During sex, how important is the length of a mans penis?” 25% of them said, “very important,” 58% “somewhat important,” and 16% “not important.” When asked, “During sex, how important is the girth of a mans penis?” 46% said, “very important,” 46% “Somewhat important,” and 8% “not important.” It would appear here that once again women claim that the girth of a man’s penis is the largest factor.

To a degree I would have to say that the answer to this is yes, but it is complicated to sorts. In some instances a man’s penis will be to large for the vagina in which it is trying to enter. In other instances it may be that the penis penetrating the vagina is actually way too small. The Kama Sutra has noted that vaginal sizes vary from woman to woman just as penis size does from man to man.

The Kama Sutra’s Three Types of Yoni (Vagina)

Mrigi = Female Deer

This is the Yoni that does not exceed 5 inches in depth.

Vadava = A Mare

This is the Yoni that does not exceed seven inches in depth.

Hastini = Female Elephant

This is the Yoni that is about 10 inches in depth.

Now in all honesty, after looking at these charts, one has to admit that size is in fact going to become a factor. Comparing the classes of the penis and the vagina based off the Kama Sutra’s measurements, it would seem logical that a deer-woman with a 5-inch deep vagina would have trouble housing a horseman with a 10-inch long penis. Is it possible? Sure it is, but you won’t get it to fit until the vagina stretches out over the course of several weeks or months during semi-frequent sexual activities. The vagina can stretch a little, but 5 inches is a lot, therefore you have to slowly try to get a little more in each time you have sex and thus eventually the vagina will expand to match the penis. Obviously there are a lot of people who do not like to have to go through this much trouble when they are having sex. Two people who are actually in love with each other would be more than willing to do what is necessary to enhance their sexual activities and pleasures. Most people in today’s society however, have sex very quickly, meaning they do not actually take the time to get to know one another and normally just start having sex by the first or second date. These kinds of people only want immediate sexual pleasure and are not as passionate and caring towards others as a couple whom actually loves one another is. For this reason you must try and aim for someone who physically matches you. The following would be the best matches in which the sizes should not cause a hindrance.

Hare = Deer, Mare

Bull = Mare, Elephant

Horse = Elephant

Using those matches should mean that the penis is always the same size or slightly smaller then the vagina in which it is penetrating. One of the biggest issues for having a penis that is too big for the vagina is that the penis will bottom out (hit her cervix). I have never heard of or met a woman that likes something directly slamming into her cervix. If you pay close attention to the list, then you will notice that the large horse has less options then the hare and bull. Technically the hare could also engage with an elephant woman as well. The problem here though is that the penis is significantly smaller then the vagina and thus the woman may not get much feeling (pleasure) from it. Really, the smartest thing to do is get to know someone a little bit before you actually have sex with him or her. Take the opportunity to talk with them about there past sexual experiences and some of the problems they have encountered as well as some of the positive things they have experienced. If you happen to be a man with a large penis and you are talking to a woman who says she has felt great pain from a large penis before, then it is a clear sign to you that you better be careful. It would also be smart to admit to her that you have a larger penis, it may be possible that it would scare her and then she would not want sex. On the other hand it could show that you care and thus might help her relax seeing as you have just told her it crossed your mind. By telling her it is on your mind, it shows her that you are being cautious and considerate about it. Most women love a mindful and sensitive lover! Sometimes when a large penis is within a smaller vagina then it is obviously going to physically stretch her, some women may specifically want to feel this and therefore they will aim for the man with a larger penis. Some women desire to feel pain during sexual intercourse and there is not much you can do about this. You will never know which way she will feel about it until you talk about it.

The second biggest factor when it comes to the penis really has more to do with shape and thickness of the head (glans) then it does overall length. Some penises are shaped like a pencil, which is where the term “pencil dick” comes from… meaning they are thick in the shaft and yet have a very narrow and pointy-head. Some have a large head and a narrow shaft very similar to that of a mushroom. Obviously in this situation the mushroom shaped penis is going to provide the most pleasure to a woman because it evenly grips her vagina and g-spot (discussed later). The thicker pencil shaped penis will grip well with the shaft but the head is not going to provide much stimulation. Which do you think a woman would rather have… a penis that grips her thoroughly or a penis that slides in and out easily without causing much friction? Less friction would obviously result in much less pleasure. There are not many women that desire to be poked, but all women at least want to be able to feel you. Once again, if you choose your sexual positions wisely and communicate with your partner, then you can overcome this potential handicap.

The third factor when dealing with the penis… is the shape of the shaft. While I addressed one type of shape a second ago, this type of shape has to do with a curved penis. Some men have small curves, some have large curves, and some are nice and straight. A large or drastic curve in the shaft of your penis can cause a great deal of pain to a woman as it is going to put a lot of stress, pressure and friction to whatever part of her vagina that it is angled at. A small curve can naturally apply a small amount of stress, pressure, and friction to whatever area of the vagina it is angled at. Some women are in fact more sensitive at different areas of her vagina, therefore a small curve (when used correctly) could naturally stimulate those more sensitive places and considerably increase her pleasure. A totally straight penis does not have much to worry about in the department of causing a woman pain from poking her vaginal walls. Instead, the straight man must angle him self more manually when he is trying to get his penis to massage specific parts of the woman’s vagina.

The fourth common factor to this question is the psychological one. The brain is by far the largest sexual organ within the human body. Sometimes women are going to be mentally aroused by the sight of a large penis. If you do not think this possible then perhaps you need to think about the fact that some women love a hot flashy sports car, sometimes they love seeing a large wad of money, sometimes they like seeing a big house. The overall fact being… bigger or larger things often catch the eye very quickly. Some women will be seriously afraid of a large penis and thus stay away from it, while others will be seriously aroused by it.

Regardless of all the above mentioned factors… a man and woman who care about each other will be able to communicate with one another and work through any of these potential problems. If you think any of these are actually an issue with the woman in whom you are sexually involved with, then you need to talk to her about them. The only person who can give the best advice is the person in which you are involved with. It is very possible that you are the only one who cares about size and yet because you care about it, you then assume she does as well. Assumptions can get you into a very big mess therefore you should never actually assume anything. If you are curious about what your partner desires, than by all means… ask her!

The Flaccid Penis (non-erect)

The size of an unerect penis means virtually nothing at all in terms of how big it will be when it’s actually erect. It would appear that a large amount of women in modern society think that flaccid size and erect size have a relationship to one another. Yes a larger flaccid penis will not shrink and therefore it is safe to say that a 6-inch flaccid penis will be at least 6 inches when erect. However, a 2-inch flaccid penis could grow to be 12 inches when erect just the same as an 8 or 9-inch flaccid penis could. Psychologically it would be much more intense (arousing) to see a 2-inch penis grow to be 7 to 10 inches in length then it would be to see an 8 or 9-inch penis only grow to be 10-inches in length. Imagine the excitement a woman must undergo when she unzips a man’s pants to unleash a large, fat flaccid penis and then have it virtually not grow at all when it gets hard. This can in fact become a very depressing thing in which could suddenly and drastically change or lower the level of arousal that she just had.

Penis size and your image

Some men, who are shorter then other men as far as height goes, often develop an attitude problem. They are compensating for that loss, and becoming an arrogant jerk due to a thing such as this, is not a good thing at all. Penis sizes can do the same thing to a man as well. In my observations I have noticed very large differences in attitudes based off “claimed” penis sizes. Men who are smaller have a tendency to lie about it for fear of rejection. They become louder at the mouth and thus are often embarrassing to bring to social or public events. These men are often very insensitive; they care about themselves more so then anything or anyone else. When in a relationship, they tend to be more possessive, cocky and jealous. Men who have a large penis often begin to think and act as if they are some kind of king. They imagine that all women want their big penis and therefore want them. I think we can thank the porn industry for much of this because normally the only man you will see in those movies are men with large or massive penises. The women in these films are also very beautiful (normally) and thus men with a large penis often think, “I can do a lot better then this.” Because of this way of thinking they are often very self-centered as well. While the smaller men are often jealous, cocky and controlling, the larger men are often just plain cocky. They not only strut their stuff at every chance they get, but they always try and make themselves look like the heroic type. Average men tend to be more sensitive, passive, and shy. They fall in between being small and large and thus they seem to naturally know better then to swing any specific way. They are normally the lasts to run their mouth, the last to fight, but the first to finish a fight. As doctors have proven for hundreds of years, the arrogant men who claim to be a hero are not actually the heroes at all. It is normally the shy, quiet types that stand up and become heroes in moments of chaos. Due to the fact large men and short men are so arrogant, loud and aggressive, women tend to believe what they say, because they chase after all the girls they encounter. Passionate, and sensitive men are normally not as open and aggressive and thus resulting in women not meeting them because they are not going to initiate conversation too often. In most cases, it must be the woman to get an average man to come out of his shell.

Your attitude does in fact often reveal the size of your penis. As you have seen with all this information, size does in fact matter a lot at times and at other times it means virtually nothing at all. I think the biggest issue of all… is that people always want bigger and better things, this seems to be more common within the United States than any other country. Men need to learn how to improve their abilities and stop worrying about getting longer, and thicker. We are all made to be something different, what fun would this world be if we were all literally the same? Every man that exists has a different sized and shaped penis, and every woman has a differently sized and shaped vagina. These are the facts of life! By studying sexual positions, oral sex techniques, and various other sexual areas… you can turn virtually any negative into a positive, by either improving something you are good at already, or by learning a few new techniques all together.

LoyaltyandHonor 36M/32F
1241 posts
5/16/2005 7:37 pm

I am updating it.. so it will be different in a few days

leyndokona2 50F

5/16/2005 8:08 am

This has to be one of the longest blogs I have seen on here, don't have time to read it all now but will get back to it. I did read the part about circumcicion and that reminded me about the blog on CoffeeNoCream's blog a while back. There seem to be a lot of different views on that subject here.
I think I'll be telling many of my friends to read this blog, think they can use it.

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